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Searching for Wealth- 5 reasons why you are struggling financially
Hello and welcome. This is Sidra Jafri signing in for your webinar regarding searching for
wealth. I truly appreciate and honour each and every one of you who have joined us tonight.
I am super excited and looking forward to being of pure love and assistance and hopefully
giving you a point of view about wealth and money and give you an insight about what's
truly happening in your life regarding money. As you know the topic of the webinar is "5
reasons why you are struggling financially". And I’ll give you some tools and techniques
that will allow you to move or shift your energy or your vibration about money and I
truly look forward to being here with you. So thank you so much for being here. Before
I start I'd like to just introduce you myself and tell you who am I and why am I here and
talking to you.
So, as I said, my name is Sidra Jafri and I am an awakening facilitator which means
that we do live events for the awakening throughout the year. The intention, for those events
is to help you wake up and let go off any programmings, any blockages anything that
is stopping you from truly living the life that you deserve. It's been an amazing journey.
We have hundreds and thousands of people attending the awakening and transforming their lives.
People from houses, mothers, to celebrities to politicians, we have all people come to
us from all walks of life. Then I am a professional friend which means and I emphasise on the
word professional because we all have friends, we all have people who like to give us opinions
to us, who like to advice us on what we are going through.
And the difference between a friend and a professional friend is friends usually, if
you look around your friends are going through similar type stuff which you are going through
and a professional friend is someone who is been there done that, gone through the trouble,
gone through that journey, picked up some tools, got the learnings, transformed their
own lives and now facilitating you and helping you to do exactly do the same with stuff that
really worked in their life and their client's life. We do one to one stage work, live demonstrations,
live transformations at the awakening and one to one at the other events. Then I am
a mother of two beautiful children and I love being in this space and thank you for allowing
me to be in that space and this is my purpose, I feel to help people and my intention is
to actually touch 3.6 billion people living awakened life and make these tools which I
am about to share with you in this webinar available so they can live an awakened life.
So thank you for joining in and I hope that you get your life transformed and pay it forward
and help other people to make a difference in their lives.
Now my intention, as I said earlier, my major overarching intention for my life is to touch
3.6 billion people and my intention for this webinar is four intentions.
The first one is actually to give you the truth about money. What is actually money?
What does money really mean?
Cause most of the time we don’t really think about money, we don't really think, sit and
take some time out and really have a reality check what do I believe about money. What
is money?
What is all this about anyway cause we follow what everybody else is following-Money is
important, Money is this and we must have money and we just follow without even thinking
and hopefully throughout this webinar I’ll give you enough point of views, I'll give
you enough pointers to question what you know about money, and why you are doing what you
are doing anyway. And the difference between money and wealth, most people confuse the
two. They think if you have lots of money you are wealthy. Actually there is a distinction,
and there is a difference between what money is, and what true wealth is and we will explore
that. Then five reasons why you are struggling,
if you are struggling financially or if you are not struggling financially then five reasons
you haven't reached the potential of what you can truly achieve in your life- Why aren't
you a billionaire or Microsoft owner- Why aren't you Steve Jobs? There are basic five
reasons that's stopping you from tapping in to the true potential around money and wealth.
And then I’ll give you three things, like amazing things, if you actually take that
on board, that will transform your relationship with money so that's my intention. And the
other one is that if you are here, listening to me throughout the webinar and engaging
in conversation, posting your learnings in the chat box and really, really participating
actively, then at the end of the webinar, I’ll announce a winner who will win a ticket
to my live event in London. So be present, be here. Make sure that you are actively taking
on board, because there is a difference between active learning and passive learning. Active
learning looks something like this where I give you a tape or I’ll give you a tool
and I ask you to do exercise, you follow it and you are 100% fully here.
Passive listening would be that the webinar would be going on in the background, you probably
would be eating in the kitchen, surfing on web.
That probably wouldn't value, wouldn't give you as much value as the first one. So I invite
you to put everything aside and if truly want to change your financial situation, if you
truly want to change your money situation then now is the time where you be fully present,100%
present here and then we take it from there.
There is a chat box next to you, and you can actually use that chat box by saying hi to
us, interact. Throughout the webinar I am going to ask you some questions and you can
post your answers there or even use fan page as well.
Next, before I take on to this journey into this world of searching for wealth. I would
like you to just know what people who have gone through the programme are sharing with
you and the only reason why I say these things, the only reason why I am mentioning these
people is so that you get the gravitas, the value, of whatever I am showing you, the exact
things which I share in my awakening programmes and my P to P's and those are the things which
people have applied in their life and transformed their personal life.
So, the first person which I would like introduce you to, which has been one of my amazing p2p-ier
or advanced member's, been with us for over a year. She started her journey, and I am
just going to give you a snapshot of her life, that she started her journey with us for various
different reasons and one of the things that she got as a result of being with us or applying
the tool which I am sharing with you is to really receive a pay rise.
She received a pay rise within two weeks and got a better job. Just really shifting her
believes around money and really looking into herself worth and what she truly deserves
and I actually love her for actually taking action and applying the tools cause the tools
which I am sharing with you, tools work should you work. That's what I say all the time.
