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What Happens When You Step Into Your Desires Hi this is Tara Marino with Elegant Femme
and welcome to the cozy little nook inside my living room. Itís all rainy outside, a
little chilly, got my flannel on and welcome to my personal surroundings because I actually
have a very personal message I want to share with you. And I was waiting to share this
with you. I actually wanted it to be clear and sunny outside, so I was waiting from yesterday
to today to tomorrow and itís suppose to be raining all week and I ask myself ñ what
am I waiting for? Thatís not what I stand for anyway. In fact those of us women, what
are we waiting for? So Iím not waiting any longer because I have something really, really
special, personal to share with you. You know one of the questions, one of the,
in fact experiences Iím going to say objections really that a lot of women have in their lives
that I hear a lot is ñ I canít live the way I want to live Tara. I cannot step into
my desires and do what it is I want to do. I have to take care of my husband. I have
to take care of my kids. I need to make sure everyone else is good and then maybe then
Iíll give myself permission to step into the desire I really want, right? So many of
us women have been trained that we need to make sure everybody around us that we love
is taken care of and then we can go ahead an honor ourselves.
I want to tell you that that is absolutely not true. In my experience, every time I step
into my desires as a woman, I have gifted the people around me that I love, that I love
the opportunity to step into their desires. One of the questions that I get asked personally
a lot is ñ what about Dave Tara? You know. Youíre running out all your dreams, youíre
going out to France, youíre going off to fashion school, youíre doing all these things
that you love and good for you, you have a husband thatís always supporting you because
itís always what you want, right? Well, I want to share something really personal
with you in what actually has happened behind the scenes because I did say yes to what it
was I wanted. So I want to invite a special guest over here - who already has, I think
his hair going for whatever itís going to be heíll be experiencing.
Tara: Hi. Dave: Hello.
Tara: This is my husband Dave and a few of you have met him. The man, the man in Elegant
Femme and he has a special announcement. So Iím going to actually let you say it out
loud because you are actually in right that part in the Project Desire road map, right
youíre in that part of voice and let you share with everybody and then we are going
to talk to everybody about what is really going on. What are you up to?
Dave: Hello everyone. So Iím actually, itís been a dream of mine for a long, long time
I wanted to take the family sailing across the world. Itís just been something I have
been talking about for a long time and it seemed very far off. And it was always 3 years
later, 3 years later, 3 years later and now a couple of months ago Tara took me on like
a one day sailing trip where we went out and had fun and kind of got to know and see if
it really felt good and it did. And then an amazing opportunity fell into my lap where
I am going to go sailing from France to Mexico for 6 weeks by myself. I leave in about a
week and a half you knowÖ Iím a little bit nervous. Yes so thatís it! Iím sailing across
the Atlantic just me without the kids, without Tara which is going to be tough but itís
going to be good because itís something that I have always wanted to do.
Tara: Youíre not going to be totally by yourself right? You have the skipper; youíve got the
crewÖ Dave: No ñ no, no, no. For the record I donít
even know how to sail. Tara: Yeah thatís it. So think about all
the objections weíve put on our way like ñ I canít sail, I canít draw, I canít
design, I canít sing, I canít act, I canít like whatever it is that youíre really desiring
and you tell yourself you canít do it. Two huge examples: I canít sail and I couldnít
design before we step into some of our most recent desires.
Dave: No there are some other people going. Obviously. Obviously.
Tara: There are other people right? So really what I wanted, first of all this is huge and
personally there is a lot going on inside me emotionally as a woman but I really want
to address Dave not from the wife perspective, more from the desire perspective. How is it
that you really feel, you know that a lot of times when I talk to men there is like
this little boy inside that does want to go on an adventure and go like kind of Tom Sawyer,
you know kind of leave, break away and kind of get into who he really is and go into an
adventure and a lot of guys donít have the opportunity to do that and they go into this
middle age crisis and do whatever they want to you, you know buying corvettes, just to
get that out of the way. So how is it that you are allowing yourself to step into this
desire? Really you didnít have me ask you that question? What is it going on within
you that you said; Iím going to give myself permission as a man to go off and do this
and live this? Dave: WellÖ
Tara: Youíre not scared? Dave: Yeah ñ for the record I am completely
like frightened. Like this is, Iíve never done anything like this. Iíve only gone out
for an hour or two at a time except for that one time and the conditions were amazing,
I am - you know what it is, Iíve seen you do this a lot, continuously and itís inspired
me. I want to do something for me. I want to really enjoy it. Iíve seen every time
you do it, you got into a new desire, you do new things you want to do and I kind of
sat there and help support in yours a lot and I want some so yes. I think Iím just
going for it. I kind of started saying it and then all of a sudden a little hints and
pieces came out and then now, and then all of a sudden Iím just ñ I think it was two
days ago, I canít believe I am about to do this but I said it and now itís here and
Iím freaking out a little bit but in a good way. Like oh my God, like I can work like
that Ö So I mean yes, I think watching you, having you do it, you supporting the kids
things. I guess this is not once in a lifetime right than what people thought. Actually I
was kind of told by my father, are you trying to knock everything off from your bucket list
before youíre 30? Specifically thatís exactly what he said. I said, I said why not? I said
whatís the problem? I said Iíll have new things but yes why not whatís the problem
with it? He almost said it like it was a bad thing. Like why are we saving something you
know until you canít, canít walk? Tara: Dave that is such a good point because
I feel that a lot of us, I know that was one of my favorites moving to France and what
happens when I get there? What is that thing ñ I mean I fulfilled it almost too early.
