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There are times when you fell into the dreaded pit of slim return in relationship building.
Yes! I am talking about the friend zone. This is where most men don't want to go. It is
like prison without a wall. Look but don't touch. Come closer but don't speak. Win the
race but don't take the reward-sex. It will pain you to see that the woman that you professed
devotions to have one guy after another and will often run to you when the times get rough.
When she has recovered she will look for another guy who will break her heart and the cycle
will go on and on. To the point she will go *** to every guy in town except you.
Does this situation seem familiar to you? You may ask, what can I if you find yourself
in this situation? There are a couple of things that you can do aside from focusing on getting
out of the friend zone. It is said that even dead ends can lead to insights. You can still
salvage the situation to your advantage:
1. Treat her just like a male buddy. This is a tricky gambit that is often encouraged
by master pick up artists. The rationale behind it is to challenge her to become a seductive
woman in your presence in the hope of stimulating her feelings for you. This should be done
playfully in order to be enjoyable for both parties.
2. Make her your wing girl. Oh she just placed you in the friend zone!
Probably, you just mean it. Why not make her your wing woman? This is a very optimistic
point of view that allows you to make good results out of a bad situation. Chances are
your love interest has a lot of gorgeous female friends of her caliber that you can make connections
with. This will give you a competitive advantage over other men because of familiarity. Remember,
birds of the same feathers often flock together.
3. Be her real friend. There is nothing wrong with having a very
gorgeous friend that you can count on. You will have a very attractive shoulder to cry
on! If she friend zoned you, you can friend zone her back! There are a lot of ladies in
the world. Don't allow your world to be crumbled down just because of one woman. Hey! You have
successfully made an amazing friend. You can count on her and she can count on you! Friends
do that, don't they?
4. Talk with other girls and people. Women are very perceptive in the emotional
arena and relationship is under their domain. It is like fighting a sea serpent under the
ocean. You can still win but barely. Most guys make a mistake of only talking to the
woman that he is planning to seduce because they thought that this is a sign of true love.
On the contrary, this will make them look so needy. The beautiful woman will sense this
immediately and she will use this to her advantage (who can blame them? If I am a woman, I would
probably do the same.) You are under her seductive spell but you can still break her tenacious
spell binding grip by talking with other beautiful women. This will immediately ignite a spark
of jealously within her. You may not know it; women are very competitive among themselves.
You did not notice this in the past because these wonderful creatures are very subtle
in their approach. Once you have sensitized yourself to her subtleness, you can better
communicate with her at a very romantic and spiritual level.
5. Just leave. Just like an investor who has made some bad
bets in the stock market, you can exit the market before you will suffer more losses.
This is a very strategic thing to do considering the conservation of your limited resources.
Don't waste your hard earned money on a relationship that will just strain you. Romantic relationships
are supposed to be effortless, intuitive and enjoyable. If she is not giving what you deserve,
be man enough to recognize your current situation and leave. She will respect you for it because
she is very aware that most men will usually go to denial mode when they encounter such
an undesirable situation. If you got stuck in the friend zone, you might
need to improve you game plan and to balance your risk management skills in order to get
the results that you are expecting. Hey! Nobody is perfect and people make mistakes. Get out
of the friend zone! Right now! The real question is how can you make most of the current situation
that you are in? Having this mindset allows you to bounce back into the action with a
vengeance.
Don't put your project in self-improvement to a halt when you visit the friend zone.
Take it as a challenge. My friends! If you are placed in the friend zone don't make a
mistake on pursuing her harder because this will emulate an air of neediness on your part.
The more she will be turned off by your unwanted advances although it is for her welfare. We
can compare being in the friend zone with being stuck in the quick sand. The more you
struggle to move, the more you will sink to the bottom. It is advisable to grab hold of
a strong branch and pull yourself out of oblivion.
Going to the friend zone can be avoided if you learn the right seduction skills necessary
to attract the woman that you choose so that she can choose you back. It is advisable to
find your passion and to continually improve yourself in order to attract the women that
are in sync with your values and desires. Now this is what we call a perfect match!