Then we have, Kiran and Richard almost similar stories where they both are members of our
advanced programme or P to P and they joined the journey, really took on the tools and
applied the tools in their lives which I am going to share with you and transformed. She
is an amazing business owner who on a day to day basis deals with large amounts of money
and just by changing her relationship with money she's now attracting a lot more money,
a lot more clients in life. All you have to have is an open mind as I said to her, and
by the grace of God she did have that. Then Richard Osterfield. He is an amazing,
amazing guy and what I love about Richard is his geniuses and his openness cause he's
been a therapist. He is a therapist actually-an amazing one.
He is a good practitioner and really knows what personal development world is all about
and had an open mind and coming to us really transformed his relationship with money and
shifted to a degree where he himself said beautifully that "Sidra access those parts
where most people can't". So I really like Richard. I think he's an amazing guy.
Connect with him on Facebook if you can find him.
Then Bonnie Marshall. She is an amazing person as well. Joined us a few months ago and through
applying the processes, as I said to you tools work should you work and I can go on and tell
you that how amazing these things are! And once you apply your life will change. It's
a mental concept until you actually experience them, until you actually go through the process,
you will know exactly how I mean. And it took Bonnie a few good advanced courses and awakening
to really get the grasp of what we are sharing and how simple it is cause the hardest part
to understand is the simplicity of it and most of the time because the tools are so
simple and they sound so common sense type that you dismiss it and I please ask you to---
take the simplicity of it with the intention that simplicity does work.
Then we have Penelope Duncan and Eddie Castle both absolutely divine beings. Penelope has
saved a lot more money since she joined us than she has ever saved. Just few months she
saved a lot more and I’ll discuss why that is because there are different aspects of
money and sometimes we are stuck in one aspect and we don't know which aspect it is of awareness.
Once you become aware with what requires attention then you can shift there.
Eddie Castle same story. He is an amazing radio jockey. Search him on Facebook. Pretty
cool dude, very adventurous, travelling. His whole life has shifted. And recently we had
an advanced course and we connected and he said, "I know Sidra why I am here because
these are the coolest people and I love being here". And all of this stuff which I am going
to share with you it's not a course, it's not a session. It's a lifestyle. It has to
become who you are! And the more you start living it, the more difference it will make
to your life. And this is just a few examples and we have
a lot more than these people and similar people are getting better paying jobs and most of
their lives are shifting as a result of applying the tool which I am sharing with you.
And I am going to ask you now that what is your intention. What's your intention for
being here, why are you here, why are you logged on at this time. You could have been
doing anything. The chances are that you have been at work and in the evening most people
get tired and it's national. Some of you it's early in the morning 4 am, some of you its
2 am,3 am and I want to find out what is it that you are looking for. Why are you here?
What's your intention?
And the reason why I am really, really big on intention is if you don't know where you
are going any road will take you there. So write down specifically, take some time, take
few seconds and just think about your intention. And I always say it's terrific to be specific.
What specifically are you looking to get as a result of being with us?
And you are more than welcome to type your intentions in the chat box.
That what is it that you are looking to clear, what is it that you are looking to get clarity
on. Is it clarity you require?
Is it support you require? What are you wanting to get?
Just take some time. Just think about your intention.
Now, this is how we do everything. All of my web posts, I do a lot of chats, I do lots
of webinars, I do group sessions and what we do is whenever we do something we always
create something called "group energy". And the reason why we create group energy is most
of the time we people, believe that they need to get one to one attention to get advice.
They believe that if Sidra speaks to me then I’ll find my answers. And what I realized
from the power of group energy it doesn't matter who I am speaking to or I am addressing,
if you are actually connected with group energy your stuff will be shifted.
And more and more I am doing this more and more I am blown away by the power of the group.
Like people come to the awakening, hundreds of people, and I don't even personally speak
to them and they respond that my entire life has shifted and I go to work and people say,
"hey you look so different". And I haven't spoken to them personally but the difference
is that they have been connected to the group energy. So those of you who are listening
to me right now and those of you who will listen to this recording later are energetically
connected.
I will invite each and every one of you to just go through this process with me. In turn
you will find out or you will experience that I do lots and lots of processes. I do group
processes and by processes what I mean is just a way of accessing your sub-conscious
mind . It's the way of allowing you to be receptive and open to just enter into that
part of your mind that has created the programme, the software that is running and we just,
through processes we enter that and we programme the software so you can change the outlook.
It's like going to the cinema. You know how when you go to the cinema and you watch your
movie. The movie is showing in front of you in the screen so the movie is actually played
behind you through the projector. So in order to change the screen or in order to change
the movie in front of you, you have to go back and change the projector and through
processes that's exactly what we do. We go inside that projector and change the reel
that's playing out in your external life.
And that's why I am really, really big on processes. Processes do truly transform your
life. Should you give yourself permission and allow yourself to experience the processes.
And one thing I guarantee you is that your life will never be the same again should you
give yourself the permission to receive it and know that it's a safe space and know that
whatever I say, whatever I do, is truly, truly is in your highest and that's why I am saying
it because my intention is to be of your love and assistance and I align myself with the
group energy. So let's go through the process now. if you could all just uncross your legs,
and your arms and just take a deep breath in and become fully present in your body...
breathe in and breathe out.. breathe in and breathe out..
and take few deep breaths in and now... focussing on your breathing helps you to quieten your
mind.
