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Hello everyone, I´m Doctor Bonomi First of all I would like to thank you for
being present on this webinar where I have so many things to tell you about the transgenerational
studies. I´m sure that this is going to be a fantastic
event and I hope that you will feel happy with what you will learn
While we wait for the rest of the participants that are still coming and coming, I will start
telling you about the structure of this webinar The first thing that I will do is to give
you a fast introduction to this matter, that´s what I´m doing right now, then in a minute
or two I will start explaining you how they were discovered, what they are, and what the
transgenerational studies are for. Then you will have the opportunity to participate
with any questions you want to ask me through the chat window. So please be patient and
wait with your questions because it´s very probable that what you wish to ask me will
be answered by me before you ask for it. Don´t worry, you will have enough time to
ask all that you want. And at the end, of course, I will end the webinar with the closing
These are basically the guidelines that we will be following today and as I can see that
most of the participants are already here, it has come the time to start.
Although nobody talks too much about it, the transgenerational inheritances are known since
many years ago. And there´s a phrase on the Bible that says "parents eat green grapes,
and the children grind teeth" In the seventies there was a group of specialists
that used to meet every week and they were: Nicolás Abraham, Maria Torok, Françoise
Dolto, Anne Ancellin Shützenberger, and Didier Dumas
Nicolás Abraham and Maria Torok who worked in the psychiatric hospital of Paris thought
that it could be a good idea to take notes of the delusions of their psychotic patients
and then tell their parents what they had heard.
Thus they realized that not everything said by the patients was completely delusional
things, but that they were delusions mingled with real things. And then they casted the
hypothesis that within each of us is something that could be named the "unconscious clan",
or "the unconscious family" And they realized that in all cases was present
a uniform pattern which was that the child who was delirious was the representative of
an emotional load that had not been able to be handled by his ancestors.
Imagine a fact so serious that it shamed the family when it happened. Perhaps you might
be wondering what kind of situations I am speaking about, and I´m speaking about:
Murders, suicides, robberies, unfair distribution of inheritance, adultery, ***, ***, abortion,
unwanted pregnancies, extra-marital children, someone who is insane or disabled, or one
of the members of the family becomes a criminal, etc. And we can even add to this list the
death of the children A possible reaction is to make the family
feel so much pain or shame that they decide to stop talking about the subject, and it
is also possible to do not talk about it because we don´ t want the world to know it, but
although no one will talk about it, the emotion will be there and that is an energy that we
cannot hide. Bringing out that emotion is something so
painful; that we will hide it as if it were hidden inside a crypt, but the emotion will
remain there. After some time, the emotional burden will
be inherited by one of the children of the family, who will be born with an unconscious
emotional inheritance that is going to guide and influence him throughout his life.
When Doctors Abraham and Török began to treat their patients, on the basis of such
an assumption, the results began to be so significant, that that gave rise to the idea
of the transgenerational inheritance The great lesson of the transgenerational
inheritance is that we are heirs unaware of stories that belong to us in general, but
they are not our stories, because they are the stories of our ancestors, and when we
participate of a transgenerational therapy, we can detach ourselves from those stories
much easier than from own stories. Think now of anything that is problematic
for you today. If you decide to see a therapist this would be the reason of your consultation.
This is what is called the reason of the transgenerational study, and in each transgenerational study
will be analyzed only one problem to make the study fast and easy to understand
In order to understand the transgenerational inheritance, it is necessary to speak first
of the affinities. There are four different types of affinities:
· The natural affinities · The emotional affinities
· The Freudian affinities · The transgenerational affinities
The natural affinities: are very easy to understand. Suppose that a stranger arrives to your house
and he wants to sell you a rug.
The most likely natural reaction will be to close the door and reject it. But if instead
of this unknown fellow you face someone who tells you: Hi, I am the son of the second
cousin who was married to your aunt, I just came from Europe and I wanted to meet you.
Almost surely you won't understand anything,
but what you will feel is that that individual is part of your clan, and then most likely
you will open the door and let him enter.
And our clan is composed by: cousins, uncles, brothers, aunts, grandparents, etc. So many
people belong to the clan.
the emotional affinity: for example when I was young I spent more time with my grandfather
than with my father, for me he was always the model of a man, the example to follow,
the image of the family, and then I naturally felt a strong emotional affinity with him.
