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Welcome back to Cuckolds101. In our last session we began discussing cheating wives and how
to spot the signs of her being unfaithful. But how is the term cheating used in cuckoldry?
Is it ‘cheating’ or ‘cuckolding’… aren’t they just the same thing? What is
the meaning of cheating? Well literally – and thanks again whoever added this to wiki…
‘couples usually expect *** monogamy of each other. If so, then cheating commonly
refers to forms of infidelity, particularly adultery…
Many people consider cheating to be any violation of the mutually agreed-upon rules or boundaries
of a relationship, which may or may not include *** monogamy…. ‘
Boundaries! What are your boundaries? Have you discussed them with your partner? Are
their boundaries the same as yours…? Or are there going to be no boundaries in your
cuckold relationship? To recap how my interest in this topic came
about I’ll remind you of the couple who when they were complemented on their clearly
strong relationship but the word cheating wife was used they responded…
‘we don’t look at it as cheating... as its all discussed and open. Cuckolding
is the term that’s used... but for us it’s a case of wife enjoying some extra fun with
full permission and knowledge” Clearly as with all aspects of the lifestyle
it is the hotwife, cuckold or cuckold couples own individual interpretation. As we discussed
in the Cuckold Spectrum session, some couples share all of the experience with each other,
they choose their bull together, cuck is present, maybe even joins in.
Other couples chose for the hotwife to be in control of her ‘dates’, sometimes the
bull will take her away and share her with others, while hubby is oblivious to what may
or may not be happening to his wife. Some hotwives don’t allow their cuckold to know
anything about their infidelity. Some cuckolds LOVE not knowing if they are being cucked!
So I decided to ask some real hotwives their opinions on ‘cheating’
Two polls on our forum stood out. The questions we asked were
Have you ever been unfaithful without your partner knowing? And Have You Cheated On Hubby
Without Telling Him?
More than 70% of the hotwives who answered the poll said ‘YES’ to both questions…
I’ll share with you some of the feedback from these hotwives;
Zoe posted “i was cheating on my husband before we got married, spent my hen night
with my black lover walked down the aisle with my lovers *** inside me , had the worst
honeymoon , my poor husband is no good at sex ,, but he is a lovely man , I know have
3 regular black lovers , the best being my next door neighbour , who like me does not
work and we spend so much time *** each other, ha has no problem me *** other
guys” Jacqueline says “Yes I have cheated on my
husband on many occasions. I am totally enamoured with black men and I am rather easy
pickings for them. i do not feel any remorse because my cheating and the *** satisfaction
I achieve with my black lovers enables me to remain a loving wife to my wonderful, but
sexually inadequate husband.” Cheryl – “There are three he doesn't know
about that I do not plan to share ... because I know I would not be able to make him understand
why and don't want to hurt him.” Anne – “only the once as it was so close
to home. But it was a long time ago, so I guess it doesn’t matter too much now…”
Jess – “he knows about the guys but I don’t tell him every time i sleep with them”
Miss J “Far more fun having him know I am doing it and flaunting it in front of him”
*** Mature Wife – “No, I tell him every filthy detail, just to make sure he understands
his role!” SweetBusty – “my husband get off knowing
that I have just made it with some other guy. There is nothing more he like than getting
me to tell him all the details” Roamme – “No, but think about it a lot. He
gave me permission so why not?”
And finally From my new tweeting girlfriend cpl4fun626 – I asked Have You Cheated On
Hubby Without Telling Him? Are you planning to? Have you done it and then told him? She
replied…”yes, yes and yes” So there you have it! Each to their own but
clearly a major part of the hotwife side of the lifestyle IS ‘cheating’…. As well
as TEASING their cuck. In my last ‘cheating wives’ session I’d
like to cover What the cuck thinks about his cheating wife… and how for some couples
her cheating on him led them to the cuckold lifestyle…
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comments there. You can also like our facebook page and follow us on twitter @cuckoldsuk,
and I hope to see you joining in as part of our forum community at cuckolds.co.uk….
Cheating became the lifestyle Topic details-
I have always been secretly turned on by sharing my gir since I was a teenager and my girlfried
cheated on me while we were at a party. My first wife cheated on me on several occasions,
and my current wife has cheated on me LOADS. I have stiffled and hidden my desires to share
my wife until recently as I was embarrased and thought I was a pervert (now,I just accept
the fact that I am a pervert and don't really worry about it :-)).
