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She’s always complaining I don’t give her enough money.
He’s always complaining I don’t cook the food he likes.
The children need a loving family.
You should listen to your husband.
You should listen to your wife and help her.
Sora, it was OK for a while, but now we are always fighting. I don’t want to live with
him any more. But I’m afraid I’ll lose my children. And I won’t have enough money.
I think the law’s different here in Australia. You need to talk to a lawyer.
What happens if I want a divorce?
You must be separated for at least 12 months, and you can get a divorce even if your husband
doesn’t want one.
And what will happen to my children?
The law says children have the right to see both parents, as long as they are safe. And
both parents should work together to make important decisions about their children.
What about money? How will we live?
We can talk about that now.
The law is the same for men and women.
So what will happen?
The law says children should have a relationship with both parents.
OK but what about the car and the furniture? And we owe money to the bank.
I can explain how to sort out your property and your debts. I will write to Maria about
the children and see if we can try mediation.
What’s mediation?
Mediation is when we sit and talk and try to agree on things - for example when you
spend time with the children and how much time.
Can I get an interpreter?
Of course.
What if we can’t agree?
Well, then you have to go to court.
So, Maria and Yohani, the children will stay with Yohani every Wednesday night and every
second weekend. The rest of the time they will live with Maria. Is that OK with both
of you?
I just want to talk to Maria about this privately. Is this OK?
Yes, of course.
I just wanted to check that you are OK with these times? If you are not OK you do not
have to agree and you can let the court decide.
I like the arrangement; it is a good arrangement for the children and for me.
Yes, I am OK with the arrangement.
What about you Maria?
Yes, that’s fine.
Would it help if we put this agreement into writing so we all know what would happen?
Yes, thank you.