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Aunt, I'm going out. With Adama.
Hm.
Why do you always see problems?
I am your aunt, Nina.
It's true I'm not much older than you,
but believe me, you haven't seen as much of life as I have.
You know, a man is by definition a hunter, a predator.
If you just fall into his arms when he clicks his fingers,
the chase is over before it has begun.
This boy Adama can promise you the world. His parents are rich.
He can give you presents, even offer you money.
But for a girl there's nothing worse than giving in to a boy like that,
without true feeling, just because it's what he wants.
You're not an object, Nina.
You're a woman filled with dignity and self-respect.
What you want is just as important as what he wants.
If he says you're selfish and only think of yourself,
then tell him the same thing.
You're not the only fish in the sea! Who do you think you are?
But when a boy is genuinely is love, he's the first to say that he's very glad
that the woman he loves respects herself and her body.
Wait Nina!
You've got to make it clear from the start.
Don't let there be any doubt that for you the answer is "No".
It's got to be "No" until you are ready.
Right, you can go now.
Have a good time.