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Why does my boyfriend dream about other girls? He’s with me now.
Dreaming about other girls is not cheating, it is biology.
Next you’re going to say that staring at other girls is normal.
Noticing an attractive girl is normal human behavior. Civilized behavior is taking your
eyes off the girl in the short skirt and talking to your girlfriend instead.
There’s no reason for him to dream about anyone else.
Look at it this way. He dreamed about girls from TV, movies and magazines years before
he was involved with a real girl.
So what?
If he has dreams about his first crush or Playboy centerfold, those dreams predate his
relationship with you.
He ought to dream about me.
Do you give him reason to?
We’re dating. Or are you saying I should send him sexy selfies?
Don’t ever, ever sext someone. The pictures are easily forwarded to others, stolen and
read by others.
Like his roommates.
Or the NSA, since it is monitoring all our communications. They’d get a lot of intelligence
analyst applicants if they admitted that was part of the job description.
Oh, gross. That’s as bad as the TSA guys groping you.
Look, I’m not saying to send him nude pictures or talk dirty on the phone. But he’s more
likely to dream about you if you are more deeply involved than just going to the movies.
What if he dreams about me and other girls?
A man is not responsible for what he dreams. Well, not the dreams he has at night, but
he should control his daydreams.
So dreaming about other women is not a form of cheating.
No. And don’t you ever dream about Fabio?
Who is that?
He was on the cover of a lot of romance novels in the 1990s. Do you ever dream about guys
from the romance novels?
Only 50 shades of gray.
If you get to dream about a rich dude, he can dream about a supermodel. And if you stop
talking about your dreams at night, you’ll get along a lot better during the day.