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bjbj Patrick: Welcome to Business Spotlight. I m your host, Patrick Dougher. I have a fabulous
show today. You re going to love it. Let me ask you a question. Have you ever met somebody
who just has it going on? Whatever the is, thing just happen. They show up in their life.
My guest today, you re going to love her. Tonja Waring has a gift of being able to bring
into life the things that she really wants. She s figured out that secret ingredient and
she wants to share so much of it with you. She started international Manifesting Prosperity
clubs. She created whole coaching programs and speaking programs. What s amazing is and
it wasn t long ago - that she was what I call broken, busted. It s a different way to begin,
isn t it? But I think most of us can relate to that. We ve all been there. re going to
love her story. Tonja, thank you so much for being on the show. Tonja: Patrick, thanks
so much for having me. That was quite an intro. Patrick: Thanks. Tonja: It s true. I was on
the couch about two years ago. Someone had mentioned that you never come through life
unscathed. Even though I had success in my life as a successful real estate broker in
two different states when the market crashed, I was one of those people who found myself
going through foreclosure. What I didn t expect was to be going through my second divorce.
I had put out a ton of resumes and I had only received one response. When I got my third
interview and found out I didn t get the job, man, that just hit me hard because I have
three beautiful children to support and I really didn t know what I was going to do.
I remember spending a week putting together everything that I needed for welfare. I tell
people I didn t deserve welfare, meaning that I really felt I was better than that but I
didn t know what to do. Then imagine how I felt when I found out that I was even declined
for welfare. So here I am totally depressed, unsure of what I m going to do next. My heart
was heavy. I was so stressed that I thought I had beginning Alzheimer s. That really added
to, What am I going to do to support my kids? It was one of these days when the kids came
home and they were looking at me while I m lying on the coach. Mom, are you going to
make us dinner? m like, Oh, honey. Grab some money and go to McDonalds. It was about that
time that I remember just being as authentically myself as I had ever been. I just called out
this prayer that said, You know what, God? I am smart. I m beautiful. I m talented. I
m kind. I m honest. I ve always been great at sales. Could you please just bring me something
that is worthy of who I am as a person with that integrity a product, something? ve always
loved helping people, so it was really important to me. It was only a couple weeks later that
the first product showed up. It s a product called Protandim. It healed my brain. It took
care of the stress that my body was under. I started to be able to think more clearly.
It was just a few days after that that a friend of mine said that I should go work for a company
called My Pillow. I didn t even realize at the time that My Pillow was only nine minutes
from my house. The rest is, what they say, is history. A lot of times when we ask for
something and we receive it, we say, Hey, that s not the right thing. I was thinking,
A pillow? Really? A pillow! That s what you brought me? But with that pillow, I traveled
the United States. I started to provide for my family. I ended up writing an ad that appears
in all the major newspapers. It s one of the most profitable ads ever written. It s in
the New York Times, the Wall Street Journal, USA Today. I also was selected to be on their
national infomercial, so I appear on television about 150-180 times a day. Patrick: That s
got to be one of the most viewed infomercials in the country. Tonja: It is. A lot of people
don t recognize me, which I love, but they always recognize my voice. It s just been
amazing. One of the things that I recognize that was really a key to my success was taking
on my own personal law of attraction coach during that time. One of the things I did
was enrolled in a very intense (if there is such a thing) law of attraction coaching certification
program. I never really felt like I wanted to be a coach, but what I really wanted to
do was immerse myself so I could understand the ups and downs in my own life, so I could
start getting on a more even keel. That s one of the things that I accomplished being
able to create prosperity in my own life in such a way that I was able to move to a warmer
climate, which is what I wanted. I found a better school system for my kids. My kids
are thriving. Even for myself, I just wanted to be in a more vibrant, alive community.
