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For Your Welfare, by Krishna's Mercy
"O Raghava, all good fortune unto You. From the moment you accept my offer, I am ready
to follow Your every step. Indeed, while serving You, the difficulties of residence in the
forest will seem quite pleasing to Me." (Sita Devi speaking to Lord Rama, Valmiki Ramayana,
Ayodhya Kand, 29.15)
This statement of Sita Devi is so pure and wonderful that it warms the heart. One can
read this line over and over again and still enjoy the bliss brought on by the purest sentiment
ever uttered. The two key phrases of this statement are “all good fortune unto You”
and “while serving You.”
Sita Devi was the incarnation of Goddess Lakshmi, known as the goddess of fortune. According
to the Vedas, there is one God and He appoints various demigods, deputies in a sense, to
manage the affairs of the material world. Lakshmi is a manifestation of God’s pleasure
potency, known as hladini-shakti. Woman is the energy of man, or the better-half. Lakshmi
is God’s energy, providing good fortune to devotees so that they may in turn use that
fortune to serve God. As God’s pleasure potency, Lakshmi is completely devoted to
Him and serves Him constantly. Many thousands of years ago, she came to earth in the form
of the beautiful princess named Sita. Since she serves as God’s wife in the spiritual
world, she naturally assumed the same role in the material world. Sita was married to
Lord Rama, an incarnation of Lord Krishna. Lord Rama was born in the dynasty of kings
known as the Ikshvakus, who were all very pious. Lord Rama’s father was Maharaja Dashratha,
the king of Ayodhya.
After enjoying a brief period of married life, Lord Rama was unexpectedly ousted from the
kingdom by His father and ordered to spend fourteen years in exile in the forest. Only
the Lord was ordered to go, but Sita wanted to accompany Him. Lord Rama was hesitant to
bring her along since forest life would be very difficult compared to the luxurious life
they were used to living in the kingdom. Sita Devi vehemently argued in favor of her going
and one of her statements was that she should like to go with Rama for His welfare, in order
that she may serve Him.
In general, most of us think of our welfare first. We live with ourselves every day, so
naturally we are looking to please our personal interests first. We eat what we want, sleep
when we want, and go where we want. This is the benefit of independence as we see it.
According to the Vedic philosophy, we are spirit souls at our core, but due to our desire
to be like God and enjoy, we were placed in this material world. While here, our souls
are placed in various types of bodies based on our desires and qualities. Currently in
the human form, we seek after sense gratification, thinking ourselves to be the proprietor of
our possessions.
On the surface, seeking sense gratification doesn’t seem to be harmful. After all, acting
in our self-interest should make us happy. Yet we find that this happiness is hard to
come by. Evidence of this can be seen by studying the actions of those who are extremely successful
materially, the wealthy. Whether it’s Bill Gates or Warren Buffet, we see that amassing
tremendous amounts of wealth doesn’t bring satisfaction in the arena of sense gratification.
Once people become free from the desire to earn more money, they take to the practice
of philanthropy. They engage in charitable acts of opening hospitals, schools, and various
other non-profit entities.
Charity is a wonderful activity because it purifies us. Instead of concentrating on our
own welfare, we become concerned with the disposition of others. Acquiring fame and
fortune are very nice, and we feel fortunate and blessed to be in such a position. Conversely,
it pains us to see those who aren’t as fortunate, so through charity, we try to alleviate that
pain. Charity is also an act of love. Wanting more for someone else than you want for yourself
is the definition of love. Love is the most liberating feeling because it brings us back
to our natural constitutional position as spirit souls. Originally, we all had a pure
loving relationship with God, and that was forgotten once we entered this material world.
The other important phrase in Sita’s statement was “while serving You.” This is an anathema
to many people. As previously mentioned, we have a tendency to give priority to serving
our interests over serving others. This phrase is also in stark contrast with the teachings
of the modern day feminist movement. Wanting liberation from the perceived bondage of the
past, the feminist movement that took hold in the late 1960s aimed at giving independence
to women. This movement taught women to break free of their reliance on men and not to cow-tow
to them. Wanting to be on par with men, women began refusing to have doors held open for
them, to have men compliment them, and to let men pay for lunches and dinners. The idea
was that women could do anything that men could do.
Now there is nothing wrong with independence per se. Self-reliance is a very good thing
because it affords one a chance at peace, which leaves more time for God realization.
However, it is a mistake for anyone, man or woman, to get caught up in the idea of independence.
We spirit souls have a minute amount of independence in that we have a choice in how our senses
will react with nature in the form of work. Still, we actually have no control over the
results or fruits of our work. This is all determined by the laws of material nature,
put into place by God. These laws, collectively known as the system of karma, represent the
ultimate system of fairness, providing good and bad results for all fruitive action. Simply
put, good or bad things can happen to us based on what we do. We may work very hard at something,
but that doesn’t guarantee success. Winning and losing, success and failure, victory and
defeat, these are all determined by our karma and the karma of others. Thinking that we
are the doers is the first mistake made by the living entities. We actually have no independence.
By her one statement, Sita Devi summed up the meaning of life. People search far and
wide, speculating and proposing various theories and racking their brains for the answers to
life’s questions, but that is all unnecessary. The perfection of life can be achieved when
one surrenders everything unto God and willingly becomes His servant. Just as loving others
by performing charitable works brings us temporary joy, performing charity for God and loving
Him will bring us eternal happiness. The aim of life should be to one day reach the same
platform of loving devotion that Sita Devi had. We should all hope to share the same
sentiments towards God that Sita did. In the Bhagavad-gita, Lord Krishna describes the
four types of people that come to Him:
“O best among the Bharatas [Arjuna], four kinds of pious men render devotional service
unto Me—the distressed, the desirer of wealth, the inquisitive, and he who is searching for
knowledge of the Absolute.” (Bg. 7.16)
Most of us fall into the category of wanting something from God, artha-arthi. This is very
natural, for we know that God is the greatest and that He can supply us with everything.
However, this is a second class form of worship. Instead of asking something from God, we should
offer services to Him. God isn’t in need of anything, but we should still want to serve
Him for His benefit. This is the highest form of love as exemplified by God’s wife, Sita
Devi. We too can exhibit this form of love through the practice of bhakti yoga, or devotional
service. God ultimately wants to see everyone happy, and He knows that serving Him allows
us to achieve the ultimate pleasure. It is for this reason that the Lord gladly accepts
our service.
The best way to serve the Lord is to constantly chant His holy names, “Hare Krishna Hare
Krishna, Krishna Krishna, Hare Hare, Hare Rama Hare Rama, Rama Rama Hare Hare”. By
chanting and following the regulative principles of bhakti yoga, we will be following the great
example set forth by Sita Devi. Her love was so pure and spontaneous that Lord Rama was
forced to take her with Him to the forest. Through her love, she was able to purchase
the Lord. May Sita be always in Rama’s company, and may we always remember and honor her pure
devotion.