In my particular case was my grandfather, but it may have been your godfather, your
aunt and even a neighbor who was symbolically called uncle and seemed to be part of the
family.
The Freudian affinity: is something of what you have all heard because it's the Oedipus
and Electra complexes in classical psychology. These complexes are the names given to the
love that sons feel for their mother and the daughters for their father. This is so common
that surely you all know examples of mothers who feel weakness or predilection for their
sons, and fathers who have a special relationship with their daughters, so this issue does not
require further explanation
And finally there are the transgenerational affinities: this is a very specific unconscious
relationship which is what is being sought through a transgenerational study, because
it is the bond that unites our life to the life of one or more of our ancestors.
I have said before that families frequently
have dramas which cannot be easily assumed by those who suffered them, and therefore
unconsciously they pass them to their offspring, making them responsible for repairing that,
and these tragedies can be repaired by the descendants in many different forms.
· Through the profession or hobbies
· Passing them to their own children
· By our couples and friends. · And they also can be repaired
by means of psychological, organic, functional, or psychiatric diseases
Imagine that someone shows up for a transgenerational
study and tells me that he´s been working on a certain job for the last 10, 15 or 20
years, but that that job has begun to bore him, he no longer has the same passion, and
wants to switch his profession because he has never managed to win enough with it.
This is what is considered a classic repair
case; it is someone who has got a profession because of a transgenerational unconscious
impulse. And that person may even have come to be very good in what he does, but even
working very hard, he won´t be able to make money with that
Repairs through the children occur when the
emotional load of what has happened is so big that surpasses us. We feel like if we
were having a hot potato on our hand, and the easiest way to solve this is to give the
hot potato to one of our descendants. This is as if we were saying: I cannot solve this
problem, so I will give it to someone to solve it for me
Another way to solve my drama is to mate with someone with whom I can share my conflict,
for example I can marry with someone that is the transgenerational double of my mother,
then in many of the fights with my couple, I will be telling her the kind of things that
I didn´t dare to say to my mother. And this sooner or later will lead to the stop of the
*** relationships and eventually to a divorce. Perhaps this is happening at this moment to
some of you. I invite you to make a very simple exercise:
take the date of birth of your spouse, let's assume that your partner was born on June
3th. Subtract 7 days from that date, and then add 7 days to that date, and you will have
a spread of dates that goes from May 27th to June 10th.
Well, if your mother was born between May 27 and June 10 you have married your mother´s
double or in other words you have symbolically married your mother, and this usually doesn't
end well, because no one can have sex with his mother and keep feeling well.
There are several other ways to deduce that you have symbolically married your own mother,
but to do not confuse you, let´s stay with this only example
And I also told you that other way or repairing the family dramas is by means of diseases
If the drama that disrupts us has taken place in the father´s line and we are the representatives
of that drama, somehow we have been programmed to carry it. But we can also carry diseases
that are consequences of the dramas lived by our mother's line, and in the worst cases
we can carry both lines. For example an American physician named Dr.
George Engel suffered a heart attack at the age of 49. Once his transgenerational study
was made it was discovered that one of this doctor's brothers had suddenly died of a heart
attack at the age of 49. And why does it happen that one of the members
of the clan has to repair a family drama? Because the health and survival of the clan
depends on it. Someone has to be responsible for the rotten branches, for the tree to survive.
Then reparations are an act of love, someone assumes the family garbage, so that the rest
of the tree can heal. But repairs do not need to be made through
diseases and suffering, because there is another way of doing them and is to become aware of
the inheritance. And when through a transgenerational study we become aware of our inheritance then
we can start being the masters of our own lives.
There is a central idea that is important to hold after this webinar and is that
What is wrong in your life, is usually the result of family dramas that your clan has
lived And then you will have relationship issues,
suffer diseases, you will have difficulties to achieve further economic progress, and
those problems won´t be related to what you do or do not do, they will be related to the
unconscious impulses that lead to those situations, unless you become aware of what is happening
and learn how to solve them. A transgenerational analysis allows us to
release the dramas that weren't released by our ancestors. And then we will be able to
live our life with freedom, because those dramas do not belong to us, but are complicating
our existence. For example, suppose that something serious
happens to you like a death or a serious offence... Do you keep on thinking about it, and asking
yourself why things have not been otherwise? Perhaps you might say to yourself things like
"If I had not given him permission to go, that wouldn´t have happened"
or "You shouldn´t have gone with him" or "Guilt is ours for not having required
a better professional help" I ask you that you try to remember any specific
situation of your life that you are thinking over and over, because that happens to everyone
and in all sorts of problems, and this rehashing of things over and over again is the consequence
of a "mourning" not carried out, or that has been done in an incomplete way, and that creates
a psychological stress, and a loss of energy which is necessary to repair to take full
control of our lives. Sometimes people think that if you do otherwise
than your parents did, that is a demonstration of your independence. But what happens if
we spend our whole life doing the opposite of what our parents did, and they in turn
have been doing the opposite of what our grandparents did? What happens is that instead of living
our own lives as we should, we will be living then as our grandparents lived it.
