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Don't married for love, love does not make marriage work ,
Love is not the foundation for marriage
And God said that ignorance is generational.
I want to start by saying that love does not make marriage work
And therefore love is not the foundation for marriage
This statement will caused problems, I know it will.
because we normally get married to someone
because we say we are in love.
I have a few friends and family members
that have been married for 5 - 32 years,
they have had very happy marriages and lots of bad days
over the years.
can this say to you that
love does not make marriage work
don't be fooled by that weirdness of
feeling that you say you have for someone
or endearment to someone that tell you good things
don't get married because you love someone
I love aircraft's
but I can't fly them
you can love something but don't know how to do it.
so it isn't love that's the problem
It's knowledge to function in there.
let's talk a little about love.
through the years I've learned that love does not keep marriage together.
and I believe every divorce viewers could agree with that statement,
If you are divorced today
that means you were once or still in love with that person.
so you didn't lack love
there were some other things that came up in the relationship,
That was stronger and more powerful than the love
whether it was infidelity
unfaithfulness
abuse physically
emotional abuse or mental abuse
whether it's neglect
or your irresponsibility in finances
something came up that became more powerful than the love you had for the person.
which means that love can't save your marriage or relationship
It's tough. Isn't it?
write this down or memorize it.
A successful marriage is a result of
the application of knowledge
and not the exchange of love.
You can be in love young man all you want,
it doesn't make the woman the right women.
You can express your passion to this man all you want,
but that love for that young man
doesn't make him the right one for you
And we need to get this fast
because in the book of Proverbs chapter 4 verse 7.
It said wisdom is supreme so get wisdom
and then all you're getting.
It didn't say love
You'll get what?
UNDERSTANDING!
You want to understand
what it is to be a woman
what it is to be a man
how to live with a human
you want to understand the idiosyncrasies of a female
and uniqueness of a male
you want to understand communication skills
how to manage emotions
how to handle anger
you want to understand the dynamic of disagreements
how to handle unfaithfulness and broken trust
you should understand those things
because if you don't understand those things
you will dump that marriage or relationship
many broken marriages today could have been saved and I'm sure of it.
but the individuals didn't have the equipments
that knowledge to use to fix the situation
no marriage or relationship is irreparable
believe me
but most people either don't know how
or they're just tired of trying and they quit
understandably problems do make you tired
this is why it is important for you to get understanding
like what it says in the book of Hosea chapter 4 verse 6
one event Isline favorite person in the Bible.
It says my people are destroyed
for what?
the lack of KNOWLEDGE.
Here is the part that we Jamaicans always miss,
It says what?
"Because you have rejected knowledge,
I will also reject you" says the Lord.
God is saying that ignorance is a choice
Here's what's important about this verse.
You cannot reject something that was not available
I know.
I'm human too..
I know you're watching getting tired of me
talking about knowledge and books
and
you know you got how at home
but you walk past the bookstore.
Do you know that most of the problems you're facing now
can probably be solved by reading a book?
Or subscribe to Kerri-Ann H TV
for more videos like this?
As Jamaicans we reject knowledge
Have you ever sat in a class like this
and here this type of teaching and
the voice go off in your head.
says boy he should have been here
they should have been here to hear this
what you're saying is that
they missed it,
The rejected opportunity to get knowledge and
Gods say "because you reject knowledge, I reject you
because I cannot help you with what you don't know"
Then he said something very important.
He said
"You cannot be a priest for me".
the word priests means representative
And in this case a sales representative,
every good sales rep knows this
you cannot sell something you know nothing about.
God said "I don't want you to represent me if you're stupid"
"I don't want you to go out and tell people of you know you don't.
stop saying praise the Lord and you can't handle your life.
because you haven't got the material to represent me and you're telling everybody you know me"
He said "don't tell anybody about me please you are messing up my reputation"
and here's the worst part,
"and I must also ignore your children "
what God is saying is that ignorance is generational
what you don't know is transfer to your kids
so if you can't stay married and get it right
you better be careful because your kids may also
be in danger of having the same problems you have
In closing
I'm going say this
if you didn't learn anything from this video
as a fellow Jamaican
I want us to all learn the following;
#1. Learn for your unborn children,
#2. Read a book for your unborn children
#3. Build a foundation for your unborn children...
Because that's what it's about
The less you know, the less they can learn
The more you learn the more you can teach them
because when you have information
you can transfer it to your children
and viewers houses, cars and money only
contributes to a foundation and those things alone
are not a foundation for your kids
says you need to get
knowledge and understanding