But you know from seeing me much too sometimes like saying here ñ oh boy here she goes.
Sheís got another one coming. But youíve really witness to that process that when you
fulfill a desire a new desire is formed and thatís not a bad thing right? Its part of
your evolution right into becoming who you were meant to be.
Dave: Thatís right, yeah, absolutely. I have no idea whatís going to happen. Iím stopping
in ports all along Africa and we are going to head over to the Caribbean and I donít
know what new things is going to come into my life but itís going to be like wow ñ
you know, I didnít even dream of this before but now because of fulfilling this, this is
coming out. You know, yes itís going to be amazing
Tara: Like even if you donít know what exactly it is youíre going to be experiencing and
you know your Indie is totally driving you to have this experience.
Dave: Absolutely. Itís been pulling me through a lot.
Tara: And now itís finally been enough for you to say yes to.
Dave: Yeah, yeah. Tara: And so now Dave is finally now in the,
and this is something that Iím going to be sharing with you all this, in a couple of
days we are having a specialÖ Dave: In a day or two.
Tara: Yes in a couple of days weíre going to be sharing, or actually by the time they
get this, itís going to beÖ Dave: It doesnít matter.
Tara: Thereís going to be a call and youíre going to see the information here that Iím
doing specifically on new desires because as I fulfilled more and more of my desires
Iíve been actually been able to identify a specific discovery process and this is what
I have been sharing with Dave right? And this is what Iíve actually been doing myself and
sharing with Dave behind the scenes about what it actually looks like when you step
into your desires and really most importantly which desire will you choose at a specific
time. Because Iíve been asked a lot ñ how do you know itís the right desire? What if
I choose that desire and make a mistake? And when I hear Dave saying like thereís a little
hint, little things that have been coming up along the way before he knew it this kind
of landed on his lap. And when desires land in your lap, like itís a really good sign.
Iím going to teach you and excuse me show you because Iím really like the teaching
thing, who wants to be taught everything, I want you to discover with me what it is
I have been able to discover for myself and I want to show you actually how to do it.
So on this call Iím going to show you the part of desires road map and Iím going to
be opening up to something that Iíve never opened up to in Elegant Femme history ever,
ever. And this is something that Iím just really good at. Iím good at helping people
with their desires. When I see it in my husband right thereís a whole lot another segment,
like what does it feel like? Because as a wife when your husband is about to leave for
about 6 weeks ñ okay thatís another segment but from this perspective as a woman who is
getting to witness another soul step into a desire, totally turned on, totally turned
on. And just seeing Dave, like thatís what I do with women. I am able to see. I am able
to access that point of desire with you and for your and together. Iím going to be doing
that with you and some of you on the live call so you want to be on this call live because
I am going to be opening up the lines; we are going to be talking about desire. Desire
is something that fuels me. It always fuels me and I know am talking too much thatís
what I do really. Dave: So itís okay - if there are already
registered for the Happy New Desires then youíve already registered for the live call,
then if youíre not registered for the Happy New Desires register below and actually I
have an idea. Why donít you - you can share a little bit of inside about how that one
last puzzle piece just fell into my lap. Tara: Totally, yeah. Yeah. Thatís true. Okay
Ö Dave: A little bit behind theÖ just add the
likeÖ Tara: I know, I know itís quite amazing.
Actually if youíve been at Elegant Femme for quite some time you might even remember
what I did to that special day for the Fatherís Day and his reaction to it and you know whatís
happened now from that was not long ago ñ that was June. June?
Dave: I think Fatherís Day is in May. Tara: May or June I donít know, anyway whenever
Fatherís Day is ñ itís different actually here in France. So whenever that is right
now, I know. Welcome to our little cozy nook in our home really and weíre really like
cozying in itís a rainy day weíre like having coffee together. This is how we work. This
is how we do it together. And yeah, I want you to step into your desires too and I want
you to know that as a woman when you step into your desires you donít stop someone
else from stepping into theirs. In fact, you inspire them to go ahead and live their desires
and their dreams. So join us in another call so that we can
step further into your desires and here we go.
Dave: Thanks babe. Here we go ñ Iím going to sail away.
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