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Heya playas, if you find yourself with a girlfriend and things are getting kind of
serious you probably gonna have to meet parents somewhere down the line.
What are you gonna say? How are you gonna act? What can one man do to
make her parents love you?
Stop, it's easier than it looks.
The number one concern that any parent has when someone is dating their
daughter is that they want that person to be responsible. They wanna see
whether or not you somewhat have your life together and that you're not going
to be a
horrible influence on their child. If you're in high school this could mean
planning to go to college or if your college planning to get a job.
If they ask you what you do be real with that but
play up the positives in your life, not the negatives. Yes, I do flip burgers at
McDonald's but I am a great people person which is why they have me working
at the counter.
See that face,
that is not the face you want to have around them. Lots of times people act timid and
shy around the parents because they're thinking well if I don't do
anything they won't hate me but that couldn't be farther from the truth because
her parents will actually love you if you greet them with a smile and shake
their hands every time you see them. Something like that should be protocol
and if it's not,
make it your protocol. Make that effort when it comes to doing chores, cleaning
up after dinner or even paying the bill when you go out to dinner with them. Even if
they don't let you pay just offering is gonna score you some major brownie
points. Manners matter most might I add. If you find yourself in a relationship where
you guys don't share the same culture try your best understand hers. There
definitely will be occasions where you do something wrong or you just don't want
to eat something that they cook. The key to fixing those situations is to
always be gracious and to ask your girlfriend lots of questions. Let her tell
you everything you're going to need to know before you go into any situation
with her family. Some things that might be second nature to her might not be
second nature to you but at the end of the day if you do something wrong just
apologize. it's a simple as that.
*Make out noises*
Excuse me! Sup.
Keep your PDA to a minimum. Maybe you love your girlfriend and you just wanna make
out with her every second of the day. Well you're going to have to put that on hold
because it's very disrespectful to violate their little girl in front of them.
Now there's nothing wrong with a few kisses here and there but keep it
civil, they're her parents not *** directors. And last but not least the
most important way to get her parents to like you is to treat her right. If you're good
to your girls make her feel safe and cared for, she's going to go back to her parents
and tell them all about that. And the very best brownie points that you can get
are from her.
As always guys, love
and peace.
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