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Are you in the mood for sex but you don't have someone to make love with? Your desire
for a romantic moment is burning so hard that it has become so unbearable. Your need for
making love has become so severe that the girls notice your neediness for sex. You cannot
hide it any longer and it shows like an open book. As you have noticed, needy guys are
not attractive to women. Neediness repels your potential lovers. Whether you notice
it or not, it is going to affect your game. You need to overcome this obstacle so that
you can have a girlfriend who will fulfill your wildest fantasies.
Once the ladies smell the air of neediness from you, they will avoid you like a plague.
These gorgeous ladies will immediately turn cold towards you as if you have been screened
out from her list of potential boyfriends. If this happens, there is a big chance that
you will land into the dreaded friend zone. Of which you don't want to happen. Therefore
it is crucial that you detect the characteristics of an insecure man first before she does so
that you can remedy the malady that you are facing and get a girlfriend.
Attracting and seducing women is an art, not a rocket science. However a lot of men are
having troubles in dating with women. You have to know the dos and don'ts in picking
up women in order to improve your chance of getting a girlfriend. One of the don'ts is
not to be needy. Here are the traits of insecure guys that you should avoid:
1. You are too serious. Flirting with women is meant to be playful and fun in order to
arouse the girls' attraction for you. Her excitement in your company will open her doors
of romantic possibilities. In other words, light hearted and playful flirting will provide
an environment that is conducive for attraction and seduction while being too serious on the
other hand, will ruin your chance of finding a girlfriend.
2. You give too much information, too soon. How would you feel when a stranger will give
you too many details about herself? She is giving you very personal information that
you don't even need to know. Should you care? You barely know the person and you can live
your life without even knowing those irrelevant facts. So do yourself and the girls a favor
by engaging yourself in a light and interesting conversation. You can reveal further information
on an appropriate time. 3. You tried to bribe her. You just met the
girl and you are already giving her drinks. This is counterproductive than you hope it
would be. You will lose her respect. She will have an impression that you are too desperate
because you need to bribe her so that she will talk to you. Make the girl earn for her
reward before giving it to her. In this way, she will feel fulfilled when she receive your
bounty. 4. You brag about yourself too much. Most
guys shoot themselves in the foot by bragging about themselves. For some reason, ladies
are turned off by arrogant people. Fortunately, there is a way to increase your perceived
value without flaunting your achievements. You can do this by presenting your achievements
instead of talking about yourself all day. In this manner, you can demonstrate your high
value without turning her off. Remember: show but never tell.
5. You are too direct with your *** approach. Believe it or not! Women are being hit on
several times a day. If you don't do something outstanding, you will just be considered as
a regular guy. Perverts are placed in the friend zone and they don't get laid. In order
to remedy this, you will need a dating guide that will introduce you to the basics of attracting
and seducing women. In the dating guide book, you will learn several indirect openers that
will demonstrate your interest in the girl without freaking her out.
6. You are too available for her. One of the common mistakes of the beginners in attracting
and seducing women is being too available for the woman. Being available for her is
good but being too available to her will give her an impression that you don't have a life.
She will think that you have no one else to go to and you have nothing else to do. There
is a high possibility that she will place you in the friend zone just because of this.
7. You are only focused on her. Women will feel uncomfortable when guys are too focused
on them. This will give them an impression that you are a socially incompetent person
who has no social circle. In order to fix this, you need to find some time in talking
and making a good connection with other women. Give her some time to do things on her own.
8. You back bite your competition in the love triangle. It is already a common fact that
there are several men who are fighting over a certain woman. When you speak against your
competition, you will show her the signs of an insecure person. So do yourself a favor
by being confident and persistent in flirting with her in order to increase your chance
of getting a girlfriend. 9. You are uncomfortable when you are talking
with her. If you have not overcame your approach anxiety yet, you will be having a hard time
in talking and flirting with her. Approach anxiety can be remedied through proper research
and constant correct practice. When you have command with your communication skills, conveying
your interest with the girl will be a breeze! 10. You are too negative in your perspective
in life. As human beings, it is inculcated in us the need of something positive that
we could appreciate. Consequently, we desire the company of someone who can make us feel
good and sexy about ourselves. While the pessimistic people on the other hand will naturally repel
us. Women are attracted to a confident alpha male.
If you are going to show some signs of a needy man, you will blow off your chance of getting
a girlfriend. Consequently, you need to smell the characteristics of insecure men before
they do so that you can remedy the current malady that you are facing. As a result, your
value in the ladies' eyes will increase which is directly proportional to your chance in
getting a girlfriend who will fulfill your wildest fantasies. Once you have overcome
the bad habits of a nice guy, attracting and seducing women of beauty will be just a breeze!