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Hello everybody.
I want to go ahead and ask you a philosophical question
and the question is this. Should transgendered people
the required
to inform their partners.
That's the question
There was an article that was not put out on twitter at the other day
one person was seventeen the other person with sixteen
and the seventeen-year-old essentially
dressed up as a boy
and
began a romantic relationship with the sixteen-year-old girl
of even consummated this relationship by the person using a strap-on
the only thing is is he would not
allow
oral copulation *** or anything like that for and also during lovemaking he
would wear
she would wear her clothes in other words
giving the constant illusion that she was in fact a male
and of course you know being
a ***
this sixteen-year-old girl didn't really know what the normal *** would feel
like so obviously she had nothing to compare it to
anyway at the end
the seventeen year old girl
was charged
and jailed
I'll be leaking an article down below were you guys can read it and it did
spark
a discussion on twitter
and i wanted to carry it over here in the question is
is should transgender people
inform their partners
prior to
having sex
in my opinion
it would be yes and i do admit that this position can be the deposition can be
somewhat bigoted
but the reason is
is
there or people out there who would prefer not to have sex with transgender people
and with the advent of
hormone therapy and with the event of surgeries and stuff like that
it is
somewhat difficult with modern
technology
to know who is and who isn't.
Now the other side of that use should transgender people
have an obligation
to tell somebody like "Hello I'm So and So and I am transgender.
I was born a woman but now I have a ***.
that's an awkward
introduction. i'm certainly not
saying that you should introduce yourself or like where a badge
or anything like that.
but in my opinion prior to lovemaking you should inform the person
like, "Hey just to let you know
I was born a man or I was born a woman."
Now of course this also comes into rights of privacy stuff like this
but
it does come down to in my opinion and that is the greater good.
The greater good
in my opinion comes down to a level of trust
and that was a essentially what this sixteen girl was
complaining about.
The fact that or hurt her trust was broken
this person
of the seventeen year old boy duty everything
she could do to convince her lover that she was male.
The act of deception goes
quite a long way. He would not
undress so
she could discover that her boyfriend was in fact the girl he would not
let her touch and feel the ***
or anything like that the only
thing
that he would be who was just stick it right inside over but he would do so
while the clothes were on
he gave every
conceivable thing that he could do to keep up the Illusion
that this boy was really a girl
and in my opinion that was wrong that was deception.
Obviously there's some people that
once they take their clothes off you can see it's like "Okay well you are unique."
But in my opinion it would also go a little bit more.
i'm not saying you have to disclose this information on the first date
or
certainly going out for drinks or whatever
however
early on in the relationship
in my opinion you should disclose this.
You should disclose that you are transgender you were born
one sex but now you are another and just what you guys know the
difference between sex and gender
sex is what down here
in other words your boy or girl parts
gender is what's up here
and these people are born this way
thier
brains are wired
to function as a man or woman irregardless to what's down here
It is
an anomaly.
but the thing is is these people are born this way
and they have every right to be in society i'm not saying there's like
SHUN THEM! CAST THEM DOWN! No, they are part of our society.
The thing is I have met transgender people
in the fact I have even been with one.
well but
when i was with one i was with one was upfront and honest.
She said, "Yes I am transgender."
okay well
Let's give it a shot and see what it is like.
curiosity got the better of me you know what it was actually pretty decent.
But i want to know what you guys think.
Should transgendered people have an obligation
to inform their partners
prior to having sex
and should
transgender people have a obligation to inform their partners
early on in the relationship
before person falls in love?
I wanted to know what you guys think.
Leave your responses below
and i'll see you guys in the next one
have a good day