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Heya playas, if you like a girl in your class and you've been dying to find a way to ask
her out, well, Facebook is the best and the worst way to communicate with her. Why is
that though, everyone's on Facebook? Well today you're going to learn the right way
to go about it and the wrong way which you should avoid. Our first initial thought is
Facebook makes it so much easier to talk to the girl that you like. All you have to do
is add her as a friend and you could spend all day staring at her photos. And while you
think this is good for you, it's actually bad if your intention is to go out with her.
Consider this for a moment, you like a girl, add her on Facebook, cross your fingers and
hopes that she adds you and then when she does you message her with the word HEY. Boom,
conversation started. See how easy that was? But since it's so damn easy to do, every other
single guy out there that likes her is doing the exact same thing. Guys, I don't know if
you're aware of this but girls get messages from random guys all the time. At first it
may be flattering to hear a random guy tell you that you're cute but after a while, hearing
it over, and over, and over from all these dudes you don't know, it just tends to be
too much. What ends up happening is that the girls just breeze right over those messages
unless the guy says something that truly stands out. If you like a girl in your school or
it's someone you met in the neighborhood and you want to ask them out, take that question
offline. Because the only real way you'll stand out to her is by talking to her in person.
This way, you won't be put into the same category as all the other guys who message her with
the same useless dribble. Another thing you should probably avoid is constantly messaging
a girl over and over and over, even when she hasn't responded once. If she's giving you
little answers like LOL and COOL, then there's no real conversation going on there. You have
to talk to her in person. Plus, following her status updates and seeing what she's doing
and using that as leverage to talk to her, it just makes you seem desperate. If you add
a girl on Facebook that you've never talked to in person and ask her to go out with you,
she's not gonna respond positively because she doesn't know who you are. You're way better
off focusing on an initial conversation that'll happen outside of Facebook. Even if the conversation
is small, introduce yourself to her. Talk about something that's your hobby, ask her
what her hobby is. From here, you now have some kind of substance to work with. You can
message her about your in person conversation, tell her to go more in depth on her hobbies
and then, and only then when the conversation hits the peak where it's no longer awkward,
only then can you ask her out. The majority of people want the safest route when it comes
to asking a girl out because they're afraid of rejection. The problem with taking the
safe route is that you really clump yourself in with all the other guys. What do you guys
think though, have you ever asked a girl out on Facebook or were you planning on doing
it? Leave your comments and stories below so we can talk about it. The key here is to
be bold and to not be afraid of rejection. The truth is, you're not gonna get every single
girl you ask out and you only hurt your chances of going out with her if you initially ask
her on Facebook. And if you ask her out and receive no response or she turns you down,
don't worry. I can guarantee that there are a million girls out there for you to talk
to. As always guys, love and peace. Hey, thanks for watching. If you're new to the channel
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