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Today we are going to approach a taboo subject which is drowned in stigma
What we're going to talk about today is Suicide
Suicide is an action which is the byproduct of the feeling of total powerlessness
It occurs when someone has focused on negative thoughts for so long or with such intensity that they become cut off from whom they really are
from positive vibrations
from their desires
source energy is therefore prevented from flowing through them, by them
And as such, they feel as if they're in a chasm so absent of light that there is no way out
there is no light at the end of the tunnel
there is no way out of that dark
Dutifully we all know that source is pure positive vibration
So, intuitively we all know that to die is to reemerge with that positive vibration
We know that it is relief
and so, from that perspective
like I was talking about earlier, that perspective that there is no light at the end of the tunnel,
it seems like the only option.
To most people the process of exiting this life into death, seems like jumping off of a giant cliff
It seems like a lot of risk
but when you are in that kind of a chasm where life is so dark to you,
that doesn't seem like much of a risk so, instead of jumping off of a cliff it feels a little bit more like jumping off of a rock
What suicide is, is pushing the reset button
it's not a good or bad decision in and of itself
it's not something that source either condones or condemns
you cannot say that suicide is wrong without also saying that death is wrong
Death is always a choice
You choose not to participate in the same way as you chose to participate in the first place
because you are two points of perspective
what I mean by this is: Every single death on this Earth could be seen as a suicide
because in order to die your individual perspective has to align with your Higher Self perspective
in order to die
Basically, when your source energy is pulling back from you, back into non physical perspective,
you have to align with that decision. This is why a lot of people may end up in comas.
What a coma is, is somebody deciding whether to stay or whether to align with death
So, death is always a choice regardless of whether you're in an accident and you weren't necessarily intending to die in the first place, or whether you
choose to take your death into your own hands and commit suicide
We, who are left behind in the wake of grief, find it very easy to jump to advise against suicide
We jump to say that it's wrong
which is the same as saying that we know better, what is or isn't right for somebody, than they know
Which just isn't true
Those of us who resist the lower vibrational decisions like suicide, suffer every bit as much as those who embrace them
but what we need to do instead is really to allow
we need to allow things like suicide, while simultaneously focusing on what we would prefer
obviously, what we would prefer is for somebody to move through life hand in hand with joy
There are no consequences for those who commit suicide
that idea of there being a consequence is not an idea which source came up with, it's an idea which humans came up with
and it's an idea which is born from the attempt of humans to control one another
Really, where you see the birth of the idea that there is suffering after death waiting for you as the result of suicide, comes from the early christian roman era
What was happening at that point, basically is that, the...
you could call the higher-ups in the government and also the religions, began to tell people that they needed to start to conform
This is just the human power dynamic
Whenever you tell somebody you need to conform you're basically saying that, what you think is right for them is better than what they think is right for them
and when people start to follow conformity they begin to suffer
and so, then you watch this thing where the churches came up with the idea that life is about suffering and that all of your reward happens after death
and when people start hearing that, after of course, ironically being taxed...
what was happening in these countries at this time is, there's a lot of taxation happening
and this taxation was so intense that it was ruining people's families, it was ruining their lives, basically
and when people heard this message over and over again, that your life is suffering, that this is a place of being tested, and that your reward happens after you die
they just started taking matters into their own hands and they started committing suicide
and then suddenly, you see these teachings arise conveniently, which looks like
suicide is a sin
and, to die, basically, is to receive your reward after death for having lived this life of suffering and of trial.
However, if you take your own life, then that's a sin and you end up in purgatory, basically
and that was what they did in order to try to get people to stop committing suicide when they were doing so as a result of all the taxation and control
that was happening around them from the religion and from the governments that were being set up at that time
and now, it has evolved into this idea that, if you are given life by god and that is seen as a gift, then you have to accept that gift of life
and to not accept that gift of life and to take your own life, is a bit of a slap in the face to a God which knows better than you do what is good for you and what isn't
So that is where the idea of: suffering as a consequence for suicide, arose
Suicide is what happens when a person is unable, not incapable but unable, to keep up with their own expansion
In order to explain this, I'm going to refer to a diagram which I like to use. If you would look back at one of my previous videos, called: What is the purpose of life?
you'll see this diagram, which I suggest that you do
But for the sake of this explanation of, what suicide is? I'm going to show you this diagram now...