That s one of the things that was my desire that Manifesting Prosperity had allowed for
me to do. Patrick: No kidding. I know it s also been able to bring you multiple streams
of income. You ve been able to help a number of business owners and really speak a level
of truth to a number of associations that, when they hear that message, they begin to
get realigned. ve seen your impact on others and it s almost like a tuning fork. You walk
into a room and you begin to touch somebody and speak to them in a way that basically
clears the fog and then helps them change their state to one that s more in line with
being able to receive. Something that you say and is something I believe is all things
are possible through God. Tonja: Yes. Patrick: Everything is possible that we want to do
or have or be in our life. That s the thing that is so important with what we re going
to talk about today. As we go through the next few segments of this show, I want to
talk about what you re doing to create the success you re having, who you re trying to
reach, and how people can connect with you. I know we ve got a special day coming in September
that you ve created. I m excited about that, and I ll tell you we ll have more right after
this break. Patrick: Welcome back to Business Spotlight. I m Patrick Dougher. My guest today
is Tonja Waring of HYPERLINK "http://www.ManifestingProsperityClubs.com" www.ManifestingProsperityClubs.com . She has
a really amazing story for you. One of the things that she has a real gift to do is teach
you how you can become more prosperous. How many of us attract all kinds of noise in our
life? Here s an opportunity to meet somebody who can really give you some keys, some tools,
some tips, and some wisdom that I know you purchased at a great price. Thanks so much,
Tonja. Tonja: Thank you, Patrick. Patrick: I want to get into some of the things that
you re doing. I know that you do speaking. You created the Manifesting Prosperity Clubs
International. You created it at a local level. You do mastermind groups. You do group coaching.
You do everything. With that in mind, what are some of the things that you see coming
up that are really in line with your vision? Tonja: One of the things that happened shortly
after I had this major breakthrough in my own prosperity is I started to have this vision.
Wouldn t it be awesome and spectacular if there was a community for people like myself
who really wanted to immerse themselves in the laws of manifesting? A lot of times it
goes away beyond anything that we ve learned, or it s difficult to implement it if you ve
looked at it in a book or you ve heard it on a radio show. Even though we offer all
of that, it was really about creating a community. When I started to have my own personal law
of attraction coach, one of the first things I noticed is he cut short my story to continually
talk about those things that were really not what I wanted to create. He would always bring
me back and give me tips, tools, and techniques for starting to design and develop the life
that I always imagined for myself. My role in all of this is really to create a platform
for people to begin creating the life that they ve always imagined for themselves and
to let them know that is possible. You mentioned With God, all things are possible, but I truly
believe that God wants us to be joyful in our lives, and joy is really the key to success.
Manifesting Prosperity Clubs is an online group. We host MeetUps. We have an international
MeetUp group. re actually doing Manifesting Prosperity International Day on September
9, 2012. I m very excited about that. It s where we can all come together and start to
create and share our success. That s really important, too. When we start to have success,
we want to be able to share that with others and show that gratitude because that s what
keeps the momentum of continuing to receive that success in our lives. That s really important.
For people who want to take their law of attraction or their Manifesting Prosperity to a new level,
that s where the mastermind groups come in. This is a once a month meeting of like minds.
I try and put people who want to achieve similar goals. Typically, it s businesspeople and
entrepreneurs, but anybody can join. What we do is get together and assist each other
in taking business to the next level. All of our programs are really designed for people
who are successful already, but maybe they want to create more love, more joy, more money
in their life and they just need a little tweaking or fine-tuning to do that. Patrick:
I would imagine that a lot of people don t realize those are all consistent in your process.
Some people think money comes at a cost of joy and other things. Though there have been
people businesspeople or whoever who have walked in a state of working themselves to
death, you really show people that their emotions are more important than they could ever imagine.
