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We listen to your concerns.
National counseling session!
Here are today's guests.
This girl group is in these days.
Cha Lu and Hyemi of FIESTAR!
Kim Gyeongsik!
Jeong Gyeongmi!
Park Boram!
Hello.
Is Seho good to you?
Yes.
What is Jo Seho like in person?
He's not my ideal type.
He's strange?
Who is your ideal type?
Kim Soohyun.
Those two are really different.
If you had to force yourself to find something
in common, what would it be?
What do Jo Seho and Kim Soohyun have in common?
Nothing.
He has a lot in common.
First,
he speaks Korean well.
What's wrong with you?
Second, he was in the same drama once.
That's right!
Seho was in it.
Third?
He eats, right?
Right.
He drinks water, too.
What about Kim Soohyun makes him
your ideal type?
He was really conservative and patriarchal in
another drama.
I like that type of man.
A patriarchal man?
For example, don't wear skirts.
Okay. Like that.
So you wore a skirt, but he says don't wear pants.
Then what are you supposed to wear?
Don't edit this!
Netizens will be in rage.
It's hot, so shorts.
Be sure to add that.
He's more *** than I thought.
His face looks ***, too, doesn't it?
Yes. His eyes are very ***.
Boy…
Look at him.
I can't look at him.
What concerns are you good at listening to?
Do you have an area of expertise?
Cha Lu, what about you?
I'm an expert at being optimistic.
An expert at being optimistic.
I'm good at self-justification.
When I went to China for the first fan meeting,
I injured my forehead. It was swollen like this.
I was glad it wasn't worse.
It looked pretty because I had volume.
That's how optimistic she is.
Keep banging your forehead everywhere.
That's not a bad idea.
You're an expert at being optimistic.
I'm the opposite.
You're negative?
You're an expert at being negative?
I seek revenge and make frank comments
with a smiling face.
You must have eaten ramen last night.
Your face is swollen.
Your face is pretty swollen, too.
I can't wait.
Gyeongsik, what about you?
I'm raising a baby these days.
I'm an expert at loving children.
Dads really love their kids.
I read three stories every night for my baby.
Gyeongmi?
I raise a baby and work, so a working mom?
Boram?
Fat?
I'll be an expert at being cool.
Are you pretty cool?
I don't care what people say as long as
I don't agree with them.
You look sick since you lost weight.
How would you respond to that?
You look upset.
She rubs her nose when she's upset.
She doesn't seem that cool.
Give a lot of advice today.
'Find My Husband' won last week.
I'm always alone because my husband
only loves his work and not me.
He goes to work in the morning and
comes home late at night. Every day.
We've been married for 4 years now.
We never went on a date.
I didn't marry her to go on dates.
I married her to live with her.
When was the last time you kissed?
Before you got married?
Did your husband change?
He still comes home late,
but he promised to take Sundays off
and go to eat nice food.
Today is Sunday.
We went to Yeouido Park and
saw cherry blossoms.
- Cherry blossoms? / - Yes.
(April 10, a historic date)
His expression never changes.
It's the same when he eats
or sees cherry blossoms.
How can he be so expressionless?
The production staff just said it's the first time
you went to a café since you got married.
Yes, we never went.
That's unbelievable.
How was it to go with your wife?
I'm not as tired when I work.
I'm really tired from having fun.
Do you have to say that?
Is he better at physical contact?
That's important.
He came home early on Monday
and we kissed.
You just kissed?
That's it?
Be a bit more specific!
You're not Dongyeop. Stop it.
(As you imagine…)
Let's see if she wins a second time.
What about the winner?
The winner will receive a prize worth $1,000.
Show us today's concerns!
('Man I Can't Stand')
('Shells, Shells, Shells')
('That's Mean!')
The title is 'Shells, Shells, Shells'.
(What an interesting title)
Hello, I've been married for 14 years.
I was living an ordinary marriage life,
but something shocking happened 4 years ago.
"Honey!"
"I can't stand living like this anymore."
"How about living the city and"
"living in ease in Wando?"
"We'll build a house by the blue ocean."
"I'll do all the work."
"You don't have to anything,"
"but raise the kids well."
"We'll go, okay?"
Return to farming!
How is my life after that?
Forget about a life of ease.
My life was ruined.
I get up at 6:30 and fix breakfast for the kids.
Then I shell oysters.
When it's time for lunch,
I fix lunch for my husband.
Then I shell oysters.
I fix dinner.
Then I shell oysters.
I shell oysters all day.
In her dreams?
I shell oysters.
Honey, shell some oysters. Help me.
Shell some oysters.
"That's not a man's job."
"This is why a man should marry"
"a young woman who works well."
How can he say that?
Press the button!
I didn't come to Wando to be a slave.
I can't live like this.
Should I escape from this place?
Please help me.
(It's bad)
It's not return to farming.
It's return to fishing.
It's Wando.
She shouldn't have gone to the ocean.
There is too much work for women.
Did you live by the ocean?
I grew up by the ocean.
If you watch shows about life by the ocean,
the women really do all the work.
The women there all have bent backs
from working so much.
What do you think?
I like men like that.
What?
She's optimistic.
He's patriarchal.
Doesn't it make you happy to
do something for the man you love?
(The working mom is in rage)
What do you think, Hyemi?
It's upsetting enough that it's not a life of ease,
but she's the one doing all the work.
What if your husband was like this?
I'd run away.
You'd run away?
Run away?
Let's talk more with her.
Let's meet her.
Come on out!
(Park Hyeonsun)
(She's fashionable in torn jeans)
(She's really young)
They returned to farming too soon.
She's very young.
She shelled oysters too much.
Her jeans are torn at the knees.
(Traces of fierce labor?)
Please introduce yourself.
Hello, I'm Park Hyeonsun from Wando.
(Welcome)
Did you send a concern because
the work by the ocean is tough?
That, too, but my husband was spiteful.
Why is he so spiteful?
He was working 4 years ago,
but he suddenly wanted to move.
