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How to Split the Bill. The check just arrived; now what? Whether you sipped tap water all
night or ordered a rare bottle of wine, we have an answer. You will need Separate checks
Common sense and courtesy. Step 1. Don't be shy about asking for a separate check – especially
if you're fearful of getting stuck paying for everyone else's extravagance. Just be
sure to do it at the beginning of the evening. Allay the awkwardness by suggesting separate
checks for everyone, unless you're in such a large group that it would be a huge imposition
on the server. Step 2. If the group has agreed to split the bill evenly and everyone's share
is in the same ballpark, don't insist on breaking down the bill to the last penny. Step 3. Offer
to pay your fair share if you ordered more lavishly than anyone else. If, on the other
hand, you were the person who just had a salad, announce, "here's my share," plop down what
you owe, including money for the tip, and don't feel bad about it. If you are estimating
your share, always err on the side of overpaying. Step 4. Don't penalize singles. If three couples
are dining with a solo, the check should not be split four ways – it should be divided
based on seven people. Step 5. Do take children into account. Childless dining companions
shouldn't pay for your kids just because they order from the children's menu and don't drink
***. Step 6. If you’ve invited someone out to dinner on a first date, expect to pay,
especially if you’re a man. After that, you can split checks or take turns picking
up the tab. Step 7. Don't treat anyone to their meal if you can't afford to treat everyone.
Step 8. If it's a business meal, pick up the check if you extended the invitation – unless
the other person is trying to get your business. In that case, it's appropriate for that person
to pay. Did you know Seventy-five percent of survey respondents think that a man should
pay for dinner if he has invited a woman out on a date; eight percent think the couple
should split the check; and two percent think the person who earns the most money should
pay.