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Thank you, Dean Johnson, for such a kind introduction. We’re really pleased to have you join us
in Hanover this year.
Greetings President Kim, members of the Board of Trustees, faculty, staff and, most importantly,
members of the Class of 2015. It gives me great pleasure to welcome you all to the beginning
of Dartmouth’s 242nd year.
I would like to take a moment today to thank Kul Chandra Gautam for being with us. I’m
humbled to share the stage with such a distinguished international figure, and I think my presence
alongside him is illustrative of the tremendous focus that Dartmouth places on undergraduates.
’15s, welcome home. You’ve undoubtedly heard time and time again just how special
your class is – the smartest, the most creative, the most diverse. I can’t say your SAT scores
mean much to me, but I can confirm your potential for academic and personal success from what
I have seen during orientation and pre-o. Your contagious optimism, ceaseless energy
and tremendous promise have been plainly evident in the brief time I’ve spent with you, whether
it be hanging out on the Green, on Webster Avenue or the H-Croo show that I snuck into.
By the way, H-Croo was wonderful, especially with the water purification song, though I
can’t say I miss the taste of iodine.
You are here today to join not just a college, but also a vibrant academic community. The
Dartmouth community is a diverse crossroads of ability, opinion, passion and learning.
If you open your heart, mind and senses to those around you, I promise you will learn
more about yourself than you ever thought possible. One of my favorite books, Less Than
Zero by Bret Easton Ellis, begins with the narrator’s ex-girlfriend telling him, “People
are afraid to merge on freeways in Los Angeles.” In addition to being an odd beginning to a
haunting novel, the sentence bothered the narrator as it bothers me. The statement troubles
me because I see people who are afraid to merge with one another, to open themselves,
to be vulnerable. People hesitate to share their hearts and minds for fear of being hurt
or failing. Don’t be afraid to merge at Dartmouth; it will pay tremendous dividends.
Learn from those around you. I firmly believe that an equal amount of growth, learning and
maturity at Dartmouth occurs outside the classroom as does in it. Engaging with those around
you in this community of ours will provide you with perspective and challenge you endlessly.
I like to tell people that I learn as much from smoking a cigar with the Chabad Rabbi
Moshe Gray as going to a day of classes. Learning doesn’t always look the same, nor are roles
of teacher and student necessarily fixed. All of us – faculty, staff and students
– are teachers and students. Our maturity is dynamic and fluid, a consequence of living
in a community that is ideally designed to thrive on intellectual curiosity at its essence.
Unfortunately, by opening ourselves to the influences of the community around us, we
become susceptible to the pressures that exist within it. A friend of mine lamented one of
these pressures in an op-ed in The D this summer that sparked controversy on campus
as he expostulated the corporate recruiting culture that attracts many upperclassmen.
After reflecting on the article, I discovered that it encapsulated one of my greatest frustrations
at Dartmouth. Many people have a very narrow conception of what success is and how to attain
it at Dartmouth and beyond. I would be remiss if I didn’t mention that, yes, some of us
are meant for Wall Street, and many repay their debt to Dartmouth by subsidizing our
educations. Still, the pressure to conform that a recruiting culture connotes can be,
in my mind, the enemy of intellectual discovery and the uniqueness of the community you are
joining.
Mind you, pressures are larger than career choices. They impact students daily as they
make decisions regarding how to conduct themselves on campus, and they are perpetuated by stereotypes
and campus influences. I implore you to stay true to yourselves, as cliché as that may
sound. Be an individual, not an archetype. Harness the ambition and potential that brought
you to Dartmouth, and have the courage to apply that to what you define as success.
Furthermore, have the mental strength to be proud of what it is you value, even in the
face of tremendous pressure. Now, this can manifest itself in different ways. For some,
it may be having the bravery to take a break from econ classes to explore and discover
an interest in creative writing and the chutzpa to enjoy it and excel. For others, some of
whom I imagine will join Greek houses or other organizations, if an older member of your
group makes an offensive comment at meetings, have the strength to speak up and take issue
with what they say. I promise you people will respect you for your audacity.
’15s, as you navigate the intensely interesting Dartmouth experience that awaits you, many
of you will look to the future. After all, the culmination of your time here will ultimately
be a degree that will propel you toward a career and a successful life, however you
may define that. While goals are good to have, don’t let them blind you from the here and
now. The smallest experiences at Dartmouth can have the biggest impact on our outlooks,
and, furthermore, the mistakes we make mold us into the men and women that we become.
Don’t fear failure; embrace it, and learn from it. The key is to learn how to fail successfully.
If you look too far into the future, you will allow life’s lessons to pass you by.
A friend of mine told me this past spring, much to my chagrin, that she came to Dartmouth
for a 4.0 and a job offer from Goldman Sachs. I was floored, so I told her that she was
missing out on her college experience and to enjoy the ride. ’15s, spontaneity is
key to a meaningful existence on campus. You never know what opportunities may be hidden
in seemingly trivial adventures, whether it be a walk around Occom or a 4 a.m. trip to
Fort Lou’s 24-hour truck stop. By the way, for the latter, get the corned beef hash,
and, if you curse within earshot of the waitress, I promise she won’t serve you.
’15s, welcome to Hanover. Dartmouth will force you to discover the values you hold
rather quickly. It may seem as if everybody already has their values figured out, but,
trust me, many and most pretend. It is okay to explore your outlook and alter it constantly.
Identifying what is important to you is difficult, but the real challenge lies in holding true
to your values and maintaining their integrity in the face of constant questioning. I am
excited for each of you. It seems like just yesterday I was a junior in high school visiting
campus for the first time on the 10s’ homecoming night. Talk about sensory overload. But that
night I learned just how special this college can be, and I feel as if each term I’ve
learned more about this place and myself than every previous term combined. ’15s, you
are in for four of the best years of your lives. Make the most of it. Don’t let it
pass you by. Do not be afraid to merge. Welcome home, you massive shmob of ’15s. We may
call you the worst class ever for the time being, but I know you’re going to be absolutely
great. Thank you.