What data is important to make a family tree? DISEASES: It is necessary to find people in
your family who have had the same disease that you
The Position In The Family: you should look to those who occupy the same place as for
example being the elder brother or the second son, or the third, etc.
The Name: which of your family members have the same name that you have? If you want an
advice regarding the name, if you are going to have a child, the best thing you can do
is to do not give him the name of anyone in his family. Give to the child the name of
a winner Another very important thing is The Conception,
Birth And Death Dates: for example, if you were born on April 5 and your uncle was born
on April 5 then you're your uncle´s double. And what does it mean that you're your uncle´s
double? It means that you can be linked to your uncle in the physical and psychological
aspects, and the diseases and the achievements and problems in your life.
The *** Identity: If your parents were waiting for a male and a female was born,
then there is a conflict. I have a cousin who is the second son (the
first was a male) and when my aunt became pregnant was very happy thinking that now
she would have a woman, but another male was born, and as she could not resign herself
to that idea in many ways treated him as if he were a girl, he was always the poor the
most pampered, the more considerate and finally turned to be homosexual
The Physical Similarities: To whom do you look like? If you look very much like a predecessor,
that marks you as his successor, with all the consequences that such a thing implies
It is also necessary to take into account The Abortions And Sudden Deaths in the family
as this may affect you The Profession that you currently have is
also something important to consider, because if instead of being a consciously chosen profession
is a repair profession, then you won´t make money with it
So to give you an idea of what the repair professions are, I will mention some of them
• Tailors mend family separations • The chemicals are identified with the
mother so they repair the relationship with their mother
• Professors and teachers repair the pain of someone in the family who has not been
able to study • Those working in industrial, electronics
and computing seek to repair the relationship with their father
• Those who work with math also repair their father
• Psychologists seek to repair the relationship with their mother and the psychological problems
of the family • Bakers look to achieve the family union
• The police the army and the criminals, seek to repair the lack of authority of the
father • Bankers accountants and management graduates
seek to repair the economic problems of their predecessors, such as debts, ruins and inheritances
• Politicians seek to be recognized Normally, those who have a repair profession
try to do the opposite of what has made the one that they want to repair. For example,
if someone has suffered much from a bankruptcy, then one of his offspring will specialize
in economy to learn how to better manage money and ease the pain of his predecessor
One of you might be thinking at this moment: how can I ease the pain that the bankruptcy
inflicted to my grandfather, if my grandfather died long ago?
Make no mistake; do not confuse the bodies of your relatives with your clan. The clan
is always alive within you. Any of you can lose his father or his mother, but they will
always be alive within you and they will continue congratulating you, and criticizing you, and
telling you what you should do. There is a very particular case of transgenerational
inheritance called The Syndrome Of The Lying and this occurs when an unreasonable or unjustifiable
death happens within the family or said in other words an unacceptable death happens
in a family. Let's clarify this a little. If in a family
dies the 90-year-old grandfather surrounded by his children and grandchildren, it may
be something very painful, but is something to be expected, therefore it is somehow justifiable,
but if the one that dies is a 5-year-old boy, that is a death very difficult to accept
When one of these dramatic deaths happen in a family, that creates emptiness that someone
must fill to relieve the pain. And the one who fills it is called "the lying". "The lying"
are people who carry one or more family dead over their shoulders to relieve that pain
"The lying has many distinctive features which include for example
• They say things like: I feel that I am not myself
• I feel very sad and I don´t know why • I cannot enjoy anything
• I'm sad since I was born • And they usually are cold as a dead
• They are hyper active people or people that do not move enough.
