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Max: In today's episode,
we're talking about what to do
when you just feel totally stuck and inadequate
to create your vision moving forward.
Hi there, I'm Max Simon
and welcome to the Big Vision Show.
This is all about how you can
reach more people and thrive financially.
Now, I have interacted and engaged
with enough people in our tribe
to know that it's just about
inevitable at some point
in your day, month, year
you're just going to feel totally stuck.
You're going to feel completely inadequate
to create your vision and move forward.
It's okay. Just know it happens to everyone.
But what's not okay is how people
usually respond to feeling stuck.
You see, what almost always happens is
that you start to make
everything wrong and bad.
You're wrong, you're bad.
Your business is wrong, your business is bad.
Your team is wrong, your team is bad.
Everything just becomes this massive
focal point of "what's wrong."
So if you're feeling this way,
I want to share with you
some very important principles
that you can use immediately.
To not only get unstuck
but to shift your focus in a direction
that will move you forward.
So first, I always have
Mr. Jeffrey Van Dyk's voice in my mind
saying "Remember Max,
there are no problems to be solved,
just more truths to be revealed."
And what Jeffrey always meant by that is
that instead of trying to make
whatever you're dealing with wrong,
make it the vehicle to look at
what will open up more
of your own truth,
more of your own expansion,
more of your own awareness.
Use it as the vehicle in to
find out what needs to transform.
So once you have that as your
frame of reference for looking at
what's going on in your life,
it should remove all the pressure and tension
about something being wrong
and moving to more this space of curiosity
which brings us to our second point
which is to actually be willing
to say "I don't know."
"I don't know how to shift,"
"I don't know exactly what's wrong,"
"I don't know how to approach this."
And the reason why that's important is
because that immediately creates
this sense of openness, this humbleness,
this opportunity to open up to
receiving new levels of
guidance and wisdom and clarity.
So even though we're so good at
being so certain of everything
as business leaders,
saying I don't know is an
incredibly courageous place to open up to
looking at what's not working
and receiving new wisdom.
The third piece which you've heard me say
over and over and over again
is to seek out
the best in the world.
You see, my experience is that
everybody thinks they can solve their problems
on their own but we absolutely
can't see our blind spots.
So seek out the best in the world
to help you in your particular area.
Be willing to let in that support.
It would just make everything in your life
so much easier when you stop trying
to do it all yourself.
So if you really want to get unstuck
and move through this period more gracefully,
first acknowledge that what's happening
is not actually a problem,
it's just an opportunity to reveal
more of your truth,
more of your path,
more of your purpose.
And with that mindset,
be willing to say I don't know.
Open up to receiving the
guidance and wisdom as necessary.
Be humble about that process.
So that you can start to get
wisdom and messages everywhere you go.
And then third,
seek out the best in the world
and when you find them
talk to them about your
authentic vulnerable fears.
Really let them in to what's going on
inside of you and make sure
that they have the knowledge, the presence,
and the support to move you forward.
When you can employ these three steps,
I assure you the amount of time
you spent feeling stuck and inadequate
will go down to practically nothing.
So that's what I have for you today
and I would love to hear from you.
What are some of the ways
that you've helped yourself get unstuck?
What are ways you've helped
your clients and customers do the same?
Let's create this amazing database
of different solutions and ways
that we can help people move through
their challenges and fears
by posting a comment below.
And of course if you're feeling it
all stuck in your business
or in your income,
head on over to
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sign up to be a part
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you'll get all sorts of
amazing trainings and free wisdom.
And finally if you have
clients, customers, or friends
who are feeling stuck
and you know that they would
benefit from this wisdom,
be an amazing support system
and forward them this video.
Thanks so much for your time.
We'll see you in the next episode.
All my love to you.
So first I always have
Mr. Jeffrey Van Dyk's voice in my mind...
So first...
Mr. Jeffrey Van Dyk's voice.
I always have
Mr. Jeffrey Van Dyk's voice
in my mind saying...
Jeffrey: Remember Max...
Remember Max,
there are no problems to be solved...
stop it.