He said I wouldn't have to work.
He told me to just raise the kids.
After we got there, there was no end to the work.
Did you feel like you were conned?
I was conned.
You believed him?
I didn't want to go at first,
but he quit his job.
He quit his job?
He quit his job.
He sold our apartment.
He sold your apartment?
He sold the house they were living in.
He took the kids and went to Wando.
- He took the kids? / - Yes.
He told me to settling things and come.
I quit a month later.
I ended up going to Wando.
How much work is there?
I have to work all day every day.
- All the time? / - Yes.
Oysters and kelp until April.
I have to dry kelp from May to July.
In August, I have to dry hijiki.
Don't you get some rest in winter?
No. I continued to shell oysters.
All winter?
- Yes, all winter. / - In the cold weather?
I got up at 6:30,
fed the kids breakfast and sent them to school,
then shelled oysters.
- You shelled oysters. / - Yes.
My husband returned from picking oysters,
so I fixed him breakfast, then shelled oysters.
At lunch time, I fixed lunch, then shelled oysters.
Around 7 or 8, we ate dinner.
When I was done finishing up,
it was almost midnight.
You really shelled oysters all day.
How much do you have to shell to shell all day?
How much?
Over 15kg a day.
I shell oysters for about 10 hours a day.
What does your husband do in that time?
Exactly.
Exactly…
He says he's tired from picking oysters.
He won't do anything at home.
I wash his working clothes and towels.
Let's meet the husband who completely changed.
Hello.
Hello, I'm Kim Hyeongsik from Wando.
You said she wouldn't have to work.
Don't you feel sorry?
Why should I feel sorry?
It's different from what you promised her.
She should adjust to our reality.
You should apologize for that.
Everyone lives like that in rural areas.
Elderly women go to work early in the morning.
You sweet talked her.
- Yes. / - You're so brazen.
You sweet talked her?
Did you always intend to do this or was it sudden?
There isn't much place for people over fifty
at their workplaces.
- Right? / - That's true.
In a rural area, I can have a lifetime job
as long as I'm healthy and fit.
What work do you do?
I get up at 6. I don't eat breakfast and
go out to the ocean.
I pull up the oysters on the boat.
It's very hard work.
It's three times harder than work on land.
I go home after doing that.
She doesn't understand, so it's frustrating.
How many hours does it take?
2-3 hours.
He works.
I'm inclining toward him now.
No, no.
He brings the oysters and disappears.
Where do you go?
Where do you go when she shells oysters?
I have to get ready for the next job,
make deliveries and meet seniors and juniors.
There.
You meet seniors and juniors and have fun.
It's not having fun.
It's only been 3 years.
I should have smooth social relationships.
What about her social life?
She has one.
- With who? / - With oysters?
She's friends with kelp.
If it's windy and raining at night,
the boat has to be checked.
He tells me to go and see.
At night?
Yes.
Why don't you go? Why do you make her go?
I'm tired after having a drink.
You have a drink.
She just has to see if the boat is in place.
I didn't ask her to take the boat out.
She just has to check. It's not hard work.
You're really bold about it.
Can't you help her shell oysters?
It's not a man's job.
Oh, boy.
Let's hear him out.
You must watch "Hometown Report".
Did you see any men shell oysters?
No.
It's hard for a man to sit
squatting for a long time.
You could shell oysters like this.
Our body isn't structured for such work.
You can shell oysters standing.
My back hurts.
His back hurts.
Is it alright for women?
Women's backs hurt, too.
Women talk and have fun while doing it.
- It's only fun to talk. / - They talk.
Men don't talk like that.
You could talk with your wife.
I don't like talking a lot.
I'm really mad right now.
(I didn't even start yet)
She's going to show us.
She brought oysters from Wando.
She brought a lot.
(Fresh and big oysters)
You should try shelling some.
What? We have to shell them, too?
Shell some oysters.
I'll help.
When you say 15kg, it's after shelling, right?
After shelling. This only amounts to 1-2kg.
This will only be about 1kg.
- 15kg after shelling? / - Right.
If this was 15kg, it wouldn't take long.
Then about 15 boxes?
This is the front.
You have to stick the knife in here.
Beginners will stab their hands,
so place it on the floor.
This where the eye is.
Water will squirt, so be careful. Spread it open.
Try it.
- It's from Wando? / - Yes.
This is what you eat.
It will be salty.
You eat it like this, right?
Suck it.
(She slurps it out without mercy)
It's salty.
Wow.
(She doesn't even chew it)
Shell one more.
What do you think?
It's not coming out.
Is it hard?
If you don't do it right,
pieces of the shell get in.
In the shell?
Gyeongsik, can't you do that?
It's not easy.
- It breaks. / - Then it can't be sold.
I can't even shell one.
It must be really hard to shell 15kg a day.
My legs are falling asleep.
Your legs are falling asleep.
It's warm now, but my hands are cold.
Your hands are cold, right?
Sure. I get water in the rubber gloves.
My hands are cold.
What stresses you the most?
If I say I'm tired, he says I didn't do much.
That's upsetting.
He could say a warm work.
The work is hard anyway.
I can do the work, but he could be nice.
He seems expressionless and blunt, right?
I grew up in a rural area.
My mother does ocean work
and house work well.
She's resting compared to that.
You think she's resting?
She could do more if she moved faster.
She's a bit slow.
I call my mom.
She comes and helps.
I feel really sorry to her.
Is that your mother?
Yes.
Hello.
Hello.
You must live nearby if you go to help often.
No. I live in Goyang-si.
- Where? / - Ilsan?
Ilsan?
How long does it take to go to Wando?
6 hours.
It takes you 6 hours, but you go?
Yes.
How many times a year?
I go in October and return in February.
You stay there for 4 months?
Yes. I go to help.
Only during oyster season.
I go again in May for kelp.
How long do you stay then?
About 3 months.
You stay there about half of the year.
It's over half a year.
Yes.
What about father?
He has work. I leave him alone to go to
my daughter's place. He complains.
