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I found it hard to enjoy planning for this wedding, when I knew it would leave us struggling
financially for the next few years. It wasn't that bad.
It was. I mean we weren't going to break up or anything but it was a strain. I mean, I
know I doubted whether it was worth it for a while,
this one day was building up a mountain of debt. Credit cards, and the overdraft and
you know we had the rest of our lives to be together, but when
I saw her walking down the aisle; I knew that it was going to be something I would remember
forever. and he also realised that I was always right
(laughs) Of course dear.
To be honest though, the wedding even helped us notice all the little differences, that
we didn't even notice were there. I think we both
had to get over a lot of insecurities, and just learn to laugh at things.
Yeah it's true. I mean once I had the ring on her finger, and even when we'd moved in
together, that the battle was won and I could look forward
to living my life with her. But the stresses of the wedding did bring out some difficulties,
a lot of little difficulties that we just had to sort out.
Even aside from the money problems. To be honest I was more worried about the
long term. About how we could support each other, how we could share everything like
we did in that first week
Well, we talked over a few things, but, you know, I felt that we really just wanted to
know that we loved each other and that we could overcome
anything. Which we do.
As you can see. Yeah there was a period after the wedding
that was like a come down, um and that was just as bad wasn't it?
Well for me it definitely was, and I had this whole fairytale idea about how everything
would be, and after the big day was over. Reality just
seemed like a chore. And that's when it's lucky that I am happy
with the little things. So you don't mind not having the takeaway's
then? Well, do you miss your girlie nights out?
Hmmm....(laughs) You see how she does that? It's amazing how
accustomed you become to people's habits when you are with them all the time, and I sometimes
wonder if I am a little over sensitive,
I can't believe how you point that out to everyone..
Why not, it's sweet; you're not picking your nose or anything?
Matt!