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Hi everone, today we're going to discuss about negativity, negative people
and ... how to deal with them
have you ever thought about those people that are actually trying to knock you
down with negativity
for example when
they post a response in a forum
in youtube comment
or even in the the real life with the people that are surrounded by you
all these kind of negativity can actually makes you feel really bad there
if you don't know how to deal with it
or actually have the right mindset to deal with it
even i suffer from it sometimes but it's a lot easier these days because i
know how to deal with it
and that's what we're going to discuss about today.
But.. let me ask you a question first
do you think that the person who leaves negative comments is your ideal
friend or customer you would like to have?
the answer is no
let me ask you another question
do you think that's any successful person sits and write negative stuff
about others? NO
i'll tell your absolutely not because they're busy with other things like
running their business
take care of their family or do something positive
So why are people negative in the first place
Well most probably is that they never accomplished anything in their lives
they failed big times
and therefore there have negative attitude
and they don't want you to succeed!
the problem is that ... they're all around you
Now i know you don't gonna like it but uh... it could actually be a close
friend or a family member of yours
i know what you're saying right now it's impossible and all of them for years
well trust me i've been there and experienced it.
it took me awhile to figure this out but if you have the right
mindset you'll realize that's when you have negative comments it could actually
mean that you are on the right path to success
think about it
otherwise they wouldn't bother
so every time you see a negative comments ask yourself this question
may bee i'm on the right path to success otherwise why would he bother.
So how do you deal with these kind of people
Well first and most important is stay away from them.. ignore
them
i know it might hurts a bit especially if it's a friend of yours or a family
member
but you'll realize it that they don't do any good for you
so try to stay away from them.
the second is if it is a family member or friend of yours
you could actually try to talk to them and say hey i would need your support
and
don't be so negative
but uh... don't pay so much attention to that
i'd say that number is good enough
don't waste your energy and fight against those negative people
the only thing you do is you get exhausted and it's better to use that
energy to something positive to your success instead.
The truth is you can't please everyone on this planet you have to accept that
it would be like it watching only one channel on t_v_
or watching only one person on that channel without any options
and that's impossible.
okay hopefully you got something useful out of this video, thank you very much
for watching don't forget to subscribe to my newsletter and my youtube
channel..
and talk to you soon