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- Ok, lets go back and talk about what you need in order to make the next step.
Imagine, we ask your mother again for help.
What would she say 'Merel needs this or that in order to handle it?'
- Ehm, well, she sometimes says,
ehm, but I do not fully agree on that point, that I need a certain challenge.
Cause at that time the 'brave lion' stands up in me, then he makes shore he is notified,
like 'hold on a minute, oh no, we are gonna do that totally different!'.
That could result in me not being lead by my supervisor,
ehm, it might yeah, but that I do it myself.
The challenge right now is indeed to do it self, ehm, yeah that's right.
But I find it hard in this situation, although it is right, I really find it hard to challenge it again
- Ok, so your mother would add; 'see it as a challenge'
thats what your mother would add?
And you're saying; 'maybe this challenge is to big right now'?
- Hmm, yeah maybe it is, and maybe this is because,
ehm, the controlfreak in me.
That I also want that part of myself, although it might be to tough,
ehm, that I want to have the control of the situation, so I can say,
ok, it concerns me, and I will have to initiate a talk
without someone who takes my hand and leads me and manages time for us to have a talk
-Yes, that is something you don't want anymore?
- No