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Heya playas, so I want to start off this video with something light that won't really ***
people off. I want to ask the question which matters more, looks or personality or to be
a little more straight forward about it, why are all men liars and all women just naturally
ugly? According to a recent survey I found, 78% of people would rather be in a relationship
with someone that they consider smart and funny as opposed to super hot. And the other
22% are probably superficial ***. Be honest with yourself though, looks are the
first thing you notice about a person. 93% of attraction is build on body language alone.
That means before we open up our mouths and tell them anything about ourselves they're
already developing and opinion about us. It's in the way your shoulders slump or whether
or not you walk with confidence. If done right, most guys can easily make the switch from
normal guy to sexy stud. So what about girls, this diagram should explain everything we
need to know about attractive women. This is probably one of the only occasions you
can say you're part of the 1% and be proud of it. But to be honest, both men and women
lie to each other and that's perfectly fine. See most women want to be taken care of. They
want to hear the infliction in the man's voice that just shout's security. And for most guys
they want to walk around with a woman that's not only gonna turn heads but is gonna snap
necks. So where exactly does the lying come in? Very simple. Men tell girls what they
want to hear and girls show men what they want to see. Hence why every guy tells a girl
baby, I'll never hurt you and every girl cakes her face in make up. Both techniques are meant
to deceive the other person into thinking you're a better catch then you really are
and that's what we call The Game. And don't be one of those people who say I don't do
anything like that. It's ok, it's found everywhere in the animal kingdom. Peacocks flail their
feathers and pigeons do the little pigeon dance. But in order to establish a true connection
we need to look beyond looks into a persons core where their personality lies. In a relationship,
looks will fade over time but does personality follow the same path? As a relationship moves
from the honeymoon stage into a level of comfort people stop asking each other questions. They
just learn to accept what they know as what they know. So once you know everything you
need to keep the wave going, why bother to fix it if it ain't broken? Also being in a
relationships sometimes limits you from being the real person you want to be and therefore
you have to subdue your personality for the other person. So in a way your true personality
doesn't fade away, it just kind of gets shoved under the rug there behind all your shared
experiences and behaviors. Just as looks can be deceiving, personality can be deceiving
too, so which matters more? It's all about balancing. Looks may reel you in and hook
you to become attracted to the person but over time personality is going to be the one
that's gonna keep you there. So on a general scale looks and personality are both equally
important but I guess it all comes down to subjectivity. Sorry for wasting your time.
Like this video if you think I gave a fair assessment of both sides. Leave a comment
letting me know, which do you think matters more, looks or personality? And subscribe
to the channel so you can see new videos every week on philosophy, pick up, culture and self
help topics. As always guys love and peace. Hmm, so if 93% of initial attraction is body
language let's just assume the average opener is about oh a 140 character tweet. That would
mean to craft the perfect opener you'd have to say 7% or about 10 words of what you normally
say. Hey what can I say to get in your pants? Best opener I ever heard.