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Have you ever had a crush on a straight guy?
But... Have you ever thought about
a straight girl falling for you?
Hi everyone! Welcome!
This is my second vlog.
I had another topic in mind for today (Liar!)
but...
this one just came out. Well, this is something
we all have been through at least once, I think
this thing of
falling or
having a crush on someone as we say in English
having a crush on
a straight guy
Ok, so we have this crush on a straight guy
and we know that it won't happen, that you can't have him
that you can't do anything to turn him gay, etc.
But what happens
when a straight girl falls for a gay guy?
I mean, in the hypothetic case she doesn't know this guy is gay
and it reminded me
about a couple of experiences I had
when I was in college
There was this couple of girls
who were always flirting me. I really felt harassed by them!
Because they would always try to touch me, to be with me
to be always around and they would tell me...
...flirtatious stuff...
they would even do a sexy dance for me in the club, so...
I didn't know what to do
at that moment I didn't feel
sure about just telling them,
I'm gay, I can't do this and...
So it was really awkward for me.
So I decided
it wasn't the solution
I once told myself
when I was still in the process of accepting myself as a gay man
"So,
if I ever get to know
about a girl
who really likes me and
there is the possibility of being together
I'll try
to see what happens" But when the moment arrived
in the given situation, I couldn't do anything
I realized it wasn't honest
for the both of us
having a relationship
we'd only hurt each other.
But why
do some straight girls look at some gay men?
So I did some research on theories
Because I can't speak for a woman
a straight one falling
for a gay man.
For instance, there is this theory
of... everyone
well, a few
a lot of gay guys are sexier,
more handsome,
they take care of themselves, they know how to dress
so straight girls like it
that's somethin they'd like to see in their boyfriends, that's one reason
In addition, for instance, there's this theory of gay men
expressing their feelings better
they tend to look at
the details
(not everyone)
So,
straight girls like it too.
And the main theory, and the one most people
agree on
is that
human beings by nature
like to have things that are difficult to get
So, since this gay guy
won't give a damn about these girls
he won't want to be around them, the thing gets more difficult
so,
girls would still try it over and over to get this guy. But now,
What if the girl knows this guy is gay?
I asked it to a friend
and she came with an answer
very...
funny for me, you know?
I don't know what you'd think about it
So, she told me
this was a way
of proving herself as a woman
and...
feeling she is able to captivate
a gay guy
feeling she is able to turn him straight
if you want
So, this theory made me laugh
but
I gave it a thought and told myself
it actually makes sense
Maybe this girl actually wants to prove
herself.
Anyway,
we all know
that it's not possible that a girl
can change you just like that.
So now, you tell me
if you've ever had this experience
or what you would do if
that happened to you at a certain point
if you'd play her games or
you'd try
if you'd definitely say no, I can't like you back
or something.
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