He could just say that.
(I didn't think of that)
Are you saying he likes it?
He didn't come?
He came.
Where is he?
They're sitting separately.
Hello.
Why are you sitting separately?
Look at his eyebrows.
Why do you look so young?
(Is it Dharma incarnated?)
Is that a tattoo?
No, it's natural.
(Full of confidence)
You could sweep the yard with those eyebrows.
I did before.
Isn't it *** your own for half a year?
It's hard!
It's hard, but I tell her to fix the kids meals,
so our daughter can work on shelling oysters.
Why don't you go with her?
I have a business in Seoul.
Oh, you work.
What about meals?
Sometimes, I cook.
If I don't want to, I eat out.
You clean the house?
Yes. I do the laundry, too.
You're living separately.
I'm happy if it helps the kids.
Oh…
Mother is the one doing the work,
but father was applauded.
It must be a concern for mother.
Isn't it hard?
It's hard. I have to shell a lot of oysters.
I do a lot of work there.
Come on down.
Come here.
(You should be sitting here)
It's a concern for mother, too.
(She runs)
Why are you running?
(It's a good thing we asked her)
Please introduce yourself.
Hello, I'm Lee Myeongsun from Goyang-si.
(Let it all out today)
Tell us how much work you do.
My son-in-law brings the oysters.
A shovel is used to put about 200 in a net.
My daughter delivers them.
She drives the truck?
Yes.
I unload them.
It's hard to lift nets that weigh 12-13kg.
How hard is it? My body aches.
Anyone who does it would ache.
My body aches all over.
From my feet to my hands.
What do you do?
I took medicine and…
It's alright.
You take a lot of pain killers.
My son-in-law says I should be stronger
with this big build.
He says that?
Yes, he says that to his mother-in-law.
I tell him to try it when he's sixty.
(She replies with love)
You must be close with him to talk like that.
We lived together for 7-8 years.
Sometimes, he complains about the food.
You don't like her cooking?
I return and eat breakfast late.
She gave me rice and two greens.
There wasn't any soup.
I put my chopsticks down and said
there should be more food with two women cooking.
You let him say that?
There isn't soup once in a while.
We always have soup.
It was once in a while?
It was once in a while, but he complained.
It's not hard to make soup.
Then make it yourself.
Moms and daughters squabble quite a bit.
Are you upset with her?
The two of them fight.
Then she takes it out on me.
She asks why I had her when she had to
work like that. That hurts to hear.
She just says that, but…
Is there anything more you want to say?
I feel much better now.
You feel better?
Yes.
Are you going to shell oysters again?
I'll help with kelp in May.
There's hijiki, too.
What do your friends do in May?
They'll probably go to the flower exhibition.
You'll go to an oyster exhibition.
Yes, an oyster exhibition.
Oyster exhibitions.
Oyster exhibitions, oyster expos…
You can return to your seat now.
Thank you.
She's always running around.
When do you feel frustrated?
I fell on the boat 2 years ago
and injured my back.
I was admitted to the hospital for 2 weeks,
but he didn't call once.
He didn't even come to see me.
That was very upsetting.
It's upsetting when you're sick.
If I say my back hurts,
he says his back hurts more.
I do a lot of work and pull nets.
My back hurts, too.
She didn't break her back.
She got a few shots.
She was admitted for 2 weeks.
She probably wanted to rest.
Why are you so indifferent?
It wasn't…
She should be praised for being able to
do this work when she grew up in the city.
That's right.
She says she's working hard.
Do you know what she did 2 years ago?
We were really busy, but she wanted to go to
the preliminary audition for "Korea Sings".
What?
What did you say?
"Korea Sings"?
She made me sing and she danced.
You were on "Korea Sings"?
We received the popularity award.
I thought you were busy!
It's the same today. This isn't a concern.
Everyone in a rural area lives like that.
Are you saying she came on the show to enjoy it?
Yes.
- Like "Korea Sings"? / - Yes.
Did you come to enjoy it?
I like having fun, but people seem to
feel a bit sorry for me.
My friend has arthritis. She said it hurt to
her husband and he said,
"Do you want to shell oysters like Hyeonsun?"
She said that's what her husband said.
I wondered if other people felt bad for me.
It seems like hard work.
I wanted to show them I wasn't unhappy.
You have pride.
Did you relieve some stress that way?
A little.
He must sing well.
We'll see how excited she was. There's a clip.
There is?
They received the popularity award.
Let's see the clip.
What an affectionate couple. Please say hello.
We had perfectly normal jobs in Goyang-si.
Why are you wearing gloves?
(It's obvious they practiced this)
He made an effort.
(It started)
(A sight hard to believe)
(Fancy)
She's really charming.
How cute.
(Moderate movements)
(A sweet voice)
(Why did I do that?)
(Stress!)
You seem really stressed.
What dance is that?
(It's not meaningless gesture)
(It was practiced with effort)
They're good.
They're good!
(Ding *** ding)
(They deserve the popularity award)
(That wasn't enough, they dance again)
They're so good together.
(What is that?)
(Oops)
(That must be why his back hurts)
(They turned Wando upside down)
What's with that expression?
It seemed like you enjoyed it more.
The popularity award!
(An encore smile for the stage)
The wife is more amazing.
How can she dance like that?
If your friend saw that, she'll think
you're really happy after moving to Wando.
Do you miss city life?
She speaks well.
I miss it a lot.
- Do you miss it a lot? / - Yes.
Of course.
Except for coming to Seoul 2 weeks ago,
I think I came about a year ago.
I met my friends.
The apartments, the people…
- The stuffy air. / - I loved it.
Hello, fine dust.
I can understand.
It's hard to forget what you were used to.
You gave up your job.
What did you give up?
Let's see.
My job, leisure life.
The license I studied for.
What license?
A care helper license.
That guarantees a future.
I wanted to do that work.
I don't need that now. I gave it all up.
He seems to neglect the family.
Are you satisfied with your current life?
I'm very satisfied.