A patient told me "my brother is like a piece of furniture, if I go out shopping and leave
him in a certain position, when I come back I find him in the same position". The majority
of the hyperactive children have a dead over them
• They are people who feel divided, as if there were two different personalities acting
within the same body • They sleep as the statues of the French
kings with their arms crossed over their chest (I use to do that from time to time, and that
frightens very much my wife, who asks me to change position because she says that I look
man) • Etc.
We can also become a lying without having any dead in our family, for example when someone
important who does not belong to our family dies, or when someone dies in our arms, we
can inherit some of his transgenerational inheritance
And as we can inherit the pain and become the reclining of our ancestors, we can also
become a lying if an abortion happens before us, and especially if we have the same name
as that child, because we are born to repair the pain of our parents and to replace the
one who was not born This is what it is called a horizontal lying
or a replace child Pregnancy problems, or difficulty having children
is something typically transgenerational. I know a lady that came to see me because
she could not get pregnant and after I did her transgenerational study, I realized that
she had been an unwanted daughter, and that her mother had been an unwanted daughter,
and that her father had been an unwanted son, and that her grandmother had been an unwanted
daughter. Conclusion, my consultant had a mandate to
do not have children and although she wanted to have them, she couldn't have them. Today
she already has two daughters, and at least we have achieved this, but she had both of
them by Caesarea, which is what happens when a mother is not allowed to have children,
a Caesarea is not considered a birth and therefore she is still fulfilling her mandate to do
not give birth to children. Then in the lying we can easily see the consequences
that have a death or separation whose mourning was not properly done. As the mourning is
a central part of the transgenerational analysis, it is important to clarify something
When someone loses a loved one, it is very common that he keeps pondering the loss and
that renders him unable to continue with a normal life, and to clean and heal that wound,
it is necessary to make the mourning But the widower often receives advices as
the following ones • You have to redo your life
• You're going to overcome it • It is only a matter of time to feel better
• He was very old and had complied with his time on Earth
• Do not worry; you can always have another child
• There are people who have suffered more serious problems
• Don't think more about this, you have to continue your life
The person who has suffered a loss has to be able to speak about the dead, and has to
see the photographs of the dead, and must see movies of the dead, and remember the good
times that they have spent with the dead. This is the only way that the person will
save himself of becoming sick, because what you can´t do is to bury the memories, and
therefore we shouldn't ask the mourner to do it, and if he tries to do it, then an unprocessed
pain will be transgenerationally transmitted, and the person will live it as a betrayal
to the dead. A gentleman that loss his beloved wife, four
years after her death said to one of his children: Do you see that time does not fix things?
To me your mother's death hurts as much as the day that happened, but I don't want to
forget it, because my pain is a test of my love
But one thing is to make the mourning and another thing is to erase the memory of the
mourner, to preserve the memory of the good things is something desirable and healthy
This makes me remember the case of a woman who decided to have a transgenerational analysis
by recommendation of his doctor, because after several massages, and rays treatments, and
acupuncture, etc. could not get rid of a pain on the left side of her body.
The study started asking the woman since when she had that pain. And then she started to
cry inconsolably and then she said that the pain had begun after the death of her husband.
Then when it was asked at what time of day the pains were stronger, she said that they
became unbearable at the time of lying in bed, because that was the moment when she
needed more her husband. The next thing instead of a question was a
statement: you probably slept on the right side of your husband. And the woman said surprised
how do you know it? Because the pain is on left side of your body,
and that happens because there is where you feel the lack. If you had died before your
husband, he would probably have come to see me with a pain on the right side of his body.
A couple of years later she said that she hardly felt any pain, but that they had not
gone completely because she retained part of them as a way to remember her husband.
And there is a question that all of you should be asking to yourselves:
With whom will I live until the end of my life?
I am sure that some of you might be thinking that until the end of your days you will surely
be as alone as you are now, because you are thinking in the couple that you don´t have
at this moment, but this it is an incorrect answer, the person with whom you will live
until the end of your days is yourself, and that´s why it is so important that you put
your emotions in order, to be able to live the kind of life that you want.
I believe that I have already given you more information than you can easily assimilate.
