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hello everyone it's Alexandra and today
I'm gonna be talking about how much I hate small talk.
I hate I hate small talk do you hate small talk? I hate small talk
I don't care about your cabinets and I don't really care about your clothes I'm
not the kind of person that likes to talk about sensory things like he said
she said there's no win. I mean there's always three sides to the truth.
make your time with each other count, ask how they are and answer honestly don't
just say I'm fine what does fine mean? fine isn't good, fine
isn't bad. Treat people with respect. Talk TO them
don't talk AT them. A conversation is like a tennis match when someone hits
you the ball you don't just take it and run with it you throw it back.
Be kind to each other we all have problems we live in a fake world where everything is
picture-perfect I mean just look at everyone's Instagram feeds it's so easy
to feel like you have a crappy life because you don't do those things but
you know what those people are only showing you the highlights they're only
showing you what they want you to see when you know them in real life it's
like a completely different person so let's try to be a little bit more real
we live in a fake world let's not add to that let's go deeper with big ideas this
place is weird our bodies are weird
Look up.
Pay attention to what you can't see. Go outside, reconnect with nature,
Learn something new, play devil's advocate.
I don't know let's talk about the Mandela effect.
(Car radio TOP) "I ponder of something terrifying cause this time there's no sound to hide
behind to find over the course of human existence one thing consists of
consistence and it's that we're all battling fear oh dear I don't know if we
know why we're here oh my too deep please stop thinking I liked it better
when my car had sound. There are things we can do but from the things that work
there are only two and from the two that we choose to do peace will win and fear
we'll lose now there's faith and theres sleep we need to pick one please because faith
is to be awake to be awake is for us to think and for us to think is to be alive
and I will try with every rhyme to come across like I am dying to let you know
you need to try to think I have these thoughts so often I ought
to replace that slot with what I once bought. Cause somebody stole my car radio and
now I just sit in silence."
and most importantly have fun, don't take life too seriously
but take it seriously enough not to waste your time because you never get it back.
So make it count. Alright guys thank you for watching this
video if you also hate small talk tell me some of your favorite crazy
conversation starters I'd love to hear what you guys like to talk about.
as always, stay comfy