- You're very satisfied? / - Yes.
Does your wife have to be satisfied, too?
She should be.
It's for our family.
Shouldn't you show consideration
- for your family, too? / - She should follow.
I'm leading.
That's not following.
If you want her to just follow,
you're expecting her to make sacrifices.
We don't have any leisure financially.
I wish she'd help out in that respect.
She's not sitting around at home.
She's not saying she won't do the work either.
She just wants to hear a warm word from you.
Why can't you do that? It doesn't cost any money.
I'm not good at that.
You can still do it.
Did you shell oysters well?
I couldn't even eat raw oysters.
You couldn't do it, but you do now, right?
She wasn't good, but she does it.
Then I'll make an effort.
(An exemplary answer)
(Practice)
Cao Lu, is it a concern or not?
I don't think it's a concern.
The husband is charming and responsible.
He's patriarchal. You like that.
It's perfect.
Look at the wife's expression.
(She's strange)
She's funny.
The negative icon.
I think it's a concern.
Even if you have to shell oysters for 10 hours,
take a vacation and visit your mom.
Gyeongsik.
It's not a concern.
I think she came to boast.
If you look at…
(Do you want to shell some oysters?)
Shelling oysters is hard, but I think
they're living a nice life together.
It's not a concern.
The "Korea Sings" clip made the concern weaker.
Very weak.
Gyeongmi.
I think it's a concern.
Thanks. Hang in there a bit more.
Words like that are encouraging.
- It melts your heart? / - Yes.
Boram?
I think it's a concern, too.
The physical labor is another matter.
There's a need for a warm word and rest.
If you think this is a concern,
press the button!
(What does the audience think?)
5.
4.
3.
2.
1.
Okay.
Say something from your heart to your wife.
Hang in there a bit more.
People will call you lady Park.
Let's keep going until then.
I love you.
Do you feel better now?
Yes.
(Make a place in your heart)
How many votes did she get? I'm curious.
Show us!
(Here is the result)
Is it 102?
It's over 100 out of 200.
(Will there be a new winner?)
That's a lot.
(Eliminated / Survives)
This woman is upset because of a man
who has strong visual features.
Hello, I have a boyfriend who has crazy looks that
attract attention wherever we go.
People who pass…
"Oh, did you see him? Unbelievable."
"I can't believe it."
- Is it that unbelievable? / - Yes.
How unbelievable is it?
"Wow, it's really unbelievable."
Does he look great like Song Joongki?
No, the reason he gets all the attention is
because of his tattoos.
He must have a lot.
People get tattoos for fashion these days?
Not my boyfriend.
He has a huge dragon and xiezhi on his arm.
He has Chinese characters on his chest.
He has a huge flower on the back of his hand.
On his fingers, there is English and numbers.
- He has tattoos on his fingers, too. / - Yes.
His neck a skull and flowers.
I tried to understand it as his preference, but…
What do you want to eat?
Spaghetti? Ribs?
"This flower tattoo is unbelievable."
"Isn't it awesome?"
All he ever talks about is tattoos.
On my birthday…
"I'm really sick."
"I don't think I can see you today."
I spent my birthday alone.
A few days later…
What's that on your neck?
I told you not to get any more tattoos.
Did you get it on my birthday?
"It was the only day that was available."
What will I do with my boyfriend
who is crazy about tattoos?
Is it me or tattoos? Make your choice!
What do you think of this concern?
I'd try to get a tattoo myself.
All over your body?
Yes.
Wouldn't we fall deeper in love?
What if you break up?
We'll have to get married.
Hyemi. You're negative.
A frank comment.
It's upsetting if he did that on my birthday.
I'd hate to see him.
He lied because she doesn't like it.
If she liked it, they would have gone together.
They could have gotten a tattoo together
on her birthday.
I don't understand, but…
She should wait.
There's a limit.
What is he going to do when there's no room?
He'll have to remove them.
She has to wait until his body is full of tattoos?
What if he gets it on his face?
It won't get that far.
Let's see how far he went.
She came to settle this once and for all.
Let's meet her.
Come on out!
(Who is suffering because her boyfriend
has tattoos all over his body?)
(Baek Seolhwa)
Tell us. How many tattoos does he have?
About 70% of his body.
- 70%? / - There are a lot.
I met him 3 years ago. He had it on his arms.
He had a few Chinese characters on his chest.
It was alright because it couldn't be seen.
But he got it on one arm, the back of his hand,
then his fingers.
He even got it on his neck.
What about here?
It's everywhere.
We'll show you the design before the real thing.
That's the tattoo on his body, right?
Yes.
He has that on his body.
It must hurt a lot.
That, too.
It has colors.
And this one.
What? There's more?
This, too.
(Just how many are there?)
It's a skull!
(It hurts just to see)
He has all that?
They're all so different.
Never mind the design.
It must cost a lot.
He has all that on his body?
All that.
I wonder if he knows the meaning of
all those Chinese characters.
Lying on your birthday to get a tattoo…
I was upset, but I let it go.
But then he appeared with a tattoo.
I knew it was that day, so I asked.
Does he disappear to get a tattoo?
Yes.
I called him about 150 times,
but he didn't answer.
He goes on the SNS though even if
he ignores all my calls.
Why are tattoos so important?
It's spiteful if he goes on the SNS when
he doesn't answer calls.
Let's meet the boyfriend.
I'm curious.
The boyfriend who upsets his girlfriend
because of tattoos. Hello.
Hello.
He's good looking.
The guests normally don't have bandanas.
He's wearing one to cover the tattoos.
He's covering his neck.
How do you feel to be here?
This isn't a blind date.
Why are you asking him that?
The women have interesting expressions.
They were shocked when they heard the concern,
but they're more generous after seeing his face.
(Did you forget my concern?)
I'm a bit surprised.
Other people have to eat nice food,
but I have to get tattoos.
How often do you go?
About 2-3 times a week.
What?
That's extreme.
What's charming about it?
It's pretty when I look in the mirror.
