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Byron Katie: "Your mother abandoned you for alcohol." Is it true?
Man: In my. . .
Byron Katie: It's a "yes" or "no."
So, notice how you react; what happens when you think this thought: "My mother abandoned me for alcohol."
So, give me an example: "I don't want her to be strong."
How many of you are in this inquiry right now?
OK, give me an example, in your experience: "I don't want her to be strong."
Woman: Because that way, you can keep your story and you can be that little whiny, cry-y person.
Like, I've done that. And then I get to be the weak identity.
Byron Katie: That's really powerful.
Man: Then my story has to be changed.
You are so lovely.
Byron Katie: So, if someone. . .
Man: I'd like to introduce you to the new me.