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- Have you ever actually given a makeover?
- No.
(groovy music)
- What is it about women like Beyoncé and Lady Gaga
and Barbara that make them a gay icon?
- I think it's their talent, their long hair,
and their glittery outfits.
- What gay male stereotype do you wish didn't exist?
- I think that we all know fashion.
I don't know fashion, I want to pay somebody
to teach me about fashion.
- Yeah.
- What's the obsession with rating each other's body hair?
- Oh...
- You know, you've got, like, cubs and otters...
- We're very very vain people.
- Do you have to be, like, bears with bears, cubs with cubs?
- No, definitely not.
- When it comes to sex, do you guys basically have
the same positions as straight people
or do you have fun new ones?
- I think we have the same as straight people, actually.
There are tons of fun positions...
- Are you anyone's stereotypical gay best friend?
- I am gay, and I am some people's best friend,
so I guess...
- Do they ever call you their gay best friend?
- I have one friend who does that and maybe I wish
they wouldn't do that, 'cause it's, like, a blanket term,
and it reduces any nuance of a friendship 'cause it puts me
into the stereotype category.
- Where do you think the stereotype of gay men
and lesbians can't get along comes from
because I've never been able to figure that out.
- Because it's true, we don't get along.
(laughs)
- I think gay men and lesbians have different ways of just
living life in general, you know, gay guys are like
"What do you wanna do on a Friday?", they're like,
"Oh, we just wanna dance or..."
(imitates techno beat)
And lesbians are, like, and this is what I think,
they're like, "Oh, get some brie out of the kitchen!"
I mean, the phrase "Get some wine" and just...
- That does sound like an amazing night!
(laughter)
- Do you all like to dance?
- Ohh, probably.
(laughter)
- I have not met a gay guy in my life that is, like,
"Oh, I don't dance."
- Have you ever hooked up with a man that identifies
as straight and then they freaked out?
- Nobody freaked out or was, like, "What did I do?",
but I'm sure there's freakouts all the time.
- Do you get upset when women are in gay bars?
- There's two different parts of that answer, 'cause I think
no, because women should be everywhere, and yes,
only because there are less sexy men that can get in,
'cause then they're like, "Argh, I can't do anything"
"with you guys here."
- What makes someone a power bottom?
- I think they're just willing to do all the work,
they're willing to take control and do what is ordinarily
seen as a "passive" job, and just, like,
make it their ***.
- Are there actually less mind games when it comes to
having two guys in a relationship or is it about the same?
- I feel like gay men play equally the same amount
of mind games...
- Okay!
- That lesbians would.
- Do you feel that gay men value monogamy less
or committed relationships less than women?
- Oh my God, I feel really bad for overgeneralizing gay men,
but I think there's a really bad case of FOMO
when it comes to gay men.
- Before you sexually interact with another gay male,
do you guys have a conversation about what roles
you are or wanna be in this instance?
- Yes. It's almost bewildering how candid people
are willing to be.
- 'Cause I guess whenever I think about gay men having sex,
all the time!
- It's just, like, bend over!
- Yeah, it's all "Bend over!" and I was like...
- [Voiceover] It's just like doggy style.
- Yeah, that's how we do it all the time.
- That's all I think.
- Let's have sex, here you go!