In fact I have only made an introduction to the topic so that you can understand what
I speak about in my free articles. If I wanted to explain you in detail this
fascinating topic, instead of a webinar I would possibly need 10, so what I will do
is to shorten this presentation since I believe that with what we have seen it is enough as
an introduction, and those who would like to know more about this, and mainly to know
which is the content of your transgenerational inheritance can always request me a study
to help you. As you have seen, in all the families there
is some drama and hidden histories, and the only way of being the true owners of our lives
is knowing the inheritance implied in our family tree. And knowing it can change forever
not only your life, but also the life of your descendants.
It doesn't care in what level of the tree it is made, somebody has to take charge of
the hidden emotions or they will continue passing from one generation to the other like
an unavoidable karma. And please have in mind that if what you have
is a health problem; you should visit a physician because I DO NOT assist consultations of that
type But if your interest is based on situations
like Not been able to find a job, or to win enough
with the one that you have Not been able to finish your studies
If you are working in something that you don't like
If you feel that there is a hidden force that makes you do what you don't want
If you feel that there is something that it´s stopping you
If you can´t find a couple or you have a very bad relationship with the one that you
have If your life is a succession of failures
If your couple desires to have less and less *** relationships
If you are not able to enjoy the sex and the life
If you can´t get along with some member of your family and you don't know why
If you can´t get pregnant If you feel as if you were not living your
own life If you feel as if you have two different personalities,
one that laughs and the other one that is sad
If since you were children you have always felt very sad and you don't know why
If you suddenly feel like crying without knowing why
If you are afraid of living If you feel very tired and you are not able
to recover If you feel that more than an owner of your
life you are only a spectator of it If you don´t feel able to do the things that
you know that you should do If you realize that you don't allow yourself
to feel pleasure Or if you just feel that there is something
that is not well in you Then depending on the place where you live,
you can choose between having a study in person or to have it through the Internet
The important thing that it is necessary to highlight it is that you can reach the same
results in person or through the Internet Good friends, that is basically everything,
I have already been speaking during enough time, but just as I have promised at the beginning,
before finishing with this webinar I want to give you the opportunity to ask the questions
that you want For that you should use the chat window, and
I will answer all of them or at least as many as I can, so I will stop this conference during
1 minute to give you time to write the questions that you would like to ask.
Begin now writing your questions and I will return in a moment
Adrian My great problem is that I am not lucky in
love. I have lived intense loves with each one of the couples that I have had, but they
always leave me. Can you tell me why do I have this bad luck?
Dear Adrian it is important that you know that it doesn't exist such a thing as the
luck in love, if you have lived several intense loves but you always loose them, that can
only mean that you are the victim of an inheritance of "impossible loves" that is necessary to
detect and to correct Jorge Weapons
How many different problems can we analyze in a transgenerational study?
Dear Jorge Weapons, in each study we should analyze only one problem and I would like
to show you a drawing that I have here that talks about the topic. As you can see, the
plot of relationships of a family tree can be really complex.
When somebody consults me a problem that we have identified with the red color, there
can be several relatives involved with that topic, and in the same way when I am consulted
for the blue problem, there are several people that have to do with it.
To be able to draw this series of relationships and explain them to you in a quick and effective
way, it is what advises us that only one problem is analyzed in each session, because if we
try to analyze your whole life, then instead of transgenerational analyze will we will
be trying to carry out a psychotherapy and that can´t be done in one session
Louise Richards I don't I know well all the dates of my family,
will you be able to study my case if I don´t know them?
Dear Louise Richards, what happens to you in fact happens to many people, some because
they were adopted and others because they just don't know much about their family.
But don´t worry, in a transgenerational study I have to consider two things: the dates and
stories that your present me, and the unconscious information that arises from your tree.
For this reason in some cases the patients finishes relating things that they didn't
knew that they knew, and in some other cases it is me who is going to talk about things
that you didn´t told me but I have discovered in your tree
Jane P I am in couple with the kind of man that I
have always dreamed of, but things are not being exactly as I expected them to be. Which
can the reason and what can I do about it? It is important that you realize that we all
have two minds, the conscious mind (that it is the one that doesn't know why the things
happen to you) and the unconscious mind that it is the one that contains the transgenerational
secrets. You always think that you have freely chosen
the people in your lives. You wanted to be with a blond and strong man and you have united
yourself to a blond and strong man, you wanted to have a woman with a big breast and that
is what you have by your side, but the truth is that none of you has chosen your couple
consciously, they have all been chosen by your unconscious mind, and your unconscious
mind always chooses what is good for the transgenerational inheritance.
