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there's a good chance that you might not get into your dream school and guess
what
that's okay
not everybody get energy in schools in fact i would say most people probably
don't get into their dreams goals kya
it's fifteen like in the world you're probably nearing that time were you may
be just got your acceptance or rejection letters or or you're about to get them
so just you know
but you need a little bit it's not in the world
you can recoup it's ok anyone to go through some of that
the reason that's okay and then some of them
distant these wheels to get you on the right path so
uh... the first thing here is there are many different path to success
he have a another video this week about most people's dreams schools
uh... but just because you don't go to a harvard or stand for a princeton doesn't
mean that you're not going to be a successful person here
themselves the put drug addicts or the horrendous
weekend and a lot of people for trying to get in the heart yet fully sorted by
everybody everybody you know the the the list of things cause i was a very small
and most people don't go there and thousands of students do but
matching more go to state schools and stuff like that
and that like the opportunities that we opened up from going to that university
professors you mean classes were taken
people you'll dating like social stuff like that does not use you wouldn't have
he went to one of the harbor or something like that so the doors are
necessarily have to to closed permanently just because you didn't get
into the the one reach school that you are applying for um...
no but i think
you also should bear in mind is some
when we talk about commonly when people are laying out you know this is the
school i want to go to uh... oh i only got my safety schools bear in mind those
rich schools probably review
more expensive
um... they might be farther away for instance you might have to have a
instead of living at home you have to live on campus and of course if i had to
be possible for some people it's unnecessary financial burden
bear in mind that they're being forced to go to one of your local reading
schools could in the long run saved tens of thousands dollars sec
consider those silver lining and right and and like you said your first choice
one always necessarily the best one and a couple other things that i can't i
gather is for one thing
rejection builds character which is not being that you always hear when you get
rejected in your life
they are really a good also
don't worry i believe that's me but you have more character as a result of what
i think that like your parent then your mentors and maybe your professor your
teachers and that's what i was like
on you know it happened out there that your conscience to pass a not being
rejected both character in your figure
yeah one mon-wed
you have a ban on handguns that midnight but i think that
that actually is true and you know i mean is that throughout my life you know
a lot of time to think that i've got rejected from are things that i
completely grown from
and um... then later in life realize that it wasn't the best path for me
anyway that half a mind now
i think i'm much happier than the path i was on when i was trying to pursue that
other thing yeah arm and then also that many successful people fail before they
succeeded i think that's probably may or may not now
michael jordan be ahead
and they both didn't make their high school sports teams before they wait
prowling art but some of the most famous athletes in the nation's history have so
just because you get rejected
do you like that florence
feet and we cannot work on this network that so it very little bed
but it's a lot of successful people and didn't fail and i think that is because
reduction does build character you can tell
your whole life
succeeding everything because at some point you're bound to fail
and if you've got to deal with little tiny failures here in their along the
way you learn how to navigate the system and how did
make the most of something when it seems like you don't have that many resources
at your fingertips you learn how to act
find different ways of doing things
if you're forty five and that's the first time you fail
you're gonna have a much harder time getting back on the i'll deal with that
what happened
but also let my my biggest piece of advice i would give to people who are
dealing with the fact that they're going to actual it is right now but i know i
didn't want will talk about our spirits inside another video
and but but you had this idea of where you wanna end up in the stream that you
have but your dreams are gonna change like we always talk about the fact that
many people change their majors how or change their focus inside of the major
and that you may have this idea of like living in going to school
living in this city uh... but
that's not necessarily going to tell last pastor first-year deftly pastor for
years like you will he will adapt it will recover uh... also bear in mind
if your client like prisoner something like that let's say living on the
eastern east coast and you don't get in
let's say he did it in fact many difference probably wouldn't have
suitable leaving them behind now you guys need although the state school
together
that's very true epitome actually a
ob sometimes really difficult to see the silver lining but
it's almost always there and i'm not going i don't
necessary thing like how i making happens for a reason in a land that we
health you're supposed to be
but i think you will make it work for shore hanging all hopefully end up in a
place where
you feel like the earth that's the right fit for you know when you feel like that
is where you're supposed to be any of you feel like you're successful he's
still feel that it is addressed until they make you feel better go on our red
dot com slash r slash college
there are lots of other people commiserating with each other over the
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