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How to Flirt. There isn't just an art to flirting—there's a science! Use these proven methods to charm
and seduce. You will need A positive attitude and a healthy dose of self-confidence. Step
1. Begin with a bright smile—one that comes from your eyes as well as your lips. Step
2. Say hello and then ask a question that requires more than a "yes" or "no" answer.
For example, "What do you think of the band?" or "Where are we, anyway?" Forget cheesy pick-up
lines. According to one study, a simple "Hi" is the most successful opening line. Step
3. Keep the conversation light. The object is to banter, not get bogged down in a serious
discussion. Step 4. Fiddle a little—with your hair, your jewelry, your clothing. People
do this subconsciously when they are attracted to someone. Doing it intentionally excites
the other person by subliminally telegraphing your interest. Step 5. Put a fun spin on whatever
you say. Everyone is attracted to a person with a good sense of humor. Don't break eye
contact, unless the person is showing you something. Someone who can't take their eyes
off you is very intriguing. Step 6. Lean in as the person talks. It will make him or her
feel fascinating—and find you fascinating in return. Not sure the person you're flirting
with is interested? Look at his or her feet. If they're pointing in your direction, you're
scoring! Step 7. Touch the person lightly on his arm or hand to create a little ***
tension. Just keep it above the belt! Step 8. When it's time to go, give a brief hug
or a peck on the cheek to convey warmth and reinforce your interest. Happy hunting! Did
you know According to one study, winking, smiling, and making eye contact are the three
most successful flirting techniques.