Tonja: Absolutely. I grew up on a cattle ranch. That was an environment where work was very
important. I started driving tractors when I was seven. I worked three jobs to put myself
through college. My whole way of winning was to work 70-80 hours a week. With three kids
that I wanted to be there for emotionally and spiritually, I knew that I had to find
a different way. The way that I found and it seems so counterintuitive to the way I
was raised was really to be as joyful as possible. In selling My Pillow, the first thing I did
was started to look at my words and how I could influence people to sell pillows. Then
I had an inspired thought. What if I just became uber joyful in the booth of all this
sea of people who were selling products? What if I just became that joyful person who just
attracted people? What I saw is my sales just skyrocketed. One of the most beneficial things
we can do is really manifest our joy, whatever that takes. You talked about being a tuning
fork when I walk into a room. That s what attracts people and opportunity to me. More
than anything that I know, it s about who I m being and being that light or joy or just
really expecting life to hand me great things. Patrick: I agree. I think one of the things
that a lot of people can really walk away with is being authentically enthusiastic or
filled with that light that really changes things. That s the thing that can be so powerful
in bringing what you want into your life. m a firm believer that in God s presence is
fullness of joy. That s just literally taking it to a level of, m going to be enthusiastic
and bring a light and a life always to the people around me. ve got more to come on this
show. You re going to learn more about who this message is really for and what it can
do for you. We ll be right back. Patrick: Welcome back to Business Spotlight. Patrick
Dougher here with Tonja Waring. She is the Manifesting Prosperity diva, is what I d call
her. You can find her at HYPERLINK "http://www.ManifestingProsperityClubs.com" www.ManifestingProsperityClubs.com re talking
today about bringing those things into your life that you really want. I heard somebody
say the other day (I think it was Oprah) mentioning that you can attract things into your life
and surprises are not always fun. You want to attract the things that you want in your
life. We re going to talk a little bit more about who this message is really for. Tonja:
I think this message is for anybody who has actually experienced success in their life.
There are a lot of ordinary people out there who really want their lives to maintain a
status quo. They don t really put themselves out there. They re pretty happy and content
with how things are. I am someone who is committed to an extraordinary life. Patrick: Very good.
Tonja: I m really wanting to touch those people who want that extraordinary life. Maybe they
don t feel like they can have that anymore. A lot of times we look to our past. We look
to what we ve accomplished or haven t accomplished. We look to our parents, our siblings, our
friends. What are they doing over there? Have you ever walked into a living room and you
just sat down and started watching TV, and then about 15 minutes later you realize you
ve been watching something you have absolutely no interest in? That s how most of us create
our lives. m committed to working with people who want to create the life that they ve always
imagined for themselves. It s a lot easier than you think. I use a process called Future
Visioning that actually steps us out about two years into our future so that we can actually
start to see what kind of life we want to create for ourselves. A lot of the time what
we do is either look at tomorrow or we look too far out (like 10 years). I call it the
Procrastination Subconscious Mind. If we re too far out, we go, Oh, we can do that tomorrow.
Or if we re too close, we go, Oh, I can t do that. It s too soon. Just finding the right
spot to really create the vision that you want to start manifesting from, there are
all kinds of processes to use. ve decided that I m going to move to a warmer climate
that s a powerful affirmation. Have you ever noticed that a lot when you use affirmations,
they just don t seem to resonate they don t feel good? Well, when we use something like,
ve decided to it takes all the pressure off. We re not having an internal struggle with
our mind and we can actually start to align the energy so we can start moving in that
direction. I think any entrepreneur/business owner who really wants to move their business
to the next level, maybe a business woman like myself who has the challenge of raising
a family, going to work, or working in their own business is a lot to manage. I have some
tools of the trade for that that have made my life a lot easier. I can honestly say I
don t think my kids have suffered one bit from me working for myself because I do it
in such an efficient, loving way that they easily get included and I have developed the
ability to accomplish a lot more in less time. For anybody who feels like they ve been hitting
their head against the wall working really, really hard, I like to just teach them some
simple tricks that they can still implement in their business about 95% of the way. It
s just the little tweaks that give them more time, money, freedom, and even more love in
their life as their relationships start to flourish
as well. Patrick: I hope you ve gotten some of the tips that we re talking about here
are ask and it will be given, be open to receive, write a big check, have fun with this and
I believe you re going to see more coming into your life. We ll be right back. Patrick:
Welcome back to Business Spotlight. I m Pat Dougher. Tonja Waring is my guest and we re
having a blast. Manifesting Prosperity ( HYPERLINK "http://www.ManifestingProsperityClubs.com"
www.ManifestingProsperityClubs.com ) is really about bringing in the things into your life
that you really want, isn t it? Isn t that a definition of prosperity? It s not just
dollars in the bank. It s everything moving the way that you really want. Tonja has been
sharing a great deal about how to do exactly that. Tonja, thanks for being on the show.
