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How to Express Sympathy with Flowers and Gifts. When it comes to offering condolences, many
people aren't sure what to do. Here's how to help ensure that your gesture is appropriate
and appreciated. You will need Funeral service details A personal touch and an appropriate
message. Step 1. Consider your relationship to the deceased, or the deceased's family.
It's customary for friends and coworkers to send standing sprays or standing baskets for
display at the service; or flowers, plants, or gourmet food baskets to the grieving family's
home. If the family requests charitable donations "in lieu of flowers," by all means make a
donation. But you can send flowers and gifts, too. Step 2. If the mourner is a colleague,
consider pitching in with other coworkers on one large arrangement for the service,
or send a food basket to family's home. If possible, include everyone's name on the card.
Step 3. Check the funeral home for guidance before placing your order. Also make sure
what you have in mind fits with the mourner's religious and cultural traditions. Check out
www.1800flowers.com/sympathy for more information. Most funeral homes don't accept food baskets.
Step 4. Personalize your arrangement by using the deceased's favorite flower or color. Or
custom-design an arrangement that reflects the person's interest with the help of a floral
designer. Due to time constraints, be aware that floral substitutions occasionally may
be made to ensure top quality. Step 5. Include an appropriate message. It can be difficult
to find the right words, but 1-800-Flowers.com has dedicated sympathy professionals who can
help you find the right phrase. Or, go online to select from a list of suggested sentiments.
Step 6. After the funeral, the next few months after a loss can be the hardest. For people
dealing with a loved one’s death, receiving flowers or a card after the condolences stop
coming can be wonderfully comforting.