Xmas party I was rock hard, wanked myself silly. However, when she came home the following
day I went mad at her for cheating, threatened divorce etc. this lasted for about three days
till I couldn't stand it any more, I just had to *** her. All the time we *** I
was thinking about her sighs and cries of ecstacy as he was *** her. I was also
rock hard when I was inside her, imagining her bosses *** being in the very same place
only three days before.
I have since opened opened up to her about my *** excitement at her being *** by
other men, BUT I think my reaction over her and her boss has made her wary of going for
it. She still occasionally cheats but will not admitt it. I hope to be able to re-assure
her that I will be Ok with it but its gonna take time.
We have never talked about cucking. We talked once about her *** past, and I found
we really got off on her recounting her adventures, which in a roundabout way led me to this forum.
The idea of her cheating certainly turns me on, the subversive nature of this, if it has
happened, even more so.
Always wanted to watch my wife with another guy, the answer was always the same No you
was her stance...... I have taken and continue to take full advantage
I suggest cuckolding to her she says she's not interested , and then she cheats behind
my back !!! Any explanation ? do you think that I should talk to her into sleeping with
they have experienced that thrill, they will never change, it gives them a "high" that
topic - I want to be a *** wife, i love my husband but he dose not fill me if you know
have a very high sex drive and had more then my share before i was married…
it was watching and listening to my hot when she was cheating started our lifestyle. I
watched her hundreds of times having sex with men in cars … the first time I caught her
was by accident and she was unaware that I had been spying on her, until she came in
in thinking I was in bed.She first thought I was going to be mad and throw her out, When
she realised how turned on I was and *** her spunky *** on the sofa , and she told
me all about who she had been seeing for months she knew it was all ok with me… This progressed
to her bring men home..
I had suspected she was a while ago, but it was mostly just a feeling and I couldn't find
any evidence, so I had (mostly) forgotten about it. One of her workmates was talking
to, presumably her husband - telling him about the latest work gossip. a young man
on our table, who we had been talking to most of the was having an affair with another of
their colleagues, a much older woman… it was a dream come true on one hand and a nightmare
on the other! Back at home, we headed straight upstairs,
I told her I heard some interesting gossip at the party - about Mark. Watching her closely
I saw a flicker cross her eyes and she swallowed hard. I told her that I
heard that he was having an affair with someone at work,
she started looking really strange, I told her that it was a much older woman and I saw
the dark shadow cross her eyes and I started to tell
her that I found it really exciting, thought of her *** another man.
I told her she could *** him whenever and wherever she wanted as long as there was still
some left for me! and that she should tell me all about it. also told her that I didn't
want him to know that I knew, that I wanted him to think that she was cheating every time
they were together and she was definately up for that.
I'm happy for her to flirt with other guys. In fact I would welcome it, I would welcome
her kissing or, as she enjoys it so much, wanking guys. I dont think it would take much
for her to step into that role, she doesnt see it as cheating.
If ever she wanted sex....well, as long as it wasnt a cheating affair, I'm fine with
that too. But not sure she would.....yet. But I am sure if it was done at her pace......
Is she innocently meeting an old friend or is he *** her stupid? Naturally I wouldn't
be on this forum if I wasn't hugely turned on by the thought of my fantastic wife opening
her legs for another guy and when we have sex I love to think that maybe I'm not the
only *** she's had up her that day.
Should I ask her what's going on and hope to confirm my suspicions or continue to keep
quiet and enjoy what maybe just my wishful thinking?
The question is - Do you want to be her master or her cuck ?
Since she has told me how much she likes the cave man approach and seeing how well she
reacts to it I don't think I have much choice but go for the master option. Is it possible
to be both? Not all cucks have to be sissies surely?
No not all cucks are sissy's. The cuckold lifestyle has no template so to speak so font
think you have to be such a person for it to work for you
From our facebook page I also received the following answers to my questions Have You
Cheated On Hubby Without Telling Him? Are you planning to? Have you done it and then
told him?
More response from their cucks! So I asked Cucks too... what do you think about your
wife going behind your back? Is it a thrill when you spy on her? Or when she comes home
to you full? Do you LOVE her stories of her time with HIM?
Layback AndLetme She did it and told me about 3 years later...close to 15 years ago now...and
that was the start of our official cuckolding love story :)
brandon.jagpal well i just posted a pic of my girlfriend out with her friends wating
for there male stripper it gives me a thrill Robert Cucky-Burns Soon I will be a cuckold
and I couldn't be happier....I'm met a truly a special, special Lady ***