Tonja: I m just so excited to be here. Patrick: One of the things I really want to get into
this time is how to connect to you. People have listened to your story and go, I want
more. I want to live that extraordinary life. How can they begin to connect to you? Tonja:
The absolute easiest way to connect to me is HYPERLINK "http://www.ManifestingProsperityClubs.com"
www.ManifestingProsperityClubs.com . There you ll find a whole host of resources from
mentoring and coaching if you want that personal one-on-one, if you want to join a mastermind
group, if you simply want to become a member and take advantage of some of the free resources
we have like affirmation CDs our Mega Magnetizing CD. Those are some of my favorites because
those are products that really helped me. I want to make those available to everybody.
At Manifesting Prosperity Clubs, if you re a leader, if you re someone who really likes
to take information and teach others, this is a perfect place to come and get support
as a leader by creating your own Manifesting Prosperity Club. ve got all the training provided
so that you can start your own club. You can visit our international MeetUp site where
you can create a Manifesting Prosperity Club in other countries. You can create local clubs.
It will take you to a MeetUp site as well. There s really something for everyone. ManifestingProsperityClubs.com
is really the platform to teach people the art of manifesting in such a way that they
can teach others. My goal and purpose in creating Manifesting Prosperity Clubs is that we will
be a million members strong within just three years. I see 30,000 clubs around the world.
I see a conversation that really changes lives. When we change the lives of businesspeople,
parents like myself, it really impacts our children. That s something that s really important
to me. I know I m teaching my kids the laws of manifesting prosperity and teaching them
how to really create what it is that they want to have in their lives. A lot of times,
as kids, when we grew up, there s a lot of you can . We get conditioned to believe limited
amounts of things about ourselves. I want them to know that they are unlimited. They
can achieve anything that their heart really desires for them to have. That goes for everybody
out there. Patrick: I know the biggest challenge I see is folks don t allow themselves. They
just fight it whether it s they feel unworthy even if they don t use that word. They just
don t allow themselves. What would you say to somebody who wants what you ve got? Tonja:
There is a structure to manifesting. There are different ways that people go about manifesting.
Some are more spiritual. Some are more practical. There s something for everyone. In our clubs,
the meeting structure is the same every week so that you are getting empowered and supported
in manifesting. You ve got a community there that s really cheering you on and looking
at those successes with you in sharing in your enthusiasm. That sounding board is what
s really important. I know that we can watch videos and go to YouTube. We can go to all
these places and find this information. This isn t new information. But it s a place where
you can come and be part of a like-minded community that s up to the same thing in life.
There are a million ways to parent a child. There are a million ways to manifest. But
from these, you can really pick that system or that CD or that book that really resonates
with you so that it feels right and you feel good about doing it. It aligns with your values,
your beliefs, and it s something that you can take in for yourself and really start
to create the life that you want. Patrick: One of the things that I m really thankful
for is that you re not worried about everything coming through you. This isn t a Tonja Waring
Show, so to speak. This is really about you helping others help others. Tonja: Right.
It s really interesting you say that, because my biggest fear was that people would think
it was about me. I have plenty to do with my kids. I really have the interest of creating
a structure that goes on without me. This is about people teaching people, learning
and having the tools available. We re always looking for great coaches people have had
success in manifesting who want to share their stories, who want to lead Manifesting clubs.
The best thing to do is visit HYPERLINK "http://www.ManifestingProsperityClubs.com" www.ManifestingProsperityClubs.com and see
how you want to plug yourself in. Patrick: It is going to make a huge difference in your
life. I know if you look at the show today, you re going to see Tonja shared about how
important your emotions are and really charging them walking in an attitude of joy and love
towards others in an authentic way, really releasing yourself to create the life that
you want. I know that as you begin to embrace the tools and visit ManifestingProsperityClubs.com,
you ll learn the keys to bringing into your life everything you ever wanted. This is Pat
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