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Hey guys. My name is Shallon and I'm here to help you with all the questions you might
have about love, ***, romance, and everything in between. For more, visit me on twitter
@downtownshallon or be sure to check out my website shallononline.com. Boys, if you really
want to be successful with the opposite sex you're going to have to learn how to flirt.
But don't be discouraged or frightened, this is actually very easy. The cornerstone of
being a good flirt as a man is to number one be confident. I know you can be a little light
on confident sometimes, but if you can just fake it til you make it, a lot of times the
actual confidence will come. There's also a big difference in being confident and being
kind of obnoxious. This goes hand-in-hand with my second point, be nice to girls. Be
nice to the girls you like, and I know this sounds like a no brainer but for example,
when I was 13 the boy I liked used to call me bug bite ***.' Clearly this made an
impression on me, not the impression I think he was hoping for because years later he told
me he had a huge crush on me, wanted me to be his first kiss blah blah blah. How would
I have known that? I know that it's tempting to flirt with a girl by teasing her, or pulling
her hair or pushing her. Don't do it. We don't like it and it's not going to get you the
result you want. You're better off just making eye contact with a girl, smiling and saying
hi if you have nothing else to say than teasing her or being kind of mean because every girl
wants to be treated like a princess, right? Another great flirting strategy is to compliment
a girl. It doesn't have to be some sort of over the top declaration. But a simple ""hey
I really like your hair like that"" will blow her away, I promise. And again and always
smile, even if you have braces. A smile is still better than a frown.