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Heya playas, I want you to know this right from the get go. Always value
yourself as number one. Sometimes it's easier said than done. For example when a
hot girl walks into the picture, you don't know how, you don't know why, but
you somehow find yourself getting in line just to have a chance with her.
I received a comment on one of my videos from violinkarateboy123
saying "Great vid
but if the girl likes you and likes other boys just as much, what should you do?"
Here's the male dilemma.
Women, I'm going to let you in on a little secret. No matter how easy it is to talk
to you or how simple you may be if you're hot,
there is going to be a level of hesitation. And the simple reason for
that is that most guys don't wanna screw it up.
We all know that confidence plays a big role in asking a girl out but what do
you do if she doesn't want to commit to you but would rather weigh her options
with multiple guys? Oddly enough,
this is where a lot of guys back down. The girl says no and they feel
defeated. So what I want to ask you guys out there is really, how badly do you
want to be with her? Because if your answer is badly and you still walking
away, well, you're just not trying hard enough. If she gives you an answer like that
tell her it's not gonna fly with you. Let her know that homey don't play that way. You are the
only one worth focusing on. If you're gonna say that here's the thing. Don't
talk about it, be about it. The real reason why she hasn't chosen one guy
over all of them is because no guy is really made that much of an effort to
sweep her off of her feet. Instead she has a whole bunch of guys that she calls
"friends" that feed her ego and like her. So, why would she want to give that up? Plus if
you see she's trying to force you into this untitled
friend zone, don't fall for it. Don't be her number two guy. That's the guy she
runs to when she wants to complain about the number one guy. The same number one guy
that's giving her the ***.
He's giving her the ***.
He's dropping that ***.
However if you put in work to get her and she still says no just stop chasing her
altogether. Either you move on and find out she's not worth it or she'll
come running back to you once she realizes she's not getting your
attention anymore. Women.
Regardless of what you choose to do always value yourself as number one.
That girl will be a great partner or addition or a person in your life but
don't forget at the end of the day it's still your life.
You're living it for you, not her.
As always guys, love
and peace.
Robert Daniel left a comment saying "I don't think getting rejected and moving on
is a great plan. I would rather keep trying to improve myself and try a few
more time so you can be sure she really doesn't like you". I definitely agree
with you there, there is a very very fine line between persistence and annoyance. If
you're new to the channel make sure to click the subscribe button below and leave me a comment
letting me know, have you ever been a girl's number two guy? And I guess women can
answer this too. Have you ever been the number two girl in a guy's rotation? Let me
know.