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A Smile Of Hope
In the name of Allah (God) The Compassionate, The Merciful
Welcome to a new episode of Basmit Amal (A Smile of Hope).
A Smile of Hope today is about men, and the way they look at women.
Do men look at the lady they’re married to after a while,
and realize that God has given him a wife who’s a treasure and is content
or are men always not content with their wives?
Or are men not easily satisfied with anything?
The problem is if you were always unhappy, not content,
and that you always want something different that’s not in your hands
and that you treat females based on this.
The story, which is an imaginary story,
talks about a city that had men who were never satisfied
by any of the women in their city.
The men always wanted things that weren’t there,
and they were overly exaggerating in this.
In this imaginary story, they decided to create a store for the search of wives.
The store had many different levels.
Each level had different descriptions of characteristics of wives in that level
for whomever who’s looking for that wife.
You can then rise to a higher level.
However, the store has a rule,
if you raise to a higher level you can’t go back down to the level lower than it.
If you find the right characteristics in your dream wife,
and you were greedy and choose to rise to a higher level,
you aren’t allowed to go back down.
There’s a man who went to go get married.
He went into the first level.
He saw a big sign that said,
“The ladies in this level are all ladies who are excellent housewives.”
He thought,
“Wow, I’m looking for a great housewife, but let me go up to the higher level.”
He went to the second level, and the sign said,
“The ladies in this level are housewives, and they know how to raise children.”
Although these were important characteristics he needed,
he decided to go up to a higher level.
The next level, the sign read,
“The wives on this level are good at raising kids, are good housewives,
and are great believers in God.”
Although this was really beautiful for him,
he decided to go up one level.
On the fourth level the sign read,
“The wives on this level are good at raising kids, are good housewives,
and are believers in God, and are great-looking.”
Although this fit the description he searched for,
he decided to go up to a higher level.
On the following level,
“They’re house-wives, good at such, and such, beautiful, are romantic,
and know how to be really kind to her husband and making him happy.”
Although this included more than he can want,
he decided to go up to the following level.
It’s a way of thinking, he isn’t easily satisfied.
The next level, the sign said,
“This level doesn’t contain ladies.
You are the visitor number 4,363,000.”
All the men came to this level.
Is the idea behind this story clear?
If God gave you a treasure, don’t let go of it.
If you are married to a beautiful lady, who’s a treasure, take care of her,
or else you may go up to the higher level and find nothing.
You may lose everything.
Although, 4 million people made the same mistake,
and kept saying “I want more, I want more!”
but there isn’t more you may lose everything.
If God gave you a treasure, smile a smile filled with hope,
and take care of her.
There are ladies who are treasures, who you don’t want to lose.
Thank you, and Salamu aliekum wa rahamtullah.