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Why does my boyfriend stare at other girls? He should be looking at me.
Guys are visual creatures. They instinctively follow the most beautiful and alluring creature
in the room.
So he’s going to get to blame biology for staring at the smuttiest girl in the room.
If she’s beautiful or dressed in a revealing manner, it will get his attention. However,
it is his choice how long she has it.
And if he keeps staring at them, then it is his fault.
To a degree. He should be thinking about you, even when he looks at them.
He’s comparing me to them.
But he’s with you. So he should control his impulse to stare at other women because
of his affection for you.
Or how it will affect his relationship with me. Like how I’d like to slap him.
As I said, it is his choice if he gapes at the girl with a low neckline or glances before
he returns his attention to your conversation about whatever you were talking about.
What if we were talking about the girl in the slutty dress?
Then you can’t be mad if he at least looks at her.
Rubber necking can get you killed on the road and in your love life.
You can improve the situation by being warm and loving toward him when he returns his
attention to you. Then he’ll prefer to bask in your warmth.
Even if I’m hot under the collar?
If you react with intense anger when his gaze wanders for a moment, he’ll start thinking
of his alternatives.
If you respond to his returned attention with positive attention, you’ll get more of the
behavior you want.
Like training a dog.
They do say guys and dogs are a lot alike.
But dogs tend to be more loyal.
But dogs can’t change your oil or fix a clogged toilet for you.