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Today we're going to be talking about, how to fine tune our relationships, specifically,
how to become that perfect girlfriend. Hi, I'm Joe Cuenco, and I'm with Family Resources.
Well if you can't be that Harvard MBA, the perfect looking woman, well here's some advice,
and actually it's coming from Chris Rock, men are basically pretty simple, Chris Rock
says, that men want three things, they want sex, they want a beer, and they want a sandwich.
Well even though that's kind of at the base level, we do need somebody to understand us
at a fundamental level, to support us, to support our ego, and make us feel important,
make us feel better about ourselves. You need to understand how much space we need, how
much time we need with our friends, and balance that out. We also want to spend a lot of time
with you, and that's important, the time together is very important, but you need to understand
and communicate, what balancer is. There are also some special things that you can do,
just as woman enjoy getting flowers, that special attention, guys will admit it, they
do too as well. You can buy them chocolates, buy us tickets to that special baseball game,
send us a text, "I'm thinking about you, I can't wait to be with you", things like that.
Give us attention, make us feel like we're the most important person on the planet. But
one thing we don't want you to do is, be flirtatious, take that time away from us, give that to
somebody else, or to our friends, so that's one thing I will caution you about. The other
key important dimensions are, just as with successful married couples, love, trust, communication,
respect, friendship, those are all really important dimensions, that a lot of people
really don't understand how fundamental they are. And if you'd like to learn more about
how those relationship dynamics work, attend a work shop, Family Resources conduct those,
marriage education classes are available throughout the country, I would suggest that that would
be a good opportunity for you to learn better about, how to be that perfect girlfriend,
and have that perfect relationship. I'm Joe Cuenco with Family Resources, Relationships
For Life.