Beautiful! And just imagine that a wave of relaxation,
it's just enjoying entering your body. So every nerve, every fibre, every cell in your
body is just bathing relaxing you.... And now in your mind's eye just imagine that
you are in this beautiful big room which is filled with golden white light and there's
so many other people in that room, some are familiar and some are not so familiar and
they are all here and aligned with what you are here for. Just imagine in the middle of
room there's a big ball of energy and that ball of energy will present all of your intentions.
So just imagine you are connected through a little channel of light with that ball of
energy. And just imagine that all the intentions that you asked for are just leaving your body
and just going into that ball of energy. And just breathe in.. peace..
And just breathe out all the intentions why you are here, if you are going through some
anxiety, some issues around money just imagine all of it just leaving your body going into
that big ball of energy and you are connected with that energy. So from now on every process,
every conversation, every topic, every tool, everything that I say or anybody else or picked
up online say will be in alignment with your intention of being here. And just breathe
that in.... And breathe out and just enjoy. Just the feeling of being here.
Now before we through the reasons and before I give you my take on why things are happening
the way they are happening in your life I want you to go through what is actually money.
What goes through your mind, what do you think, what do you feel when somebody asks you, "hey,
what is money"? Is it paper, Is it coins? But few hundred
years ago it was a bag of salt. And then before that it was chicken, then it was pigs.......
Different time has changed the definition of money and what is money anyway. From my
point of view, if you look at it purely from physics point of view, physics says that everything
is energy. E=mc2 Everything what you see as solid is actually
energy moving so slowly that we called it solid and if apply the same principle to money
then money is actually energy. It's a form of energy, it's a form of how we exchange
energies. Nothing else, nothing less nothing more. And the reason why we think of money
differently is because of our beliefs, our thoughts, our programmes, or what have we
learnt about money and I want to here make the distinction between money and wealth.
What is the actually the difference between money and wealth? So money will decide the
money's energy. Money is paper. Money is a form of exchange. You give money you receive
experience. You receive money you give in experience. So that was money. Wealth is much
bigger than money. It's not just money. It applies into all aspects of life. Warren Buffet
really nicely said, he said "Wealth is what is left when all of your money is taken from
you". That's one way of seeing wealth. Wealth is abundance. It's not just financial abundance.
It's your abundance in friendships, it's your abundance in relationships, it's your abundance
in health. So wealth covers more than just money. It covers your emotional abundance.
It covers your mental, it covers your physical, it covers your relations. It's lot more than
true wealth than just money and most of the time people think they are struggling and
they are poor and they are not rich is because they are just focusing on that aspect of wealth
which is called money and if you shake that and expand that and say "hang on, I might
not have much money in the bank at this point in time but I have an amazing group of friends
who are always there for me which means you are wealthy by definition or you have family
or you have possessions, material possessions or you enjoy the home you have. So it's about
expanding your point of view around wealth. It's not just money. It's a lot more than
that. So now when we talk about money I believe
that three aspects of money. Money comes in three aspects. One is receiving money, the
other is retaining money and the third one is experiencing money. So the first one is
receiving money, so which means how much money are you receiving in your life. If you are
working how much are you getting paid, if you think you are not getting paid enough
then the issue or the interference is in that facet of your life. If you think you should
be paid 100 pounds a day or 200 pounds a day and you only earning 20 pounds a day or 30
pounds a day then there is a mismatch of receiving, there's a deserving issue there.
There's something that needs attention. Somebody actually emailed me a question earlier asking
how do we start from nothing, if you have no money how do we actually start earning
and I think if you have virtually no money that, means that the issue is receiving. The
issue here is not valuing yourself enough cause remember I told you money is an exchange
of energy. Sometimes we feel sub- consciously that we don't add enough value to be able
to deserve the receiving. So the issue is here in receiving money and as we through
this webinar and more you can join us at the awakening should you choose to cover a lot
more that than why is that you are not allowing, money in cause money is energy and sometimes
money can't enter because you have a sign for saying "please do not enter". And we go
through processes and tools to allow you to lift that sign up so money knows where it
needs to go.
So first aspect of money which is receiving.
The second aspect of money is retaining how much money can you sustain in your vibration.
Believe it or not most people go through a nervous breakdown if they earn a lot more
than they can handle. A typical classic example of that is lottery winners who go from rags
to riches and from zero to earning hundred millions or millions and then three years
later if you asked they have spent a lot more than what they actually want.
Because the issue is retention of money and then in a day to day example if you want to
find out, if you have an issue around retention of money then you look into your bank account
and see if you manifest takers. One month If you earn a lot more or if you earn just
a little bit more than your usual money and if you got a popping ticket, or your car breaks
down or suddenly you have a friend who needs money a lot. If you find yourself paying for
people then the issue is in retention.
That mean that something in your energy or something in you doesn't feel comfortable
in sustaining your bank account. So the minute it goes up to your comfort level.. BOOM..
something happens. And I was doing some research around and I .. even that's very common with
sales people. Sales people are so used to of having a certain
level of self target which they must, must meet. For example, if someone has a self target
of 15 sales a month if they meet the target in the first week the next three weeks they
will just show. They won't do more. And if they haven't met their target in the last
two days they will work their *** off to 24/7 to actually meet their target. Not known
more why? Because they have set themselves probationally at a certain level of abundance
and they have decided in visible limits saying "I can't do more". And what we do in our events
we actually help you break that barrier . Shift happens just as much your human psyche can
handle you are actually earning the amount of money you feel comfortable with. And the
minute you earn more you sabotage it. Then the third aspect of money which is very
interesting one, I find it very fascinating this one is experiencing money and I want
to make a distinction here that I usually say you know it could be cool spending money
as well but funnily enough we don't like to spend money. People we don't like to lose
things or spending money or we giving things away. We are always trying to receiving. So
we are not spending things we are buying an experience. So if you are spending on courses
or if you are spending money on a car you are actually buying an experience from a car.