What's happening with someone who decides to commit suicide is:
Here in their physical perspective in their physical shoes they are experiencing intense negativity
that negativity is inspiring what they would prefer
so every time they experience misery
they are giving rise to the idea of what is like to live a life joy
every time they feel alone... they are giving birth to the idea of what it would feel like to live where you feel like you're surrounded by supportive company
but they are continuing to think negative thought which hold them a match to this vibration...
instead of this vibration
even though, the second that they give rise to this idea, their Higher self becomes that vibration immediately
and what has begun to happen is, this large gravitational pull has started over here and is now pulling them towards it
and they, every time they think these negative thoughts or continue to focus negatively, are faced in the opposite direction of it
and after you see this process go on and go on, this gap in here, which could be seen as like a stream, becomes so incredibly intense
that every time they think a thought which is in resistance, it's like going against the Grand Canyon river instead of going against a tiny little brook
so they start to suffer. That is what suffering is. It's when somebody hold themselves separated from what they are, separated from their desires to such a degree that
this vibrational gap becomes this chasm
and they get to such a point where, like I explained earlier in this video, that this seems so dark, so devoid, and so vibrationally different than what they have become already
and their desires, that it seems like the only way to close this gap is to die. Which is what happens, every time you die this gap is closed
So, that's what's occurring when somebody decides to take their own life
The purpose of this life in the first place, is expansion
We are causing the expansion of this universe through our very lives that we are living
Because of this, you could say that source's greatest desire and your ultimate greatest desire is expansion
which is served by experience
Having said that, it's important to know that it is likely that, if somebody decides to commit suicide,
that from the higher perspective which they will rejoin after death, they will most likely opt to come back into the same kind of issues that caused them to leave in this life
The reason is because, if they reactivate those same issues and choose into a life were they experience the same kind of "contrast" so to speak
then, their expansion would be greatly served by getting to a different space relative to that subject
So, if they're capable of coming back into the same problems,
but in the next life come into a point about those issues where they're able to get through them and find a space of joy
then they will reach a different point of perspective and they will have achieved greater expansion
For those of you who have been left behind by suicide
it is easy to blame yourself, and it is easy to feel guilt as if you could have done something different to save them
but it is the same as saying that I am responsible for somebody else's happiness
and you aren't
you aren't responsible for anyone's happiness
except you own
Not even your spouse's, and not even your child's
So it's important to allow the complex processes of shock, and anger, and guilt, and despair that come along with death in general, but are greatly amplified by suicide.
and its important to let yourself, if it comes up, feel the sensation of relief
We are taught that to feel relief in tandem of suicide is wrong if we love somebody
but relief is often a feeling which is associated for those who are involved with suicide
It's a part of the process because, many of you who have lost somebody to suicide know that, the burden of being near somebody who has such intense negative focus
is a very great, very great burden.
you must allow yourself to grieve in your own way and to not rush yourself
and to realize that healing is never linear
you may have these periods during the grief process where you feel a kind of a setback
but that's just because healing will continue to happen in cycles and in patterns
and so you may re-experience the feeling of grief when you get to anniversaries or when those people aren't present at holidays, and things like this
for those of you who are interested i'm going to be writing an article on how-to heal from the loss of somebody who has taken their own life with suicide.
More expansion comes from life than comes from death.
More expansion comes from joy than ever came from suffering.
That is why Source would choose life
That is why Source chose life in the first place and that's why you did
but there is nothing wrong about suicide and it's time that we remove it from its stigma because in my opinion, the stigma that surrounds suicide
creates more suffering for those who are left behind, it makes the suffering worse
focusing in such a way that your life becomes the manifestation of that positive vibrational stance
is always in your hands and it's in everyone's hands, not everyone may know how to go about doing that because we live our lives...
as a sort of default byproduct of how we were raised.
We live in default so often that many people who are drowning and suffering have no idea how to change the way that they feel.
It's not your responsibility to create their happiness for them.
You can inspire somebody, by finding your own alignment with joy, to find their own joy
but for those who, for whatever reason, find themselves unable to find that alignment, we don't need to condemn their decision to commit suicide
really, once they do, we must understand that that is relief and it is release, and they have set themselves free, and they have pushed the reset button,
and they have reemerged with Source perspective
and from there it's all about us, those of us who were left behind, finding our alignment again
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