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Alright, now let's talk about being a failure. You're not. And probably 99% of the time at
the end of a relationship when a relationship has broken up, you feel like a failure. 'I
screwed this up, I can't do anything right, I can't make relationships work, it's over
for me' and that's not the truth. You are not a failure. What happened was, something
went wrong in the relationship. Maybe it's as simple as you're not compatible. You like
apples and she likes oranges, or vice versa. You like late night, she likes early morning,
whatever it is, you are not a failure. So you have to separate you from the relationship
and look at it in terms of something went wrong. Yeah, maybe you did something or they
did something that made it go wrong, but that does not make you a failure. The key thing
here is to do a little assessment on what went wrong so that you won't make the same
mistakes again. And that's what we're going to talk about next.