So it's not spending it's experiencing so once you shift that little world you will
feel lighter cause you are not just giving you are actually receiving and most of the
time we focus on, "Oh my God, I spent so much money on shoes or I spent so much money on
this car or this game I wanted" but we are focussing on spending and not saying, "Hang
on but I bought this amazing experience". So once you shift that. I had an amazing client
who was a multi- millionaire and then he once said to me, "Sidra I don't know why but I
find it really hard to even spent 10 pounds". In his mind, in his psyche he felt there's
not enough money and that's why he couldn't spend comfortably. Even though his money account
was saying he has enough money to live for the rest of his life but his energy was saying
otherwise. So we had to shift that and now he bought himself really amazing car few months
ago and was very comfortable with it. Now, Five reasons why you are struggling financially
or of you are not struggling financially five reasons why you are not making your full potential,
making the money you truly deserve, why aren't you Carlos Slim, 7.3 billion net worth yet.
These are the five major reasons that's stopping you from making you into the Forbes magazine.
Believe it or not it's as simple as this. Just these five reasons that are stopping
you from making it in the richest people on the planet or even struggling with financially.
So no matter where you are on your financial scale these reasons apply to you. So you could
be earning comfortably but why aren't you receiving more is because of these reasons.
You could be earning nothing and in debt and why are you in debt is because of these five
reasons. So if I were you I will pay 100% attention to what I am about to discover or
explore or share with you.
So the first one, believe it or not, the first reason why you are not money, enough money
or why you are not making the way you want to make is because the fear of moving forward.
One part of you is saying "I want to be financially rich, I want to make money, I want to buy
this house or that car or go this forward" but there's a deep down sub-conscious fear
that's stopping you from making money. Cause money is not just money. Money is identity.
Money is your social stamp. It's a rubber stamp that says, "hang on, if I am earning
this amount I am living here, if I am earning that amount of money I am living in different
area, if I am earning millions I am living in a complete different area. So most people
stop and sabotage because of this fear. Fear of moving forward. There are 5 types of major
fears which stops people from moving forward and those fears are, I'll name them quickly.
I'll go through those fears in detail cause on Sunday at the awakening, we have a transformation
day and I go into the depth and really dissect these fears but I’ll give you an introduction
to these now. It's the five fears are, Fear of rejection. Most people think if you
make a lot more money than your friends, your friends will reject you. Fear of judgement.
If you look around most people will have lots of money actually invite lots of criticism,
lots of judgement in their life and my belief on that is that there's nothing more annoying
than seeing someone happy when you are not. That's why people go, "all those rich buggers
over there" or "all those rich people, they spent this money". And that's the sub-conscious
fear of judgement that's actually stopping you from making money or not. So I invite
you to open your mind and find out, “Hang on, Do I actually fear that if I make a lot
of money people will judge me exactly the way I judge people". Then there's a fear of
abandonment, again people think when they make a lot more money. Cause what you’r
doing is when you make a lot money you are actually moving on a scale of society, you
are moving up scale and then suddenly all your loved ones, all your friends which actually
once shared your misery, once shared your victim-ness around, how bad life is and suddenly
you no longer share the same passion with them, so they will abandon you that's why
people don't make enough money.
And the forth reason is the fear of change. People say I love change.... I hear this all
the time in my classes where people say, “I want a better job, I want a better house,
I want to move but I want everything the same". And change is the name of the game we called
life, you have to have to have to befriend change. If you really want to change your
financial situation you have to love change, you have to know that your job will change,
where you living is changing, where your friends will change. CHANGE CHANGE CHANGE.. If you
embrace change. And the reason they say the fear say is because my known hell is better
than the unknown heaven. That's the sub-conscious programme that's usually running saying, “You
know what I complain about my boss, I complain about my job, I complain about my house and
I am comfortable with that pain and suddenly if you take away that and I no longer have
anything to complain which means I have nothingness and most people are really confused so they
stay where they are.
And the second reason why where you are, is where you are is because of the values. Most
of the times you think you want to make money, you've heard everybody wants to make money
and rich people have this, rich people have time, rich people have freedom, rich people
have that. Suddenly you feel, “You know what I want to be a millionaire, I want to
make money". But your values are actually not money. And the way to find out what really
your values are is to actually look inside, look back, actually do this exercise inside
now. If you could just close your eyes and just look through your mind's eye your weak
where have you spent most of your time. Have you spent most of your time income generating
activities which is money making activities or you spent most of your time, apart from
your job by their way, job of course you have to do, so I am not counting your job cause
some of you are thinking, yeah Sidra I spent my time money making cause I work 9-5. No..
