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Hi I'm Art Malov from New York Dating coach in New York City. And I'm the author of Park
Bench Dating. In this clip we are going to talk about how to improve dating skills. And
the reality is the only way to improve your dating skills is to date a lot. And to date
a lot you need to approach more, you need to talk more. You have to treat approaching
and dating as skills. So think about it. If you want to meet somebody that you really
like, you need to treat it as a skill. Because if you're just hoping that something is going
to fall on you in to your lap, that might happen, but the chances are it's not likely.
It's like winning in the lottery, you can hope you might win and you will win occasionally,
you know little few dollars here and there but the reality is it's not going to happen.
So treat it as a skill, meaning go on the dates on purpose, get as many dates as you
can and just go in, if you don't like the girl go on a first date. You don't need to
go out on a second date but go there and experience, see how you feel, see what you don't like
about it, what you like about it. See what you like about dating and find the things
that you enjoy doing. So rather then thinking Oh My God, I got a date, think Oh I got a
date! Excellent I'm going to have a lot of fun. And that's what you do to improve in
dating. This is Art Malov and this is how to improve your dating skills.