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Elegant Femme: This Stuff Works
Hi this is Tara Marino with Elegant Femme and you're gonna see a different side of me
today. I'm seeing a different side of me. So the intention of this video is to really
share with you that this stuff works; what we've been sharing; what we've been teaching;
what we've been talking about actually works, and I have a story to share with you.
So one of the things that we do within the Elegant Femme community is the process called
living visions. It's a process that I guide women through in infusing all their femme
types into a specific visioning process that we write down to assist us in stepping into
our desired life, and whatever it is that is pulling us forward. So some people utilize
vision boards or a combination of both right; it's that opportunity to visualize, envision
and to really get serious and committed to what it is you're wanting to create in your
life.
Well, I teach this process to my kids and my nine-year old has been asking Dave and
I for a dog for a year, and Dave and I have been vehemently; I mean not just like oh well;
we'll see you know. We said no and we said you know what when we move into a chateau.
That was our response to him. Well, he really understands the visioning process very well,
and he started to create his vision book. He actually has a little book where he writes
out his visions and his ideas, and he's been doing this for awhile; not taking no for an
answer; not getting discourage at all when it wasn't showing up or it wasn't happening.
We have a lot to learn from our kids right; there is no discouragement; when every time
I said no that meant when, and he continued to do it.
And this past weekend, we had some more discussions. He was asking us and the answer was still
no, and yet there was some place in my heart that was starting to soften. And the reason
I shared that with you is that I get asked a lot from women; what if I create a vision
and my husband doesn't want what I want, or my boyfriend doesn't want what I want, or
I don't want what my kids want, and we allow that to stop us from even creating the vision
that we want. Something magical happens when you create your vision. There is energy, a
magic that comes in where when you create a vision it unfolds and reveals itself in
a way that allows everyone to feel fulfilled if they choose okay. It's not about pleasing
someone else or holding back and not pleasing yourself. It's about really going for it.
So my son in his book was drawing dogs and one day this will happen, and yesterday; yesterday
we were on our walk home; my husband and I, and we had a little scruffy; scruffy wiry dog follow us home, and my husband and
I were looking, and we were laughing, and we were like what's going on; we're living
inside Dominic's living vision. What is going on here? The dog followed us home; sat underneath
our picnic table; we came up the stairs the housekeeper was here; she said what's going
on? We don't know he just followed us. All of a sudden; it's been 24 hours we have a
dog. His name is Pierre and it’s the wiriest, funniest dog you would have ever seen. If
I'm going to pick a dog you'd think I'd pick an Elegant Femme dog; like a little Pomerania;
really cute floppy lap dog; can sit on a Louis Vuitton hand bag. I told my husband you know
Louis Vuitton hand bag; he said are you kidding this dog needs a duffel bag. It's not what
we would have chosen.
And yet, there are two things I want you to hear. Not only does this stuff really work;
there's something magical when someone infuses emotion into a living vision. There is a place
that softens in our hearts from Pierre. My husband and I; we're feeling more love than
we've allowed ourselves to feel. You would have considered from allowing a dog into
our house. Pierre! Let me see if I
can get him to come over here. It's like hot and gorgeous outside.
(Note: Video ends at 4:01 at my end)
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