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Why does my girlfriend enjoy making me jealous?
She might see it as revenge for every time she sees your wandering eyes land on the shapely
rear of another girl.
That’s just men’s biology.
And possessiveness of men is part of her biological makeup.
She tells me about when she goes clubbing with the girls and guys flirt with her.
She might be trying to liven up the relationship by telling you other guys find her attractive,
so you better appreciate what you’ve got. Or it is payback because you flirt with other
people.
Flirting is normal.
Flirting when you are single is an attempt to find a partner. When you have a partner,
it is the first step to finding another one, or cheating.
Is jealousy good for a relationship?
It is actually toxic. By making the other person think you might cheat, you justify
that person reading your email and text messages and violate your privacy in other ways.
Then she’s pulling my strings.
Instead of being fun and flirty with you to revive the passion in your relationship, she’s
flirting with other guys or teasing you about her possibly cheating to make you possessive.
In the short term, it gets attention, but in the long term, you can’t trust her.
And trust is the basis of a relationship. Or is it honesty?
If you don’t trust them, then you wouldn’t believe someone if they told the truth.
If she wanted to liven up our relationship, a $200 spree at a lingerie shop would be sufficient.
And simpler.
Then there are girls who try to make a guy jealous right before breaking up so that it
hurts more.
Now I’m paranoid.
Which is the normal result of making someone jealous. If she wants to revive the romance,
teasing you like this isn’t the right way.
Well, teasing is fine, but only in the bedroom.