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so we've got a piece of your mail from unfortunately when back in the day that
was ready for a friend only
where they go
also uh... some viewer mail perhaps have to do with some advice is to do what so
assume wrote to us
he wants to know are considering his social awkwardness how we should go
about approaching women we're gonna read his uh... anonymous letter for you
it says i'm a little bit of a socially awkward person
i've never had a physical girlfriend ever kissed anyone
bill is coming up close to the date was last to draw the homecoming
we went through terrible because of my social awkwardness and the fact real
dating was foreign to me
uh... the only relationships i've had were long distance some work some didn't
now i really need to be girls on the explode in several different factions
uh... can you do story on how to approach moments after monday five how
disaffected took us so long that she did arrive and they hope to hear about your
philosophy yet and answer your question yet there is a relationship now but it
is not really provides device
so the socially awkward he feels uncomfortable part you and i think is on
it's becoming increasingly common
you are a woman we advice that i know that you are especially i think that's
right now that may not have socialize nascimento led me on the show all the
time though would you say that
and anticipated this person is in high school maybe early college years
and i think it you know don't feel bad just because you haven't had a date or a
case up to this point i have talked to and to you and that brings up a new a
lot of people this is like i'm funny a friend that you could look at the top
by i've partially because someone's on that
and
now but i think that a lot of people actually don't have their first can't
until later in high school or or a or early in college
maybe not a lot but i think there are a guideline for family disappearance that
bears out but i think that i think the more people get on my school and make it
work outlet of people live and i think in the fairmount who you know never
really have a have boyfriend or girlfriend into lake off to college and
i think
don't feel like an army parts and your family are the people on the same bout
so i think it batch and at least to give you kind of a little bit of relieved to
know that when you're approaching these women
maybe they read in the same but that you are doesn't necessarily mean that
they're weighed more you know sexually experience that you are or something
like that
and way more confident works fraction relationships and not play and i think
that antiabortion profits of about confidential i was going to college but
darcy and that somebody's more confident that you are that you're talking to
*** and are therefore or socially awkward as you are and so
kind almost like
like take on a personality and say you know what
like this competent person
at birth and until you actually become that person i think that you know john
talked about lake
near your hoping somebody in the dorms than after getting out ewww that person
that goes around the volleyball and says hey we're getting a bible game together
so i think uh... you know just
don't stress and i don't make a big deal just i think casually start talking and
groans
and i think
it'll kind of car about actually and you can just doesn't have to be like
consciousness msc recently
cannot be used that quote
here a lot of time as you just go grab
like sometime their the only way that your digital learners is by trotting and
i know the uh... that's easy to say if the people who don't try it's because
they don't want to be rejected all that
but understand that but you're in college there's so many people like
people worry that like this is the person i like amass them out if they
rejected it would be devastated but you know what someone else later on to so
many people eager to move to different city like
consider these people practice like the national of the cold hearted but
that's the way you gotta get out there that is
unknown also gonna give you some advice
the interesting thing is that
humans kind of wheat will want to cut a similar thing like the people are
considered track that i think there's some variation like none of it as exact
same type
but we all want a similar thing we all pitch ourselves being with the same sort
of people i think in general
ended if you are socially awkward
but you're still hoping to land any model or you know like the cheerleader
of something
at the picture here pertinent chances your undercutting yourself like
there are i'd probably thanks to the influence of the internet server that
there's a lot of social occurred women too
truck approached them in-person or online like
there are certainly lots of campus clubs and things like that they don't
necessarily attract
you know the the big man on campus and cheerleaders with need people ran a
similar experience levels you and i think you brought up about that point
out practice too which is if you do have a huge crash on somebody
maybe have somebody else that you don't really like because anything she now
not really a big deal
and if they say yes then that's great you got the practice of dating
doesn't have to be anything serious time to break anybody's hearts in the process
uh... disco one if you find casual dates and who has a deal actually end up
really liking them yet
um... so those are those are a few bits of advice that we have a painfully the
internet is is sprinkled with all sorts of relationship of racism that we come
back to every once in awhile
anyway i'm really glad that we got a bit of your mail will try in the future to
have a quicker turnaround time on receiving the letter and responding to
it that letter today and will get a in december yet if you're still around with
a comment also if you have advice for me this is something that you grappled with
and hopefully
made some progress in over the course of college as i think i was able to make
some
uh... progress in provides an advisement hamilton surely appreciate it
you can always make progress distributors upgrade out as we know
socially awkward there
and if not sunday sex robots
person they'll have a super sexy counting on that
catholic it's almost like being in a relationship just more crying after the
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