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>>> FOR ANYONE SINGLE AND TRYING
TO FIND THAT SPECIAL SOMEONE IT
COULD BE DIFFICULT ESPECIALLY
FOR ENTERING THE DATING SCENE
LATER IN LIFE.
RICHTER WITH SOME ADVICE.
WE WERE TALKING ABOUT THE TOP 10
AND THEY'RE VERY INTERESTING.
LET'S POINT OUT A FEW THAT YOU
THINK IS THE MOST IMPORTANT.
>> THE MOST IMPORTANT RULE IS
HEAL YOUR WOUNDS.
IF YOU DON'T HEAL YOUR WOUNDS,
WHETHER YOU'RE COMING OUT OFF OF
A DIVORCE OR A TRAUMATIC JUNGLE,
YOU ARE GOING AS DAMAGED GOODS.
EVERY TIME YOU GET IN A
RELATIONSHIP ALL OF THESE ISSUES
ARE GOING TO BUBBLE UP, AND
YOU'RE GOING TO HAVE PROBLEMS.
>> WORK ON YOURSELF FIRST AND
THEN YOU'RE GOING TO BE BETTER
IN THE RELATIONSHIP.
>> EXACTLY.
>> ENROLLMENT, DON'T -- RULE
NUMBER TWO, DON'T DATE ANYONE
WHO IS MARRIED.
>> NOT A GOOD IDEA.
>> EXPLAIN WHY YOU INCLUDED THIS
IN THE BOOK.
>> I INCLUDED THIS IN THE BOOK
BECAUSE AFTER I WENT OUT THERE,
I FOUND THAT MY GIRLFRIENDS AND
I WERE DATING MEN WHO WERE
SEPARATED BUT NOT LEGALLY
DIVORCED.
WHEN YOU'RE GOING THROUGH A
DIVORCE, IT'S TRAUMATIC, YOU
DON'T WANT TO BRING PEOPLE INTO
THAT DRAMA AND PULL OTHER PEOPLE
INTO THAT DRAMA.
GET THE DIVORCE FINALIZED.
HAVE IT LEGALIZED.
>> EXACTLY.
>> AND THEN TAKE TIME FOR
YOURSELF BEFORE YOU GET OUT
THERE AND START DATING AGAIN.
>> YOU POINTED OUT SOMETHING
THAT IS VERY INTERESTING, AVOID
THE KNIGHT IN SHINING ARMOR.
>> THAT SOUNDS GREAT.
>> IT DOES, AFTER WATCHING CAR
CINDERELLA.
IF YOU ARE NOT HAPPY WITH YOUR
LIFE, YOU SHOULDN'T WAIT FOR
SOMEBODY TO HAD COME AND SWEEP
YOU UP.
IF YOU ARE NOT HAPPY WITH YOUR
LIFE, MAKE YOUR LIFE HAPPY.
DO WHAT YOU NEED TO DO TO BECOME
HEALTHY AND THEN YOU WILL
ATTRACT THE GOOD HEALTHY PEOPLE.
>> ONE OF THE WORST LINES THAT
WAS CREATED IS YOU COMPLETE ME.
I HEAR FROM OTHER EXPERTS THAT
THAT IS NOT TRUE.
YOU CAN ONLY COMPLETE YOURSELF.
>> THAT'S RIGHT, YOU CAN ONLY
GET IT FROM YOURSELF.
>>> JUST A FEW SECONDS LEFT,
YOUR OTHER NUMBER ONE TIP THAT
IS JUST GOOD ADVICE.
>> JUST GOOD ADVICE, IF YOU'RE
OUT THERE DOING LIKE THE
INTERNET DATING, YOU WANT TO DO
MY RULE NUMBER NINE WHICH IS BE
SAFE, RESEARCH YOUR DATE,
BECAUSE YOU NEVER KNOW WHO YOU
ARE COMMUNICATING ON THE OTHER
SIDE OF THE COMMUNE TER.
COMPUTER.
TAKE THE TIME TO GOOGLE THEM,
AND GO TO THE COUNTY CLERK'S
OFFICE, FIND OUT, HAVE THEY BEEN
ARRESTED, ARE THEY MARRIED.
>> THAT'S RIGHT, BECAUSE SAFETY
IS THE NUMBER ONE CONCERN.
LET'S TAKE A LOOK AT THE BOOK
QUICKLY AND LET EVERYONE WHERE
YOU CAN FIND IT.
I THINK THIS IS THE -- IS THIS A
WORKSHOP.
>> YES THAT ON A SATURDAY AT THE
RITZ CARLTON, I'M DOING A BOOK
SIGNING.
>> AND THERE'S YOUR BOOK RIGHT
THERE.
>> YES.
>> AND THE TIME FOR THE RITZ
CARLTON.
>> IT'S FROM 8 TO 5:00.
>> ON SATURDAY.
>> ON SATURDAY.
>> YES.
>> AND YOU CAN PICK UP A COPY
THERE.