Then perhaps you have the blonde with which you have always dreamed, and at the same time
your subconscious has taken you to choose that man, because it knows that with him you
won't be able to sustain a couple throughout the time and that is what your subconscious
wants. Louis Salver
From time to time I feel the desire of committing suicide and I don´t know why.
My dear Louis Salver, sometimes in life some big misfortunes happen to us, and that can
give us the desire of leaving this planet, and I can say this to you because it had happened
to me, but what sounds strange in your question is that you say that sometimes you feel desires
to commit suicide but you don't know why. This makes me immediately consider that that
it is an impulse that arises from your unconscious mind because of some drama that you aren´t
aware of, because it is a drama that has happened within your family, but that it has not happened
to you, although I´m very sorry to tell you that if you don´t solve that problem, your
life could be in danger. Mary Q
My daughter had a miscarry and she feels very bad, how can I help her?
Dear Mary Q. I understand the pain that you and your daughter feel, and as a father I
also understand your desire to help her, so what I would request you to think is:
How are you related with that problem? Or how is your mother or your grandmother related
with that problem? Because your daughter has not simply suffered
an abortion just because. She had an abortion because she is victim of a family inheritance
that doesn't allow your daughter to have descendants. Perhaps you have tried to abort her, or in
your family are histories of abortions or abused children, and that is what makes her
think that it is not good to bring children to the world.
Of course that what has happened to your daughter is something painful for what she cannot be
blamed, at least not if it has been an spontaneous abortion, but the topic to consider is
Is it possible that this happens again? You know that some women had many abortions...
So, could your daughter be in such a danger? Unfortunately I cannot tell you why that happened
to your daughter because I haven´t studied her family tree, but it could be a very good
idea to perform such a study Peter R.
Since I was a small boy, all my family and all my friends called me with a nickname,
nobody calls me Peter. I can introduce myself as Peter, but as soon as they know about my
nickname they stop calling me Peter Can you tell me what is happening?
Dear Peter R. if everybody refuses to call you Peter, that means that you are not recognized,
and when a person is not recognized that usually means that it wasn't recognized when he was
born. When you are born, there are two ways of not
recognizing you, one of them is to be the son of a man that doesn´t feel responsible
for the children that he brought to the world, and another more complicated way is to be
the born by a ***. And what I want you to be aware is that the
woman who was ***, should have been your mother, or other of the women with whom you
are Trans generationally related. Of course that you could ask your mother if
she or some other member of the family had been violated, or if you have been an unwanted
son, but in fact you can save yourself the effort and I can tell you what your mother
will answer to you, because all mothers lie in the same way and she will tell you that
you were a very wanted son and that what they wanted to have was a boy.
So only a study of your family tree can reveal you the origin of your disregard
Mary Louise Hart What I do know is that before having me, my
mother had an abortion. Has that any special significance for me?
Dear Mary Louise Hart, what you have just consulted is extremely outstanding because
it means that you have come to this world to replace the baby that was lost, and that
inheritance could be stronger if you have been given the name of the miscarried baby.
If you have the same name then you are a horizontal reclining, that is to say that you are a replace
daughter, someone that has been born in the place of other and that therefore it has to
inherit what the other one should have inherited. That will surely affect seriously your life
and it can transform it in an unbearable load, or any other of the consequences of being
a reclining that I have mentioned before, and as in my next email I will be sending
to you the link to the replay of this webinar, I advise you to watch it again, and to pay
special attention to the reclining´s topic. Philip Ace
How can I know if I am repairing with my profession? Dear Philip that is quite easy to know, if
you work, work and work and don´t earn enough money then you are repairing, but if you discover
what you are repairing you will be able to make more money doing exactly the same that
you are doing just now Kate S
How can I know if my mother wanted to have a daughter or a son?
I have just told Peter, that you can save yourself the nuisance of asking it to your
mother because she will lie to you. The first thing that she will tell you is
that she wanted to have a girl and was very happy to have you, but the true relies inside
you, and you can end up extracting it and making it conscious by means of a study. I
can´t answer that question for you at this moment, but I can assure you that it can be
answered Mary Sophie
I was born on June 13th on 1965, and my mother was also born in the same date. I was the
biggest of 3 sisters and I suffered more pressure, I received little affection and a lot of responsibility
because I was put in charge of my two sisters. At this time I find it very difficult to get
a couple and I don't really understand how a transgenerational study can help me to achieve
it Dear Mary Sophie, the coincidence of dates
that you mentioned are highly significant, because they indicates that you are your mother´s
double and that means that you have been born to replace her in your acts and in your emotions,
but although that it is a very significant fact, you should know that each one of us
has 24 outstanding dates that can relate us to the other members of the family tree.