It's pretty?
It's like special clothes only I can wear.
You think of them as clothes.
It's one outfit.
Yes.
You can't change clothes.
Right.
We have to see this.
He looks great. That scarf…
It's long. It must be really wide.
We're getting a glimpse of it. It's not his beard.
It's not his beard!
He has a nice body.
He seems tall, too.
Show us a picture first.
I'm curious.
(All over both arms)
(His hands, too)
That's a bit… It's strong.
It looks like he's wearing gloves.
The neck. That's fatal.
It goes all the way up right to his chin.
Neck tattoos hurt.
I think it would hurt.
There are numbers. What do they mean?
They're my girlfriend's birthday.
What day?
19930103.
He loves her.
She's happy to hear that.
You got a tattoo on her birthday.
That wasn't good.
Don't you feel sorry?
Not at all.
(What did you say?)
I like tattoos.
I can spend her birthday with her next year.
You could get a tattoo later!
I had a reservation.
I should keep that promise.
Why did you go on the SNS when
you didn't answer her calls?
I had to upload pictures of the tattoo.
You didn't answer because she nags, right?
We fought a lot then.
I thought it would be better to get a tattoo
in that time.
(Unbelievable)
It bleeds when you get a tattoo on your neck.
Doesn't it hurt?
It hurts a lot.
My head hurts and
my teeth feel like they'll break.
I clench my teeth.
Are you going to fill your entire body?
Yes.
I'm going to get it on my face, too,
from the forehead to the sideburns.
From the forehead to the sideburns?
The forehead?
Yes.
You won't be able to get a job.
You want a tattoo here?
Well…
Are you going to have forehead written?
No.
What?
A picture.
Here?
That's a bit shocking. Let me be direct.
Is it tattoos or your girlfriend?
I think they're separate.
My girlfriend is my girlfriend.
It's like asking if you like your dad or your mom.
Right.
So, are tattoos mom or dad?
Let's at least ask that.
(Can you laugh right now?)
Doesn't it cost a lot of money?
It costs a lot.
How much?
A total of about $8,400.
Where did you get it? Did you earn it?
Yes. I spend all my money on tattoos.
- Really? / - Yes.
Can I ask what your job is?
I have a business.
Clothes?
Yes, clothes.
That could be a strength.
- It's nice. / - He used that as an excuse.
To get tattoos.
Don't some singers have pretty tattoos?
I saw quite a lot.
I think they're pretty.
I want to get one when I have the chance.
I think it would be nice if she went with him
and got a small tattoo.
Something small and cute.
Cao Lu!
You date him then.
I'm married.
Let's meet some of the friends.
- Hello. / - Hello.
Do you think it's a concern for her?
- I think it's a huge concern. / - Why?
He complains every time he goes.
He takes Cheongsimhwan.
I wonder if he has to do that.
What's the ugliest tattoo in your opinion?
The one on his neck.
I think that's the strangest, too.
I begged him not to.
You didn't have to beg.
Everyone stares when we go out together.
We went to the dry sauna.
All the elderly people left.
They avoided him?
Yes.
If someone like him asks to have
his back scrubbed, you go crazy.
Will you undo the scarf?
Let's take a look at your neck.
We'll see from a distance.
Undo it.
Lift your head.
He has a long neck.
What design is it?
It's a skull.
It's a scary tattoo.
How can the person sitting across from you eat?
The skull will move whenever you swallow.
Right. It would move.
The optimist.
Do you still think it's not a concern?
I'm worried he takes medicine.
A wife should take care of the husband's health.
If it interferes with that, he should stop.
What about the next friend?
- I don't think it's a concern. / - Why not?
A lot of people get tattoos these days.
It's too excessive.
Just a minute.
You have one, too, right?
Yes.
Where?
My stomach, chest, back and arm.
Oriental designs.
Can you understand the neck tattoo?
The one on his neck.
I can understand.
Since I have tattoos, too.
Give the mic to the next person.
Hello.
What is your relationship?
I'm the owner of the sashimi place he worked at.
He worked at your place?
Yes. He could look delinquent because of
all the tattoos.
But he works well and he's responsible.
It looks like he would get tattoos.
Yes, it does.
Wouldn't the customers feel uncomfortable?
If you ask for a bottle of soju and
someone with all those tattoos shows up…
It would be uncomfortable to ask.
He has a bright smile. Elderly people like him.
After having a drink…
They criticize his parents.
They shouldn't do that.
They ask if his parents taught him like that.
He doesn't get mad. He just smiles.
I feel sorry when I see that.
When I see that.
Just a minute.
Despite that, do you stay with him
because you love him?
Everything is nice except for the tattoos.
We're compatible in personality, too.
He's very good to me.
Except for the tattoos.
Except for the tattoos.
They really seem to love each other.
Yes.
She doesn't want to break up with him,
but the tattoos bother her.
Did you ever say you'll break up with him
if he doesn't keep his promise?
I told him to get a tattoo on his neck if
he wanted to break up.
He got it a few days later.
We broke up.
- You broke up? / - Yes.
Why are you dating again?
- Are you broken up right now? / - No.
He promised not to get any more tattoos.
He was really good to me for about 40-50 days.
He didn't even talk about tattoos.
Then he suddenly got one on his finger.
Why didn't you keep your promise?
My mind was thinking about tattoos.
I kept thinking about them. I'm addicted.
What if she really leaves you?
I'll hang on and beg.
Do you keep getting them
because she came back?
You believe she won't leave, right?
That tattoos are another matter.
They are, but…
She doesn't like them.
I don't think she'll leave.
He's certain that she won't leave.
- Why? / - What did you do when she left?
I called and went over to her place.
I waited outside her place for about a week.
You'll do that again if she leaves?
You think she'll come back?
I think so.
(Unbelievable)
(The women are in rage)
(Gulp)
(He loves tattoos so much)
You went over there to beg.
Did you get a tattoo during that time, too?
No way.
(He wouldn't have)
Yes.
(How can this be?)
Did you know?
