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men (who've become women) are repackaged and shamed into believing this horse *** as part
& parcel of feminized gender role reversal. Thus we get Speed Dating and eHarmony and
a host of other "conveniences" to pacify the insecurities that this reversal instills.
I'm going to suggest that most AFCs, most feminized, conditioned males, like and embrace
the lonely old man myth because it is a Buffer against potential rejection. Does that sound
like a stretch? It shouldn't. When used from a feminized perspective this myth is most
certainly a 'shaming' social convention with the latent function of getting men to commit
to a feminine frame -- "you better change yourself soon, or your soulmate might pass
you by and you'll be lonely and destitute in your old age". That's the feminized use
of the myth, however, the internalized AFC use of the myth is a Buffer. This then becomes
his rationale for settling for a substandard LTR or marriage; better to marry a shrew than
suffer loneliness. It's really a triple whammy. There is the feminine reinforced fear of solitude.
Then, the self-reinforced expectation of maturity or "doing the right thing". And finally the
use of it as a convenient retreat from rejection or potential rejection; and this is what I'm
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Important to gender dynamic: Replace myth. Learn about spinning plates even without doing
that, it's not communication or psychological jargon. The degree of truth you'll learn and
apply will take you past your fear. LiveFearless on NBC. It's about her interest, and this
is the life manual men are missing. The influence affects the mind and you'll notice the attention
you receive. Forget anxiety and know the concepts of status in the real world from the mind
of a man with a wife and a teenager, a loving, long term happy family.