The coincidence of dates that you indicate us is only one of those 24 important dates,
and to be able to know exactly what happens to you, I need to know what has happened with
each one of those 24 dates and to compare them with each one of the members of your
family. As you can imagine all those mathematical
calculations take time and that´s what I do when you send me back the questionnaire
that I send to you when you decide to ask for a study.
The first thing that I do is to draw the family tree, then I analyze the coincidences of all
those dates and I relate them to the reason of the consultation, and all the information
that you provided me, and only after that I meet you in an interview, to tell you what
I have discovered and what you should do to solve it
Diana Brown My parents had a very bad experience as a
couple and my grandparents also had a very bad relationship, and I suppose that that
is what has provoked that I also had a bad couple, but I don't know how to solve it
Dear Diana All the things that you mention to me are surely related with your case, but
if you know all that and you still can´t find a man and have a good relationship with
him, that means that more transgenerational information exists within you, of which you
are not conscious, and only when you make it conscious you will be able to be happy
with a couple. Any person that is not a specialist in this
topic can´t have the slightest idea about the transgenerational inheritance that he
or she is carrying. I can assure you that one of these studies
is something very comprehensive and not only is related with your life and your parent's
life, but it is also related with your siblings, your uncles, your 4 grandparents and your
8 great-grandparents. So what you have discovered is very important,
but only when you have been able to overcome your problem, you can consider that you know
all the reasons that originated them Jorge Bald
I have changed several times my employment but I always meet with bosses that don't value
me and treat me bad. Dear Jorge, the problems are not the bosses,
the problem is you or saying it with other words, the problem is inside you, and as you
have it inside, then you take it from one employment to the other, and you will only
be able to solve it discovering what is within you that is provoking that kind of situations
Annabelle M And what happens with the inheritance of the
adopted children? How can we discover it if we don't know who our original family was?
Dear Annabelle M, The first thing that you should ask to yourself is why would anyone
want to adopt a child? And the answer is that they adopt it because they want to have a
child, they want to incorporate a new member to the clan, and from the moment that that
child enters to the house, it becomes part of his parent´s clan, and therefore he is
transferred all the transgenerational inheritance of them.
The adopted children are something extraordinary because it is easy to see how they influence
the families where they enter. I´m sure that you must have heard about a
woman that could not have children and that became pregnant after adopting a child, so
I will tell you a less frequent and much more significant case.
It is about a couple that could not have children because the father was sterile. Then as they
wanted very much to have descendants they decided to adopt a boy, and after they did
it, the mom became pregnant This case shows clearly how incorporating
an adopted children to the family, not only modifies that children´s inheritance but
it also heals and changes the inheritance of its parents because when one member of
the clan heals it heals the whole clan. Well, the webinar is beginning to be too long
so I will answer only one more question Paul Charles
My question is if you are sure that you can heal us with only a single transgenerational
study? Good, finally one of the questions that I
had supposed that you were going to make me has arisen
And the answer is NO, I don´t make the studies to heal you, I carry out an analysis whose
function is to help you become conscious, and to indicate you what you should do to
heal that inheritance, then YOU will be the one that heals yourself. Some will do it more
quickly than others, and others will require several weeks to experience the results.
The content of each consultation is many times very impacting, so much that it is impossible
to absorb it in an instant, and remember that before meeting with you I have to dedicate
a lot of time to the analysis of your problem and the drawing of your tree
Well I think that I have answered many important questions, and that it is time to finish the
webinar, so if some of you made a question that has not been answered don´t worry because
my assistants will give me a copy of all the received questions, and I personally will
answer them all via email as soon as I can. I hope this webinar has been what you hoped
to listen, and it pleases me a lot seeing that it has been interesting enough to make
you stay to the end of it, and before wishing you the best I recommend you to click on the
button that´s under this webinar, and that will take to the page where you will have
the opportunity to ask for your personal transgenerational study.
So if you are ready and willing to improve your life, click on that button and I assure
you that you won't regret it. So thank you again,
With my best wishes Doctor Bonomi