When you get a choice of time, when you have free time what do you do with that time, where
do you call up a friend and hook up for drinks, do you watch movies or do you study or do
you go online research a business idea? What do you do with your spare time? Do you spent
time with your family, do you spend with your loved ones or do you do nothing, read books?
What do you do? And you would be surprised, most of the time when I ask people to do this
exercise they think, “Wow , and I thought money is my key value. Cause if money is your
key value, I was reading this book and the book said, it was on money making, and the
book said, “If you want to make money it doesn't matter what you do between 9am-5pm.
What truly matters is what you do after 5pm will determine if you will make the money
you truly want to make. So look around you are welcome to post your answers in the chatbox....
Where are your values? Where have you spent your time. And usually values are taught by
your parents. Most people follow what their parents are doing. If your parents are busy
making money you will follow or of your parents really have money as their key value chances
are that you will have money as your key value as well. So it's about where do you spend
your time. Values are things that are important to you. Where you spend your time, your energy
and your money. And funnily enough the fact that you are on this webinar right now I have
a feeling that money is your key value otherwise you wouldn't be interested in this type of
topic. So money Is your key value. But there's a conflict somewhere that's sabotaging you
and that's stopping you from making the amount of money you truly want to make. So it's a
little bit of a paradox because I do believe that money is your key value otherwise you
wouldn't be interested in certain type of advert which says, “Come and join us how
to make money". It's about finding your co-values and aligning them with your actions.
Then myths about money. The reason why most people or the reason why at the moment you
are not making money you want to make is because you got into these myths. Money myths.
Where the society teaches us, which is about money, going after money is greedy or could
look something like that there's not enough to go around in the world, I don't get what
I want. Just believing in those myths. I say it's in the collective consciousness which
says if enough people believe in that it's true for some people.
There are the myths about money. We live in an abundant universe you look around universe
is always abundant. Air is abundant, water is abundant, minerals are abundant. All these
natural resources are abundant. So is money. It's in the collective consciousness some
people have installed those beliefs so we don't get money and I’ll tell you a story
and I love that story. The story is about "Warm and Fuzzy". So in this village, lived
James, Jill and James. It's a beautiful couple Jill and James who have two beautiful children
called Tony and Sierra and there's something special about Jill and James. Jill and James
have this bag and that bag had these little cuddly toys called Warm and fuzzy. Warm and
fuzzy have this amazing ability whoever is holding warm and fuzzy suddenly feels all
loved, connected, warm and fuzzy. And not that every time anybody in the village, every
time Sierra was not feeling happy Jill would go and put her hand in the bag, take it out
and give warm and fuzzy to Sierra and suddenly Sierra feels loved and connected and warm
and fuzzy. They have these warm and fuzzy.
All the villagers would come and all the children. Every time Jill will put her hand in the bag
she would find warm and fuzzy and everybody was all loved up, all connected, feeling warm
and fuzzy and the entire village was feeling so loved and in the same village lived a witch.
Now witch was selling these little potions. Potions of love, potions of connection, potions
of money. Potions of abundance. And what was happening is because Jill and James warm and
fuzzy all around, her shop was going bust. Nobody was buying her love potions, nobody
was buying her connections because everybody would go, knock to Jill and James and they
will find warm and fuzzy. Now witch had a plan. What witch did, she went to Jill when
James wasn't home and kids weren't home. She knocked and Jill opened the door and she said,
“I am feeling really dis-connected". Jill said, “Ah don't worry. Sit down. I'll just
bring warm and fuzzy for you". And as Jill was putting her hand in the bag, Witch said,
“hang on, is there enough?
Are there enough warm and fuzzies? I don't think you should give your warm and fuzzies
so easily because one day you will run out of them". Jill disregarded that comment and
pulled out the warm and fuzzy and gave it to the witch. Witch became warm and fuzzy.
Took the warm and fuzzy and off she went. But what she did was she planted that seed
in Jill's mind. Now every time.. One day Sierra's friend came and Sierra said, “Mamma can
we please have warm and fuzzy because my friend needs warm and fuzzy". And as Sierra was putting
her hand in the bag Jill had that thought which witch said. And said, “hang on Sierra,
why are you giving warm and fuzzy, what if we run out of them"?
And slowly and gradually, every time she would put her hand to get warm and fuzzy thought
would get in her head and saying, “what if we run out of them". And she started telling
James off, she started telling Sierra and tony off, saying No, we shouldn't give it
out, we shouldn't give it out and then they started giving less and less warm and fuzzy
out which means that less and less villagers are feeling warm and fuzzy. On the other side
witch's shop was boosting. People are feeling disconnection, people are feeling, they want
the love but there are not enough warm and fuzzies there so people are buying love potions
and her shop is actually boosting. And one day James said to Sierra, “Hang on, every
time, we have been giving warm and fuzzies out for years and years and years and every
time we put our hand in there's always warm and fuzzy there. So what makes you think that
there won’t be enough"?
