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I'm here to talk to you about two things
that you would think just do not go together
those two things are emotional intelligence
and the laws of attraction
now I was talking to dr. Thomas the other
day when I came for the rehearsal he say
well doc emotional intelligence isn't
that being aware and having clarity
about your feelings in the feelings of other people
when you're in the midst of
a set of circumstances or a situation
with them and I say yeah that is
definitely a definition for that and a
very accurate definition for that but
the truth about emotional intelligence
goes far beyond having just clarity
about people, its clarity about
situations, circumstances, why are you there
when you stop and think about I'm
in this situation I'm in the midst of
something now what is that something and
more than likely that something is a set
of circumstances or a dilemma you may
even encountered that you attracted into
your life and that's where the laws of
attraction come to meet emotional intelligence
like attracts like these
things that you expect come to you
what we believe is that if we say some
affirmations if we take a moment and
visualize something do a vision board or
something of that nature that's what's
going to happen but not true as a
matter of fact if I say right now
do not think
of a chimpanzee wearing a red tie and a
blue and white pinstripe suit whatever
you do, do not picture this chimpanzee
wearing this red bow tie and this blue
pinstripe suit, what do you keep thinking of
the very thing that I told you don't
think about because that is where you
are putting your
emotion that energy plus motion and the
more emotion you pour into anything
the more of that thing you receive, in other words
you can say one thing and do
another and as we well know many of us
typically say all the right things but
do we do them if you don't believe me go
to somebody's house and look at all the
dusty workout equipment look at all the
diets that they tried go to a gym and
look at the people that signed up that
are no longer coming
because what we
have done is we've taken the laws of
attraction and misapplied them we don't
take serious the things that we feel we
deserve enough in order for them to
manifest into our lives and how do you
stop that
real simple
monitor what you feel
what you constantly think about that is
exactly what you get if you keep thinking
I'll never have that
I'll never live in that house you know
that's for them, whoever them are those people are,
when you constantly think about
how much bills are what do you end up with
more pink slips more bills when
you constantly think about I don't want
to gain any more weight or I don't
I need to lose you know lose some of these
bad habits that I have I want to stop
smoking I'm not going to smoke what do
you do the minute the pressure hits you
you go get a cigarette and you smoke again
you get frustrated and you eat again and
as you continue to do these things your
thoughts and your feelings equal the
manifestations that you get in your life
here's the million dollar solution to that
first monitor what you think about
your mind and you know there's a lot
of theories around this concept but I
want to tell you this everything that is seen
comes from that which was not seen
that chair you're sitting in
the clothes you have on right now with
somebody's I did one time somebody
figured I don't know a long time ago
guys should wear a tie
you know we figured somehow that you
know going on horses what enough maybe
if I can build this contraption I could
fly like a bird everything that we do
started out in the unseen and someone
call those things that are not as though
they are and brought them into
manifestation but here's the catch for you
and the solution
you must understand
that conscious thinking is not your solution
conscious thinking is typically
reacting to some set of circumstances
it's typically paying attention to that
which is before you that subconscious
thinking you will associate that with
stuff like have you ever driven home from work
and you don't even remember
driving home because something was just
on your mind or you automatically get in
the car and you just check for something
without even paying attention to what
you're doing your subconscious mind is
the part of you that drives the outcomes
in your life as you learn to master
being sensitive to circumstances paying
particular attention to the nonsicle
things as we call it the little things
if you stop worrying about what
happened in the past and feeling guilty
or I have being anxious about what may
or may not happen in the future and
operate and right now you will train
your subconscious mind to begin
manifesting the things that you truly desire
and a short way of putting this
is everything in your life happens for a reason
your responsibility is to look at
these things in your life and ask this
question, why now,
why is this person
getting on my last nerve well they're
probably getting on your nerves because
there's some part of your character that
is being reflected back to you through
them that you need to work on
we get frustrated and angered
and almost just discombobulated by that
which we do not understand
you have to be
willing to take the time in every
moment every situation in your life and
examine it for its meaning you have to
examine it for its purpose you have to
examine it to see what is this supposed
to teach me right now
in my practice
something that I constantly tell people
that I'm either speaking to in lectures like this
or even in my office is to
stop being so reactive and become proactive
don't wait to talk truly
listen don't just see things look at
them you know when you hear something
you're perceiving it at the expense of
all the white noise or the debris that
surrounds it when you look at something
you are deliberately ignoring things
that otherwise could distract you it
takes effort to be successful but the
greatest effort is mastering how do you
use your mind
as we evolved and I'm not
getting into some religious stuff so
there will be no offering you don't have to panic
but we came from somewhere we
received of a greater source and
conceived when our parents decided to
confirm that but my belief is before we
get here we made a decision
while we were coming
and we came to
experience the contrast and the
challenge that everyday life presents to us
see your Creator which you are a
co participant in that creation
is smarter than you think
as a matter of fact
you can figure out exactly what everything
means in your life, by asking one question
one word, why, and it's okay
you know even in dating ladies it's good to
look at a guy say well why are you here
what is it that you are supposed to
teach me and not thinking he will
probably tell you the truth
the same thing is true of
about the things that you're trying to
court in your day-to-day life in your
career ask yourself why am I doing this
what is motivating me to do this why do
I feel the way that I feel about what
I'm doing and you know you do not have
to wait for an answer, you can get an answer
if you shut everything down
get in a quiet space and simply meditate and
I don't mean lotus position going 'omm'
what I do mean is taking the time to be quiet
to be still to allow your circumstances
to speak to you in such a way that it
resonates at the core you remember I
said emotion it's kind of like that
Geiger counter, when you, you're looking
around for a metal object and the
further away you get the farther away
the chirps get but the closer you get
the closer those chirps get and the way
that you can parallel that to your
spirit speaking to you, is the better you
feel about it, the more you should do it
and if it doesn't make sense to anyone
but you all the better
except the facts but never ever confuse
the facts with the truth
seek the greater truth you know anything that
anyone has ever done that has required
more cause that individual to confront
themselves they confronted their fears
they confronted other people they
confronted culture and had to make a
decision that you know what you said I
can't the system says I can't but
something inside me says what
I can
and when you seek the greater truth you get
into direct alignment for that very
moment that very reason that purpose
that causes your emotional intelligence
and the laws of attraction to become one
as they become one you will find this
sense of passion resonating causing and
stirring up something inside of you as
that passion is stirred up your purpose
then just comes forth you know there's this thing
if you ever watch a football game you
don't see the guy sit there and wait on
the ball to come and you don't see the
quarterback through it after the guys
downfield right when he snaps the ball
and that receiver takes off that ball is
in there sometimes you have to run on faith
you have to run not seeing the
outcome but just knowing that there will
be the result that you desire and as you
feel as you believe, you will receive
because after all that which you seek
ladies and gentlemen, that which you desire
that which you long for
is equally seeking you