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How to Talk to Girls. If you're like a lot of guys, you might stumble a bit when talking
to girls. But you don't have to. You will need A girl to talk to Listening skills and
confidence. Step 1. Actively listen when you're talking to a girl and focus on what's important
to her. Step 2. Ask questions that show you're interested. Ask her to expand on something
she told you about herself. Maintain eye contact when you're talking to show you're interested
in her. Step 3. Ask open-ended questions that might have simple answers, but might also
allow you to strike up a conversation. Avoid questions that have "yes" or "no" answers.
You don't want to play 20 questions. Step 4. Act confidently, but don't be cocky. Body
language says a lot about confidence, so stand up straight and practice good posture. Step
5. Speak clearly and with authority. This doesn't mean you should talk like a police
officer, but make sure she hears you and can tell you believe what you're saying. Be direct
and to the point. Showing passion about things you care about is good, but don't overdo it.
Step 6. Keep the conversation light while you're getting to know her. Avoid controversial
topics, like religion and politics, and sad or profound topics, like death. Start on a
lighter note. You want her to remember you fondly, not as a potential threat. Step 7.
Be yourself. That's who you want her to like. Did you know Did You Know? A study found that
of 114 Americans who had been romantically rejected in the eight weeks prior to the study,
40 percent were clinically depressed.