So Jill stopped and Jill thought, “ah, there's always been enough she woke up and she realized
that somebody has created that belief in her head that there won't be enough that's stopping
her from giving warm and fuzzies. And I feel that's the same with money because somebody
somewhere has told us that there's not enough to go around and we believed that and of course
because we believed that we live by that and our reality is showing us that way. So be-aware
myths versus truth. And at the awakening and in our advanced courses we share that truth
feels light and expansive in your body and something that is not true feels dense and
heavy. Once you experience the awakening you will know what I mean but for now I just want
you to be introduced to the idea of truth, feeling light and expansive and happy and
myth feels dense and heavy. So if you think there's not enough and you feel heavy and
upset about it, that's a myth. So next, beliefs. So the reason why you are
not making the money you want to make is because of the beliefs you have around money. Beliefs
changes you, belief creates your reality. And on that note, I would like to do a quick
process with you. I would like you to listen to my questions carefully and answer them
in the chat box. And the first question is, if you could just open up your minds and answer
my questions as honestly as possible. So I am going to go through these questions and
you are welcome to post them in the chat box. So my first question is, if tomorrow you lost
everything you owned, how confident you are, that you will recover and get back to your
feet? Between 0-10. 10 being you are 100% confident and 0 being I will never recover
from that loss....
I will repeat my question, If tomorrow you lost everything you owned, how confident you
are, that you will recover and get back on to your feet? Between 0-10
No.2) Do you feel that life is a struggle and is a pain to get money? Answer yes or
No. Do you feel that life is a struggle and is a pain to get money?
Do you feel that you have something to offer that is worth paying for? In other words do
you feel that you deserve to receive money? Answer yes or No
No.3) Do you feel resentful towards those who have more than you? And remember honesty
is the first chapter in the book of wisdom. So be honest with yourself. Do you actually
feel resentful towards those who have more than you? Ah, she has a lot more money than
me.?
Do you hear negative comments about money when you are going out. Or did you hear negative
comments about money for example they would look like, rich people are greedy, money doesn't
grow on trees, you have to work hard to get your money. If you heard those comments then
chances are you have been installed with negative beliefs around money.
Next one, Can you imagine yourself never ever worrying about money. Can you actually imagine
in your mind's eye that you have unlimited money and you never have to even worry about
money. You can go and be and do and have, anything you want. Can you actually even imagine
being in that vibration? Or do you always feel, “Shoot, I spent that much money. Ah!
Even though I am a multi millionaire my you would be in that vibration where you never
have to worry about money.
The next, Do you feel that being wealthy will present you with any problems. Do you believe
that if you are a multi, multi, multi , millionaire and if you are super, super rich, do you think
you will have some problems because of that? And answer yes or no..
And finally how your life will shift if you have thousands or millions in your bank. What
would be different in your life. Where would you be if your bank balance showed hundred
thousand pounds or one hundred million pounds. How your life will be different? Where would
you be living? What would you be doing. The funny thing is when I was, over the weekend
, in my vast course I was chatting with somebody. And he is an International speaker and he
speaks about money and finances. And he said, that he was speaking to thousands and ten
thousands of people. And he said, I asked this question that how many of you would like
to be financially independent and want to be a millionaire? Then ten thousand people,
all of them raised their hand. And he said, how many of you are actually financially independent?
Nine thousand something hands went down. Then he asked that question, what would you do
if I give you 1 million pounds right now? What would you do with that money? And most
people said, “I will spend it". They had all the ways to spend their money, “I would
give this to my family, I would buy that house, I would buy that car, I would do this". And
he made a brilliant point and he said, “As long as your focus is on spending money, you
won’t be rich"... Remember three facets of money- Receiving, retaining, and Experiencing
and they all have to be in harmony with each other. They all have to be in balance that
you receive more than you spend, and then you retain and only then you will build up.
So that's your belief and if you have answered yes to any of these questions which means
that you have certain beliefs, certain programmes that don’t serve you. That are not in alignment
with you making money and beliefs look like this- "I am not good enough, it could be,
it works for everybody else but me, and I don’t get what I want" and those are the
beliefs and when we go through, at the awakening, we go through the processes that will teach
you how to shift those beliefs. They are really simple and profound processes, what you can
do that will shift your belief about money.
Then you have Past Programming. And I touched upon past programming when I talked about
values. Remember I said, values are usually that you got from your parents. So if your
parents valued money, you value money. And your parents are actually program you. Did
you know that 99% of the people who are living in the life you are currently living, not
just your relationships, the kind of relationships you have, the kind of people you hang out
with are actually programmed by your parents your teachers and your first caregivers.
The first 5 years of your life, you have been programmed to the maximum amount of money
you will make to the type of relationship you will have what kind of people you will
hang out with. And I say this at the awakening a lot.
one of the principles of awakening is that awareness is the key, you don’t know what
you don’t know! If you are not aware of what your programs are, you cant shift it.
But the good news it that you are in this vibration right now, you are in this vortex
right now, you are in this room right now , where you have a chance to open us and say
"hang on" if I’m a builder right now or a teacher right now, whose program am I running,
who told me that I’m going to be a teacher?.. And tracing back to your caregivers, or your
teachers or your parents and you will be surprised that somebody has stored those beliefs on
you. And things apart from programs look like this
- even parents saying that "oh we don’t want to be rich, rich people are greedy".
