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a fraternity has outed at Duke University freshman who is doing *** on
the side in order to pay for tuition and she also feel that something that
empowers her
so she went to XO Jane to lot
to talk about the reasons why she wants to do ***
and cut into a strike back to all the people that have been criticizing her
no shoes attempting to not reveal her identity on all these different stories
and interviews that she's been doing
but her identity is out there unfortunately she's getting a
considerable amount of
a bullying and criticism as a result of the decision making in her life
so I'm she says the following: I did not expect that
every private detail about my life would be dissected
I did not expect that my intelligence and work ethic would be questioned and
criticized
and I certainly did not expect that extremely personal information
concerning my identity
and whereabouts would be so carelessly transmitted to the college got supports
now I will say I have read some of those boards and they are revealing
everything about her her Facebook page her email where you can find her how you
can harass her
and that just goes above and beyond maybe you don't agree with her decision
to do ***
that's one thing but to go out of your way to put her in danger because they're
crazy people out there
that's going above and beyond yeah well it's so unique story where i disagree
with
everybody in the store hmm okay so she says
well how dare you expose me for doing ***
that makes no logical sense what do you think was going to happen when you did
***
so I don't quite get our argument another him
the guys that hang your are vicious in our what
reason SOC good *** enjoy it can go crazy
a very but in your private life who were you bullied her for I don't even
understand that I have some examples of what they're saying on the boards I just
took
the exact comments and I'm a graphic saw them so look at them in just a second
but she also goes into the reasons why she did it and it goes beyond being able
to pay for her very expensive tuition
she's a I can say definitively that I have never felt more empowered her happy
doing anything else
in a world where women are so often Rob up their choice
I'm completely in control my sexuality as a bisexual woman
with many *** quirks I feel completely accepted
it's freeing it's empowering it's wonderful it's how the world should be
I'm not ashamed of *** on the contrary doing ***
fulfills me I saw way to graduate from my dream school with no debt
doing something that makes me feel really happy and doing something that I
love
and I took it I have been lucky enough to receive financial aid
oh and then this comment I thought was really interesting because she's getting
some criticism from other women
right hand I disagree with them too yeah I desire with everyone at this
okay so she says I've been lucky enough to receive financial aid so I can attend
do
but if I had not the same sex opportunities available to you:
would not have been available to meet as it Asian while men
that's what than a girl who rode in so now this is the triple flip side with
these are now women complaining about her
having opportunities as a thin blonde white woman they say
she's not block which makes no sense okay there is not
available to them Derek I got good news or bad news for you depending on how you
take it
is plenty of opportunities for Asian women in poor K
so Kat how can every BBC Sport damn wrong in one story
so what they're better at her
because she is opportunities in point that they don't have their jealous of
her or produce she's getting buoyed like there's no tomorrow on campus
what do you joe also nobody got a good way like that's a super labs that are
like
oh yeah wealthy should be open everybody is open to everybody in your was
important
and other people and other minorities can't be important just goto
for quick I don't know theory good can you go online can you get into a top in
***
my him believe me there are opportunities for everybody
okay so that's ridiculous and to the guys
why are you bill literally her why don't you just watch it and be done with it
okay yeah NY like outing her like how you gotta gotta for what
and the wait is she got out it was a little sad although she didn't want her
identity to be revealed
she shouldn't have gone to a frappe
and revealed it to one of the members okay that's like the worst thing you can
do but anyway
she went all someone who isn't afraid that she's friends with
and then he went and told all the proper others at a party
and of course all the more I like wildfire course it's going to
so just to give you some examples of what people are saying about our online
up one person wrote cry me a *** reverse light
now get down on your knees and suck my *** prove that you don't need to be
smart to get into Duke I guess
another person says she gets exposes a *** then complains about being called
a ***
you have sex with strangers for money that's a dictionary definition of what a
poor is
it's not bowling when people accuse you of doing something you actually do
and then finally remember back in the days when people had foresight and
understood the consequences of their actions
another they avoided selling their *** because they might be humiliated
if people the new found out about it okay so
I get don't cry me a river okay and I might even be in that camp
okay but why do you have a caller horace lot like what do you have to prove
I think your mind to a guy I knew in high school who
said one of our friends oh and I'll make up a name him I was going up selling
but sell it was looks like you've been with all the guys in this group
she said will not you I exactly like these as his sole bidder that they
didn't have the sex
it cetera just caddy drive me crazy these guys the same as my whole life
were like if somebody have a girl had sex I would look at it as like back
when I was a nice to let that happen that often right this is the governor
my Google fritz like ivy league yes good word problems having sex right
and they'd like up slot look mall go discourage it would you home with you
I think you're right it does come from a place that bitterness and jealousy
because they probably aren't going to be able to sleep with her
but another thing I'll say is look if the Internet
so even if she was doing like Mother Theresa
type work there are always going to be trolls are gonna say something
hideous and heinous about his left to be expected that doesn't bother me as much
what bothers me is when you are sharing information about her whereabouts
so people can harass or in person that is scary stuff and you never know what
kinda crazy person is gonna take that information and do something violent and
dangerous toward her
she doesn't deserve that you don't agree with your choice that's totally fine I
get that
but don't go after her like that and when they do become a bash in OK
conservative moralistic pricks everybody macy's is gonna say long time ago
prospective but in but let's finally turned to her
right I didn't think the *** I was going to do in public
would be how did I don't even understand what that means we mean
outed it's in its *** it's in public
its by definition out I know but she's 18
right so I don't think that she and this is not to be little her
I don't think that she really thought it through okay so my empowering she might
really love it
but she had to have been aware or sure do police
thought about how this is going to impact your future but then you think
about who you are ready 18 and you don't think into the future like that
I don't think that she thought it through completely she might have had
like a hint
but the reality is but I mean this is this is to be expected if your gonna do
*** she was just too young
to get herself into it eighty is really young in my opinion but you can't gain
say anything
but you can't write a whole editorial about how you're not ashamed of ***
its and now and and then tell everybody to stop watching
it doesn't make sense so don't go down we don't don't go live support the time
it will
that she has a that I mean low but what she say don't find out why I am
what she says likes a movie stars they don't watch movies I mean you're going
to help me
well then meet obviously you're rightly or wrongly nothing wrong with a shame
she may be shamed right so if you wanna shoot anybody other ports are ya is not
awesome
yet but I think what she means by outing me is not only revealing her identity
but revealing where she is and how to find
I would yet we all agree that that's totally unacceptable but
to this story is filled with people acting
unacceptably