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Hey everyone. My name is Allen, co-founder of askromeo.com and on behalf of Expert Village
I'm here to show you how to meet a woman at a supermarket. How to have confidence. There's a couple of
things you want to keep in mind when you are being confident or confidently approaching
somebody else. The first and most important is your body language. You want to make sure
that you have an open stance or an open posture. So your legs should be a little bit further
than a shoulder width apart and you should be open in a comfortable stance. You don't
want to have your arms crossed, you want to keep them out, open at your sides. You can
tuck your thumbs into your pockets, but you want to make sure the majority of your hands
are visible. Your shoulders should be rolled back, sticking out your chest a little bit,
and your chin should be up, exposing your throat just a little bit. Confident body language
will not only make you appear confident to the other person that you are talking to but
more importantly it will actually make you feel confident as the body reinforces itself.
Second thing you want to worry about is your voice intonation. You want a low steady tone
and steady pace, rather than a high pitched and fast pace. The last piece is when you
are talking to them you don't want to take anything personal. You want to act like you're
talking to your friend, just chatting to your mom or dad or somebody that you've known for
years. There's nothing special, there's nothing important about the situation and as a matter
of fact you probably do this all the time because you are the type of person that talks
to the people that they want to talk to. And that is how to be confident.