No.
- You didn't know? / - She must feel betrayed.
I got colors for the faded ones.
A retouch!
Even when she left because of tattoos?
- Yes. / - You got it touched up?
That's right.
She's really upset right now.
She broke up with you because of tattoos.
Weren't you disappointed with your tattoos?
Not at all.
I paid with my money and I feel the pain.
Why would I be disappointed with them?
She broke up with you because of them.
I had time to myself since we broke up.
Then why did you go to her place?
I missed her.
I need her.
(You'll lose her love!)
I want to keep seeing him.
We talked about it. I want to marry him, too.
My parents know him.
He didn't have the neck tattoo then.
They like him for having a nice personality.
He does have a nice personality.
When my mom saw the neck tattoo,
she thinks it's creepy.
She ate with him before,
but she doesn't want to now.
My friends are worried about his future.
They tell me not to marry him.
They tell you not to marry him?
You should just date him?
My mom said that, too.
Did you know her mom was against this?
Yes.
You want to marry her, too, right?
Yes.
- You want to? / - Yes.
You're still getting tattoos?
I'll make a lot of money and work hard.
If we're good to each other…
I'm nice.
What?
Out of the blue?
He's really optimistic.
Let's say you got married.
How are you going to explain it to your child?
Tattoos will be a culture when our child is born.
I hope our child understands how I feel.
What if your child gets a tattoo of Pororo here?
I think the child will cry from being scared.
I wish he'd stop now.
I don't want him to even talk about it.
I don't want to see any pictures.
You want him to cut off all tattoos.
My friend's mother had a hard time
because of tattoos, too.
Her eyebrow tattoos turned out uneven.
I really wanted to say this.
Eyebrow tattoos really hurt. Right?
He got eyebrow tattoos, too.
What?
He got eyebrow tattoos?
That really hurts.
How can you get them all over the body?
If he doesn't get any more tattoos,
could you convince your mother and marry him?
Yes.
I can do that.
I don't want him to get any more.
I hate the one on his neck.
He has to lead a social life and have a family.
It's his preference.
It's his individual preference.
Nobody can tell him what to do.
She just doesn't like it.
Will they find a compromise?
He's her boyfriend and he'll be a son-in-law.
There are social relationships.
It's too much to respect as a preference.
He went overboard.
It shouldn't be showing here.
It crawled up too much.
She said she would convince her mother
if you stop now.
Could you do that?
No. I can't do that.
Oh, no.
You're going to keep getting tattoos?
She said 70%.
It's only 30% in my opinion.
Oh, oh.
Oh…
You're going to keep getting them?
Even if she doesn't want you to?
How far will you go?
What is the end?
All my upper body, lower body and forehead.
He's wearing clothes.
Why don't you get it on your sole, too?
You won't compromise.
It can't be helped if her parents and friends
are all against it?
That's right. It can't be helped.
He's firm.
He chose tattoos.
The woman you love so much…
I hope to reach an agreement.
I said I wanted one on my forehead.
You're very selfish.
You don't want her to leave,
but you want to keep getting tattoos.
You want her to give up everything.
It sounds like she's not first priority.
(Say that's not true)
Well… Tattoos are…
What?
He chose tattoos.
If they're separate, tattoos are first priority.
Oh, no.
The audience is stirring.
Well…
She's going to cry.
She's really upset.
She's upset. What will you do?
He won't concede.
How do you feel after hearing that?
I'm really shocked.
We broke up before.
He begged, but he chose tattoos right now.
It's not that. I think…
I understood all that.
I'm still seeing him and I like him,
but he doesn't seem to care about me.
Where do you want him to not get a tattoo?
His face.
Even if you do your lower body later,
she doesn't want you to get it on your face.
Okay.
Make it clear.
I really won't.
The ears and what not.
I won't get any on my face.
The lower body is…
He has them all over.
It won't make a difference.
It won't even show.
The lower body is alright.
People won't think it's any better because
he doesn't have tattoos in his lower body.
He should get some on
his lower body for balance.
Why did you say that?
Okay.
Say what you want.
I want to look normal when we date.
I wish you'd look at me more than tattoo pictures.
When we eat, you should focus on eating.
Cao Lu, is it a concern or not?
Is it a concern?
It's hard to find someone who loves you this much.
Don't lose her.
Don't make her cry.
Thank you.
Hyemi.
I think it's a concern.
You should reach a compromise soon.
It's not a concern?
I don't think it's a concern.
I think they'll solve the problem.
The cool expert.
It's a concern?
I think so. I don't think it's about the tattoos.
It's about etiquette.
If you sympathize with her,
press the button!
(What does the audience think?)
5.
4.
3.
2.
1.
Okay.
Is it because there are a lot of women?
Say something to your girlfriend.
Since you don't like me looking at pictures,
I won't and I'll answer all your calls.
I love you more than tattoos.
How much?
If I love tattoos this much,
Seolhwa…
(A fierce fight against tattoos)
There isn't much of a difference.
It should be this much.
I love you, Seolhwa.
Tell her you love her this much.
I love you this much.
(Her heart melts)
He's bright.
He's really good looking.
She's happy.
Show us the result!
The last digit.
Will it be 177?
(Will she win?)
A lot of people pressed the button.
147.
That's a lot.
(Eliminated / Survives)
'That's mean'.
It's from a man in his 20's.
There is a man who drives me crazy all day.
"Hey!"
"Do you know what time it is?"
"Are you still sleeping?"
5 more minutes.
"Forget it!"
"Get up right now!"
From the moment I open my eyes…
"Where are you?"
I'm having a drink with my friends.
"Are you crazy?"
"You must have finally lost your mind."
"Get back here right now!"
He nags until I go to sleep.
Who is it?
My older brother.
His older brother?
Yeah?
He controls his brother.
He looks perfectly normal,
but whenever he opens his mouth…
"You little… I ought to…"
"Write on the bulletin board."
It sounds like he's swearing.
Whenever he opens his mouth, he swears.