Which usually comes from the method of collective consciousness. The values you have, the beliefs
you have. These are the programs that are deeply ingrained so consciously you WANT to
make money that's why you are here, you are listening to this webinar here searching about
wealth, finding out about money and you have this deep, deep programming saying "rich people
are greedy, I’m not greedy, I’m a nice person, I’m loving , I’m caring, I’m
generous, because my dad said, if you are running after money you are greedy"
So consciously society is telling you, you are nothing without money, so you want to
make money. But subconsciously the program in your mind
is saying "please don't make money, otherwise you will be greedy and you are not greedy
are you?" These little undercurrents, these little sabotages,
these little parts of you, that stop you from being in abundance. What we do is hope you
do recognise what's truly happening in your life. One of my favourite things that I’m
exploring in my courses and in "The Awakening" is "whose reality are you validating? Who
said so? According to Who you are earning this much money? Who said you can’t earn
more?" One way to question is, one way to change
is to ask quality questions and one of my principles is asking quality questions. If
you have experience, if you have been to any of my seminars or my talks, you will realise
that what I teach is fundamentally based on mind principles. If you take those principles
your entire life will shift, and the first principle is ask quality questions. If you
ask the questions you will receive the proper answer. So next time anything that shows up
or you becoming aware of your belief, start questioning this, why are you doing what you
are doing, because we are running a programmed life and most of the time we are not aware
of it. This reminds me of a very famous story which
I say all the time which proves how past programming affects us. It’s about that there is a family
feast going on at Christmas time in a big family house and the mom was making lobster.
And the minute she puts the lobster on the pan she cut the lobster s tail. And there
was a little girl she asked her mom she said “Mommy why did you cut the lobster s tail?”
She goes I don’t know. My mom used to do it. And the granny was there.
So she went to granny and said “Granny tell me why do we cut the lobster s tail?” Granny
said I don’t know. My mom used to do it. And the great granny she was frail and she
was lying down in her bed and the little girl went to her and said Great granny please solve
this mystery and tell me why do you cut the lobster s tail? Granny stopped and thought
and she said don’t tell me they are still doing it? My pan was too small. And that's
what happens with all of us.
That we don’t even question WHY are we doing what we are doing somebody's pan was too small
and they cut the lobsters tail and that was going on for generations, somebody told you
that you shouldn’t be rich or rich people are greedy, money makes you greedy and you
can't be a multi millionaire or a billionaire and the we live in that. We believe in that
because we have been living a programmed life. I’m seeing some questions up, but before
I come to the questions let me give you the tools first.
Because I really want to give you the tools, I have given you the reasons WHY your life
is not the way you want it. Now I want life to give you the tools - How you can shift
it? So if you want to attract money into your
life, if you want to change your financial situation. I want to give you three things,
if you embrace that about money, I promise your life will shift as a result of just taking
these things on board. The three things that will transform your
relationship with money is this - Be open and receptive to receiving, it is befriending
money, respecting money, and appreciating money. We have just discovered people have
been condescending money saying money is bad and it’s dirty, if you have a friend and
if this friend is going around *** about you and talking about you, saving nasty things
about you. Would you actually hang out with this kind of friend? I hope you are saying
no! Because I wouldn’t, then how can you expect
money to hang out with you, if you are actually cursing money abusing money and really blaming
you as the root of all evil, then why would money hang out with you, so the first step
to transforming your relationship with money is to actually be-friend money. The way we
do it at the awakening and the advanced courses is, if you want u can take it on board and
tell me let me know later how this will shift your life is write a letter to money and ay
dear money my life is *** without you or dear money we have been playing hide and seek
or whatever you want to truly express. I’m telling you just this one thing will
change everything because at the moment you have no relationship with money, the only
relationship you have is what you heard from other people. So let’s starts from befriending
money, and then secondly respecting money it gives you so much freedom it allows you
to be doing and if you dis-respect by sabotaging this by giving away and not being able to
handle money, then money won’t be able to respect you So respect Money. The way to respect
money is the way to respect where you are spending money. Use it wisely stop abusing
money. If you are a spendthrift then look inside, it’s not moneys fault, it’s your
issue that requires attention and the third thing is appreciate money.
One single tool or tip I give you is to actually be grateful you say "thank you so much for
allowing me to contribute to someone's prosperity and may I receive ten folds" and if you receive
money say "thank you so much for allowing me to be in prosperity". so you are constantly
appreciating, spending, or experiencing money and receiving money.
So you are actually a having a relationship with money because remember all of your life
is relationship if your money situation is not working. Your relationship with money
requires attention. And there are three major tools you can apply right now to defend money,
respect money and appreciate money.
Then quick tools to transform, there is much, much more to this, this is just the tip of
the iceberg. Because if this is the first time you're getting introduced to this, all
this will be new to you, so come to the awakening, and you will find out, how much your life
will shift as a result of just changing your relationship with money so tools transform,
The first thing, I will repeat, to befriend money write a letter to money that is one
of the major tools, go ahead I will give you a work, a playsheet, and I hope you take it
on board is to write a letter to money, change your relationship with money and see, how
your money finances will shift, then respect money and in return your money your money
will respect you back I’m re-iterating what I said earlier and the way you can respect
money is to use it wisely by looking inside and saying hey I respect you. money is a friend
in disguise, it gives you the freedom, it has to be your best friend, it allows you
to have the freedom, and it allows you to buy experiences then love money and I love
this slide, which says "money I love you soo much" you know money is an expression it is
a form of energy at the awakening and the ppts we go through this much, much deeper,
we say if everything is energy and actually everything is love and love is who we are
and we covered and convey different topics but I will just introduce you to the idea,
if everything is love, then money is love! Money is an expression of love and it you
who stopping receiving from that expression of love, remember we did this distinction
between money and wealth, wealth is other aspect of abundance, money is THIS aspect
of abundance.
