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Hello everyone, this is Fizz... I hope I look professional today, because
I am about to give some pro advises. You know, its part of formalities.
Btw, I don't have any better clothes than these... ;) Ah.. Whatever!
Alright... today, I am going to tell few of the things that you do not realize about Facebook.
That's right, I said Facebook. Yeah!!
I know many of you love facebook or hate it, doesn't matter as I am about to tell you
why you should not be using Facebook? Hey!!!
I am just saying so don't just hate me like that!
Or I should just say, no offence. But seriously..!! Why do people say "no offense"
when they're right before they're about to offend you?
I guess, you can ask this to yourself. Let's come back to our point,
"Why you should not be using Facebook?" I will explain it from my own experience
and it does definitely matches with many other people.
First.. ever since all of my friends and family members had joined in Facebook
In around year 2005... facebook has started to suck all time of my
Life.......! Yeah! Feels good to reconnect.. C'mon, with
people who are far away or most important. We everyone feels happy when we get like
Therefore, we everyone feels happy when we get Pictures or Status "LIKES" notification that comes
in the window every other time with a beep beep noise. Ah, nevermind.
So, again why it is bad? Its the main thing over here.
It's because time is money. Isn't it?? Ok Okay
not only money but can't we spend doing real stuff
like simply reading a book or cycling or learning something that will actually benefits in our
life. Instead of just spending time in Facebook, that doesn't really make sense, most of the
time. Yeah! We can but we don't (me neither). Well, using Facebook not very often is alright
but once you're into it, you won't be able to control your addiction.
Its not a drug but it attracts you to come back again and again.
I would just say that "Hey, get a life" A 13 year old girl would write every little
things in a pinky diary and we are writing that on our Facebook timeline or wall...
Ahh! whichever Facebook calls it. Timeline or Wall, Timeline or Wall, they're
just keep on changing every other time. Anyways...
Secondly -> Facebook friends are not all really friends.
Are they? In average every Facebook account holder have friends in their friend list who
are NOT actually friends, NOT enemies or not that I would want them to be ill.. So why
do we have them..? For Virtual friends? How many virtual friends can you assemble? At
the end it doesn't really makes sense. There's no point to share personal life updates to
people who you don't even know properly or neither connected in real.
Sounds funny if you think it twice... You do think twice right?
Next is the Privacy thingie of Facebook. This is just overplayed in Facebook. I think
too much, too much overplayed. Why would a social media site will force you to write
down personal information? No one force you to write down the name of your high school
or use a real one in any simple sensational media.
Why does facebook forgets that it's a virtual fictional world so what's the big deal of
it? Why you must need to write everything real and then need to verify you and all these
things, its all a virtual world, c'mon. You know, give us some privacy so that we can
do whatever we want. We don't want to put all real stuffs, Do we all? No. Many privacy options you find in the menus
are way too complicated for average Facebook users and it happens to be found that very
less people reads or understands it properly. Therefore, we do not even realize that our
lives are widely exposed to the public without the cruel paradox in their words.
So, people do accuse that Facebook is the evil overlord of data harvesting and.... we
do not think of it when we're actually busy being happy with Facebook activities.
There are lot's of things to talk about in terms of privacy that are exposed to Facebook
or to public but I don't want people to start hating me even more, so I just really don't
say anything much further But finally, one more thing I would say is
that, Facebook is no longer any benefits for longer term. Yes, I said long time not short
time. I really don't think so, yeah. Many many people has said that Facebook is
so good is because they got connected with their elementary
school friends or far away relatives etc. Well, yeah, it does full fills the purpose
I eventually found people whom I've lost contact even years ago.
But the point is, that the joy and enthusiasm we get at first is never there after few weeks
later. its something that is so temporary. I meant short. I even found many lost friends
in Facebook, but do you know what happened after like few weeks to months?
I never could found them online, yes... they're no longer active in Facebook
So, I want to ask again to everyone "what's the benefit in long term?"
I would say ZERO. You're connected with a friend after 20 years later and then he will
be active in Facebook and then he will be no longer active in Facebook.
So I think its not beneficial in long terms. Anyways..
Let's not forget one thing social is all about real society. Okay, I said real society. Cannot
be online even though the efforts made by Facebook by creating an alternative to real
life society. Have you ever thought that if your internet
is unplugged then your e-friends are just gone. Just gone.
Internet is a technology that connects you to online it cannot be compared with real
society, also one more thing that you'd be disappoint about that no more Farm Ville or
Diamond Dash or no Candy Crush playing on Facebook. Once internet is gone then everything
is finished. I've just said what I wanted to say about
Facebook. Don't think, I am against Facebook but I think people should start realizing
about their real life society more than online social media websites.
And............ :D I am still a Facebook addict though! I know you few people are also. Anyways..
That would be all folks, you can tell me about your opinion if you want to or just Take care
of yourself and have a good day. Good Bye