"Why do you live?"
"Do you even have a brain?"
He makes reckless comments.
Do you know what else?
"Where did you go without telling me?"
A friend came over.
"Ooh! Ooh! Ooh!"
He punches me.
He hits him?
"Ooh! You!"
"I ought to…"
"Whack!"
She didn't hit me, but it feels like she did.
(The power is different)
My friend was right there.
My close friend was there.
That's not good.
He spoke recklessly and insulted me.
Yeongja, will you scold him for me?
For no reason…
Let's meet him first.
Come on out!
(Who is suffering because his older brother is
always interfering?)
(Jeong Guhyeong)
(He's good looking)
He looks nice. No wonder.
Please introduce yourself.
Hello. I'm 28-year-old Jeong Guhyeong.
Twenty-eight?
- Twenty-eight? / - Yes.
He looks young.
How old is your brother?
Twenty-nine.
He's only 1 year older?
1 year.
(Why is he like that?)
You're only a year apart?
I thought there was a large age difference.
It's not even 1 year. It's 10-11 months.
6 months would be strange.
She got pregnant right away.
It has to be at least 10 months.
How does he interfere?
When I wake up…
"Get up. Wash up. Come on. Get in the car."
He orders me around.
Like a soldier?
Yes, he orders me around.
Does he call you, too?
He calls me often.
What does he say?
"Where are you? Who are you with?"
"Get home right now!" He says that.
How does he say it?
He gets mad.
His eyes get big. Hey!
"Hey! Come out!"
In the morning?
"Get up! Aren't you going to work?"
He grinds his teeth.
Since when?
Since I started working with him
when I was 23.
Since you worked together.
Does he make you do things, too?
He drinks sometimes.
He calls me.
He asks if I can pick him up.
He drove there.
He wants you to drive?
Yes.
I take a cab and go to get him.
He goes to get him.
A brother who is a year older.
Did you ever call him?
If I ask him to pick me up, he says
I shouldn't have taken the car when I'm drinking.
He does that.
That's right, but he tells me not to.
Is he ever affectionate?
Affectionate?
Not to me.
- Not once? / - He just orders you around?
I'd like to meet his brother.
Right.
We should hear his side, too.
Where are you?
He looks exactly like him.
They look alike.
The eyes.
Is everything he said true?
It's true, but it's all from his point of view.
You don't understand his concern?
No, I don't.
As the oldest son, I only did that to guide him
in the right direction.
Everything was told from his point of view.
So, how do you tell him?
- When I get mad? / - How do you get mad?
When he has to get up.
You're sleeping.
Say you want to sleep 5 more minutes.
Get up.
Get up right now! Do you know what time it is?
Get up!
5 more minutes.
Get up right now!
Do you know what time it is? Get up!
(He's getting too mad in the morning)
He would stop if you got up right away.
You don't get up.
He's not getting up.
He should be nice. Get up. Let's go.
But as soon as he opens the door,
he says get up.
As soon as he opens the door,
he orders me to get up.
Are you unsatisfied with him?
Yes. I worked since I was twenty.
He smoked in high school.
He's addicted to the SNS and doesn't work.
He doesn't take care of our parents either.
You think that's pathetic?
Yes. It's frustrating.
When did you start smoking?
I don't smoke.
What about the SNS?
I don't do that much.
What do you do for your parents?
I make a lot of money and try to be a good son.
I'm frustrated, too, after hearing that.
What's the deal?
He's saying something completely different.
Why did you start smoking so early?
It was in the 12th grade.
The 12th grade.
He's good to your parents.
I'm good to our mother, too.
The three of us live together.
He moved out.
I thought I got freedom.
I wouldn't have to drive for him anymore.
But it got worse.
How?
You don't live together.
With texts.
He texts in the morning.
"Where are you? Are you up?"
"What are you doing?"
"Hurry up. Where are you?"
If I'm a bit late, he sends 80 some texts.
Eighty?
He keeps sending them.
Do you really send 80 texts?
I send more if I have to.
I think he'll wake up if he hears it.
(Did you get up? / Hey! / What are you doing?)
(You really… / Answer me)
(Come on. / You're not… / From a rich family)
(He keeps texting until he gets up)
If you get up at three after drinking,
you're a jerk.
After drinking?
Three in the afternoon?
You didn't go to work?
The hours are free.
We have different roles. I could go to work late.
If you have free hours and different roles,
you don't have to worry.
Sure, but we have a cell phone store
and restaurant.
We're both owners.
We're owners and employees.
The restaurant opens at twelve.
I told him to get there before twelve.
I got mad because he got up at three.
He told you to open the store before twelve.
It's true that I was a bit late.
You were late.
Oh, that hurts.
He texts like that all the time.
How many does he usually send?
Around fifty.
Even when you're not late?
He says I should get up early and go to work.
I get texts every morning.
Even when you don't make mistakes?
Is there anything you can't take?
We're both owners.
If I tell the employees to clean a bit,
they say my brother said not to.
That's what they say.
The employees?
They look down on you, too?
He completely ignores me in front of them.
He opens his eyes wide and yells at me.
The employees all see that. I cower.
When you should control and lead them.
Yes.
I don't think he can control his anger.
He always gets mad at me.
What else?
When I was just discharged from the army,
I was really happy.
He said he drinking with friends.
I needed $20 to have fun.
That's not a lot of money.
I went with my friends.
He threw $20 on the floor.
- On the floor? / - Yes.
No way.
Really.
It drove me crazy.
His friends were there and so were mine.
I got tears in my eyes when I picked it up.
You shouldn't have picked it up.
I needed it.
I understand.
I understand.
I should teach you.
I'll throw it.
Give me $20.
Ooh!
I stand cowering.
Oh, boy!
(Don't bend over)
Do that next time.
Don't bend over, but hold on to the money.
That's wrong. Why did you do that?
There were friends there.
He drank a lot the day before, too.
I gave him money then, too.
He kept repeating that.
He didn't work.
He just asked for money.