So what you are doing is if you are struggling financially, you are denying yourself from
receiving money r receiving love in the form of money so next time I want you all to please
do it and let me know how it goes, take a twenty pound note and pick up a fifty note
or dollar or whichever country or currency you have and you hold it up and you say, you
know what?
I love you and I love you this much, lets hang out, lets give more, because now you
know in old paradigm lord was asking you shall receive now there is a new paradigm where
the lord says give and you shall receive. The more you give the more you get and money
is life a flow, money is like water, if you have experience, wherever water goes it nourishes,
it allows you to grow and if the water is stagnant at one place it starts to smell,
it starts to have parasites in it, and same goes for money if you are holding on to it,
if you are stagnant, it will create an interference, money is fluid it comes and goes it comes
and goes and that is how it is meant to be it is an experience.
Now before I’m very aware of time and I want to give you maximum value, I hope you
have maximum value, so I would like to do a quick re-cap before I take any questions
and before I pick a winner, remember I announced that I will pick a winner in the end, a random
winner who will win a ticket to the awakening, so these are some tools I share with you,
there is a lot more to it, there is much more in detail to cover, so if you want to join
us in the next journey, I will quickly go to what we have to offer. so there is a live
event of the awakening in London going on of the 14th and the 15th of September and
"call the awakening" it’s a two day we cover three aspects of your life, money is just
one aspect, work is just one aspect, coz I believe life is like a wheel and there are
three aspect to it. Your relationships, your money which is your wealth and your well being.
And if your life is functioning, how money is playing within these three aspects then
you can live your true life and then you can reach your potential, so at the awakening
we cover all three aspects which is 14 and 15th of September and we cover how to live
an awakened life and signs of awakening. General admissions are free and if you truly want
to experience the connection and if you truly want to really get more out of the awakening,
then we have a separate section, called the separate session called the VIP session and
VIP is not very important person by the way, we have a special definition of VIP, we call
it VIP experience and what VIP experience involves is this - The awakening journal which
I last time we launched at the awakening which everybody really, really enjoyed, it is a
magical journey, it's amazing which will give you all the tools all the processes, define
magic statement gives you cosmic support.
You will know what I mean once you join the journey with us and then there is a special
session called the VIP session on Saturday evening with me in a group, we call it a group
miracle session. where a handful of you and me, sit together and we blast through your
personal issues that's what’s holding you back in any area of your life. Advance session,
advance entry which means that you can enter 5 minutes before everybody else enters, that
allows you to get to your seat you get front row seats, should you want to experience that
and both days you get a light lunch and meet in "greet session" which means you get to
connect with likeminded people and get to experience awakening from a different perspective
and that's what's included in a VIP session. Quick re-cap. Light lunch, advanced registration,
front row seating, private group miracle session with me. Advance entrance in the room, because
for the last year awakening has been jam-packed. we have been full house, hundreds of people
are coming. So advance seating allows you to experience the awakening from a different
point of view, it’s only 97 pounds, put you get a signed copy of the "awakening journal"
as well and I promise you. it is absolutely worth it. Journal makes everything worth it.
And the session. Because in the awakening journal, I will share the tools, I’ll share
with you the tools and the techniques that take it to the next level. In the advance
miracle session where you will experience the magic, it will kick your energy up. I
will go through your timeline and say ok "This happened when you were 6 years old lets change
this lets change that" and once you integrate your entire life. People are getting phenomenal
results just by having group miracle sessions. So that’s the VIP experience. now the time
has come where I pick the winner for VIP and the winner is Tahira Aziz, so let me quickly
have a word with Tahira Aziz. Sidra: Hello Tahira.
Tahira: Hi. Thank you so much. Sidra: Hi Tahira, thank you for watching,
absolute pleasure. quick question, you are based in London right?
Tahira: yes, I am Sidra: Perfection! and you are free on the
14th and 15th of September? Tahira: I will be- definitely.
Sidra: Excellent! im really really excited to actually entertain you and into my VIP
session, you will receive an email from my team and will give you all the details about
the VIP. And I truly truly hope you make it. Have you enjoyed this session?
Tahira: I absolutely loved it. Thank you very much.
Sidra: Did you get value out of it? Tahira:i have .. Yes. yes.
Sidra:Perfect! what was it that you were looking for Tahira.
Tahira: I was a teacher and I left it because I was really stressed because I wanted to
be something else, and get money without being very very stressed.
Sidra: Ok! and what did you love doing? Tahira: I am trying to follow similar path
to yoursef, like im practitioner of ESP. Sidra: Stunning! I think you are a perfect
winner for the VIP session and I truly look forward to seeing you there.
Tahira: OK, Bye, Thank You Sidra:Brilliant, so we have Tahira who has
been the winner of the session. And let me see who is there to take a question, so lets
take a question from Cindy. Cindy: hey, Can you hear me?
Sidra: I would like to welcome you to this amazing webinar, I hope you got the value
out of it? Cindy: Yes, it was very interesting.
Sidra: Perfect, Thank You
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love honour and acknowledge each and every one of you who are on this webinar right now
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you at the awakening and through other channels. Sidra Jafri Signing off- Bye!