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this and so they are pretty *** buying that puts goodness without conflict the likely
for wars pretrial and
psychology today ran any feature on
how fat islamic can be considered the antibiotic rap so this is an article that was written
by a psychologist uh... by the name of oviedo gots
and all the things that we argues that
because the fact that women consider themselves be strong independent feminists who wanted
dominated their personal lives in a white dominating their careers they feel a little
conflicted in the bedroom because we are as women hardwired to be submissive in the back
room
stopover claims that we want to be dominated in the back room
okay and because of this
uh... contradiction we
end up in the bedroom and we almost feel guilty that we want to be submissive and that we
want to be dominated and old we're not
used to you know buying into that and accepting that so you know it
right now twice as many women
i have a hard time in the bedroom as opposed to man they have a hard time enjoying sex
they have a bunch of *** issues and all he claims that feminism is wanna working theory
that can explain this so allow i'm not i'm not a psychologist i'm not a scientist uh...
i don't know whether or not this theory is right or wrong but i have my own insight into
it
let's say that this theory is right let's say that women are feeling conflicted in the
bedroom you know your feminist you're stronger independent it be in your job
your eight kicking *** and taking names and then you go on the back room and you want
a dominant male
and one of the other email what what's wrong with that if you want to be dominated you
should embrace that if you want to be submissive usually embraced that i don't think that it's
a big deal at all you shouldn't feel conflicted about that
because not our brains
wired to want
in some cases to want a strong matt
and you know of course of you all this goes into
at the specifics of it in fact uh...
because she talks about that type of palin this and how on is wired to wants a strong
dominate mail
uh... and how that's what women find attractive that's why you know a lot of that hunky guys
in romance novels have the muscles and
you know they have the masculine markets because that's the women find attractive
picture which is good
of course some parts
exterior super out
other parts are a little bit more controversy made
so first of all
it we should be clear
of course everybody's wired a little differently
so for example that are theoretically wired to be done with it but a lot of that also
have the wiring
and i know we're putting it into a simplistic terms here but exp it is roughly right
uh... to be submissive and sometimes that
why these active or enacted
so some men have the submissive wiring more active and hence will be says missus in that
and
uh... so
you know all of this is partly related to science is obviously partly related to theories
of pain
now at the point that really was an odd is
i think it's incredibly
possible and
and should be done to separate
real-life from your sex life
totally right
uh... and at the bank
you know i think we should instead of saying that
bank that is the reason
is that reasonable right for example this as you said a strong businesswoman
doesn't want something else in her sex break or strong
man
is that that has the wiring
to be submitted that
so what
in fact if you read
anythink you know i live you don't work
anywhere else you know that there's a lot of guys like that right
who apparently are corporate guys you know you hear it
stories
about all that matters they get busted in nato the stories
about guys who are the
has a fortune five hundred companies are big politicians who like to get spanked or whatever
it is they like to do
it all depends on the line in your head which makes sense now are most women
that co-wrote submissive in that because of the wiring
well began i'm with an update jim on a talk show host not a scientist
so i can only ask that question
and surprised by that not really
it doesn't mean they're submissive in light it just means they like it this way and that's
a lot
and i can see how real quick at lucy howe maybe being submissive and bad we translate
into real-life when it comes to your relationship for instance
if you're submissive in the bedroom maybe your significant other will get the idea that
you're submissive in real life and i could translate over
into everyday living
or maybe the guy will get the dot crazy idea that you want to be dominated every aspect
of your life
so i can see it becoming a problem in that sense
but if it doesn't become a problem and you are submissive in the bedroom embrace that
have fun with it
but the best part about
you know uh...
*** encounters is the pharisees right just having fun with it trying different things
and if you want to be submissive be submissive if you want to dominate dominate
do whatever feels right for you know that's the way i see it
yemen let's dance
that's about that's the uses
i think about something that the invisible trying to get for them
dan is harder obviously
you embody what u what you're trying to golf so hard to be calm
and in all aspects of your life
thank you have to consciously b
are a lot harder and let's have the stuff to get by a male dominated world and then
so
economy
um... what you're really go after saving it may be in the bedroom and you go
acting offer and then there's the conflict just nasty the natural tendencies versus what
you have to push forward for
me that's well
right you know that that's what i in there
realization like these guys wind up in the park straight
because dan is right yes right like it might have this situation where they don't want
to be services for their white or maybe they're embarrassed by copies right but a part of
it could be they don't want that to leak into other parts their lives so that's why people
do occur for example of this of this guy
they pick up a self-contained i don't know that i think you see there that i come back
and i'm still intimacy alan absolute well bosses cetera et cetera and i i get that the
looks of report for guys have not made while sanctions bishops
it'll take you have to separate out two things
once your in a relationship
he can begin to have this kind of conversation
or take a sinister direction
do not make assumptions about women
before you're in any relationship with the
that's a disastrous side
yeah i think that's about the bike you never give in on the show
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