I was mad, so I threw it.
How long was it after he was discharged?
A little less than 5 months.
You…
5 months?
You should have gotten your act together then.
Your life should have returned to normal.
I was discharged on October 12.
October 13 is my birthday.
I should have fun.
He told me to come to work
and ordered me around.
When did he throw the money?
About 5 months after I was discharged.
I thought it was right away.
What are you talking about?
He got mad because you drank again
5 months after you were discharged.
But you threw it. In front of your friends.
He has pride, too.
That was mean.
I did that on purpose.
$20 isn't a lot, but I already gave him
a lot before that.
Did you try telling him?
Did you do that because he didn't listen?
I tried talking to him.
I told him to work hard and save money.
They're both saying different things.
I can't tell who is right.
A friend is here.
He knows the both of them.
- Hello. / - Hello.
What is your relationship to them?
I worked with them before.
Do you think the older brother is excessive?
If I made a mistake,
he didn't say much. He said it was alright.
If Guhyeong made the same mistake,
he talked to him.
His voice was loud, so I could hear him.
Did he swear, too?
A little.
Did you think he was mean?
He's good at multi-tasking,
but Guhyeong isn't.
He can't multi-task?
No.
He makes him multi-task, so he makes mistakes.
"Can't you even do this? Why can't you do this?"
Does he talk as if he's irritated?
- Yes. / - What does he say?
We had a gathering. He was a bit drunk.
He was lying down. I told him to get up.
He told me to let go.
As soon as he got up, he asked why
I grabbed him like that.
He dragged me out by the collar.
He took me outside and hit me.
He hit me.
For no reason?
Yes.
It got loud, so they called the police.
The police came?
Yes.
Why did you do that?
Really.
You don't remember, do you?
He just wanted to go home.
We talked over a drink.
Business wasn't very good.
I had to think about our family, the employees
and the business.
He wasn't thinking like that.
We were both owners and sons,
but he didn't seem to care.
We fought over a difference of opinion.
You didn't fight.
He was the only one who was hit.
It was one-sided.
It wasn't like that.
The police didn't come because I beat him up.
They came because men were fighting.
You keep mentioning you're the oldest son.
Did you feel that pressure since you were little?
I felt a lot of pressure.
We're only a year apart, but I had to
be responsible because I'm older.
Why did you feel such pressure?
Did you have financial problems?
No.
Our parents don't give us money.
We had to make a lot of money.
He matured early.
But all he does is drink and go on the SNS.
You started both stores with money you earned?
Yes.
That's amazing.
He's…
Did you know that?
They're very different.
Did you know he felt that way?
No.
You just thought he was ordering you around?
Yes.
He's immature.
They must not talk much.
There's a reason I go on the SNS.
I'm a promotional ambassador in Dongducheon.
Dongducheon?
Yes, I'm a promotional ambassador.
You can be one even if you're not a celebrity.
What do you do?
I find lost dogs or items for people.
I received an award for catching criminals.
It makes my heart pound. It's so much fun.
I'm very passionate about it.
You want to do that.
But my brother asks why I do that.
It makes his heart pound. Why do you stop him?
He catches thieves, too.
It's good work.
I didn't compliment him, but I boasted
about him to my friends. I complimented him a lot.
You boasted to your friends,
but you didn't compliment your brother?
It's like poison to him.
He takes it as a matter of course.
He's a strict brother.
Some parents do that so they won't spoil the kid.
They boast to other parents though.
I'm proud of it a bit,
but he has his work.
Doing that is affecting his own work.
If I was in your position,
I would quit working with
your brother for a while.
I was really stressed and I thought of quitting.
I tell him I'd like to do something else,
but he says I couldn't do anything else.
That's not good.
What is he to you?
Your brother.
He's a wall.
A wall?
He blocks everything I want to do.
If I want to do something, he won't let me,
but I have to do everything he tells me to.
He's cowering more because he's compared.
There must be something to compliment.
Sure.
He's not always drinking and lazy, right?
Compliment him a bit.
Don't tell us. Tell him.
He…
Tell him. Call him by his name.
Guhyeong.
Look at your brother.
Look at him.
Then look at me.
He doesn't call my name that much.
What does he call you?
He always says hey.
It's strange to hear him say my name.
Is it making you feel emotional?
It's making me nervous.
Listen to him.
Look at your brother.
Guhyeong.
I know you're not a bad person.
I know you have a warm heart.
I know you care about our family and me.
You did a lot of good as a promotional ambassador.
You should be complimented for that.
Say you're proud he's your brother.
It's awkward because he never says that.
He complimented you.
Say what you want to him.
Yeongseung!
Respect me a bit more.
Be a bit nicer when you talk to me.
I hope we can get along better.
(They need to practice talking to each other)
Cao Lu, is it a concern?
It's not a concern.
He's an awesome brother.
I envy you.
All the guests were her ideal type.
The husband from Wando and this older brother.
I think it's a concern.
I'm sure he's helpful in many ways,
but he's only thinking of his faults.
Is it a concern or not?
It's a concern.
I think it's a concern, too.
If he gets to work on time, compliment him.
Show a bit more care for him.
You should listen well.
You have a problem, too.
I think it's a concern, too.
If you think he had a hard time, press the button!
(What does the audience think?)
5.
4.
3.
2.
1.
Okay.
You have to admit he's cowering too much.
He won't be able to stand straight elsewhere.
You admit that, right?
Yes.
What do you want to say to him now?
I only swore and nagged as an older brother.
I didn't have any bad intentions.
I hope that didn't hurt you.
I'll compliment you a lot from now on.
How many votes did he get? Show us!
(Here is the result)
They all put themselves in an older sibling's
position, so there weren't a lot of votes.
Right.
85.
(Eliminated)
Thank you.
'Find My Husband' wins a second time.
She receives a prize worth $1,000.
Congratulations.
Until the day Korea has no more concerns,
"Hello Counselor" is here to help!
Thank you!
("Let’s Leave It" / Sam Kim feat. Crush)