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So my dear son !
enough don't you think , it's time you get married
makes us happy
you're already 20 years old
enough !
Really !
So tell my tell me
how do you want her ?
Good house wife , beautiful , and cooks good !!!
Listen ..
Om Sleman's daughter is pretty , neat house wife
and she cooks wonderfully
you want her employed my son ?!
no this one is not employed !
your uncle Abdellfatah's daughter .!
she's perfect
Too old ?!!
what do you mean old ?!
ooh , you want to raise here you self , so you say !!
okay .... i'll think more
i tell you what !
Our neighbor's daughter is young like you want
hmm , but no no , she's a big spender , forget it
Of course my son you want her to be economical of course
A good cook ?!!
A good cook ??!!!
isn't there any thing more important than that ??!!
do you really think that a woman after 2 or 3 years of marriage
would still not know how to cook ??!!
and then if one day she didn't make it in time
to finish the food and get cleaned up and ready to welcome you
you'll start shouting that she's in the kitchen all day
and smells like onion
right ?!
that's not to mention that you want the house to spark
and to be employed !
plus this weird request that men ask for always
for her to be shy ?!
no female, after 3, 4 or even 5 years of marriage
is going to stay shy from with her own husband
plus ...
how is she supposed to stay shy with you ?!!
she's your friend ...
you lover, your partner in life , how is she supposed to be shy with you ?!
and by the way ,
no matter how confident the female is
she would still have the Element of shyness
the female character has that built in
and she would still be shy till the rest of her life in certain
things and circumstances
but not in everything in life
it would make you and here uncomfortable
Young , and you want to raise her your self ???
wither it's the guy's request or his mother's ...
Seriously !!?
do you think there is young these days ?
(ps: young here means ignorant and still naive in personality)
rather than saying i want a woman who's mature
educated , grown and with awareness
so the kids would take from her
because eventually she'll be the one setting with your kids
she'll be educating them , teaching them
this is yes but that is no
she'll tell them what's right and what's wrong in life
so if she was a baby , she won't be able to raise a baby
as for being an economical woman !
i can say that it's a mutual thing that either the man or the woman
if you your self were economical you can reflect that on her
and if she was she would reflect on you too
at the end you are living in one house
but ...
it won't be logical if you go out for fun
and spend as much money you want on your self !
but when she asks for money to buy things for the house
you start calling her big spender
and that she's asking for too much money
and too much Requests
when it's something for the house
then it's for your house ( both of you )
when you ask for a beautiful woman ..
ok , but with all the requests and chores your asking of her
and these responsibilities that you ask her to do
(or some ask the female to do )
no female will stay beautiful
if you want here to stay pretty
then take care of her , please her , help her
i mean ... she's your friend .. your friend
this person is you friend ..
both of you should be the best ( best friends ) in the universe
you are living in the same house
you should be taking care of each other
honestly if i want to talk about this more
i might never finish till infinity
and i'm not going to be Neutral in any way
Because after all i'm a woman too
and i will sympathize with issues women face in life
but i can tell you a few words
look for a woman that
understands you , and you can understand her
someone you can agree with ..
some one who can be your friends like i said before
so you can share you idea and thoughts with her
and she would share her thoughts with you too
some one who has companionship in her heart
someone who can bear with yous bad qualities
because we all have a bad side
not to say i'll erase here personality
and copy my personality into her head
and forget about the stupid Clichés from magazines and TV
forget about (opposites attack )
and that it's better when you both
have very different characters
and that life is more interesting this way
this is nonsense ..
it's ok for some minor things to be different that's for sure
but with things that decide the course of your life together
look for some one who's mostly like you
a woman who's in life has characteristics and habits
similar to yours
this will make you have less fights
and life would be easier
this video , the perfect woman
and the one before that
the perfect man
the idea behind them is that those two does not exist
perfect does not exist
and when we stop looking for that Idealism
and these unrealistic requests we seek in a person
we could see different things
things that are more realistic
that are impinge the Essence and the core
which will lead to better choices in our life
i really want to see what you think about this
on both videos the perfect man and woman
so write me your comments
under the video
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